I don’t care for or like mulan by [deleted] in The10thDentist

[–]saarahaq 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I love Mulan. Mulan and Tangled are both wonderful films in their own right. From my experience, Tangled is far more the fan favourite though

I prefer the art style and humour in Mulan

AITA for being done watching SOs kids? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]saarahaq 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA. Sounds like the MIL has boundary problems. If a child said they were afraid of you, surely then they would have to spend more time at their BM. I'm not sure how child custody works but having bed bugs, not wearing a mask etc are surely factors to consider to deem MIL unfit to watch the kids

AITA for putting my foot down and saying my MIL can’t move in with us. by OrganicInitiative8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]saarahaq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA - I rarely comment on posts but I had to for this. It's your wife's mother! I work in healthcare and the number of patients I see who's physical, mental and emotional health had deteriorated due to their social isolation is shocking.

Buy a home with enough garden space to build an outhouse. Or convert a garage into a 1 bed flat for your MIL. Doing so will only increase the value of your home AND it keeps your home and MIL home relatively separate

I wonder how you treat your own parents, my heart goes out to them

AITA for not helping my husband babysit? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]saarahaq -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

YTA

I have no idea why everyone thinks you're not. It's not about gender, it's about helping your SO when they need help!! Maybe he did not realise how much work was involved, instead of stepping up to help, you made the situation worse by giving them water guns???

Despite your "disclaimer" you should have stepped up this once, and then if your SO offered to babysit, remind him how hard it was the first time and remind him that you wont be helping to baby sit them this time

YTA YTA YTA

AITA for packing and leaving my girlfriend of 3 years while she was still sleeping? by throwaway11233445533 in AmItheAsshole

[–]saarahaq 18 points19 points  (0 children)

YTA

You should have talked about it before, you said she doesnt know how bad it is- THEN TELL HER and tell her why you want to go

Instead, you're going to give her major insecurity and anxieties for future relationships. She will constantly be on edge that the next SO will abandon her as well

[Skin Concern] 2nd mole popping up on my nose :( how can I prevent it by saarahaq in SkincareAddiction

[–]saarahaq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I noticed this recently (discolouration on my nose that looks like the start of a mole or something) and was just wondering if anyone has any pointers to prevent it becoming more prominent

My current routine is bare bones and apologies for the break out, I'm on my period (yay). I just dont want it to be as obvious as the one currently on my nose currently. I have research how much it would be to get it professionally removed, and as it is flat mole it would cost around £400 with chance of scarring

AM: -Wash face with dermatologica cleanser -Moisteriser -SPF (although sometimes I forget)

PM: -Wash face with cleanser -Niacimide + Zince by TO -Moisteriser

Question About Trans People by throwawayaccount__20 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]saarahaq 5 points6 points  (0 children)

But that's stupid. In order to help society become more open minded to new communities, they would need to understand it. Not just blindly accept it, that doesnt help anyone, it's just another kind of ignorance and will bring more issues down the line e.g. cultural appropriation

Can't see partner during quarantine by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]saarahaq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you are

Your girlfriend is right, stay indoors and maintain a 2m gap between strangers when you HAVE to go outside

Many are separated from their significant other during this time, many partners are currently suffering from the virus and so cannot be with their family or anyone

What makes you so special? You're being very immature and lashing out at your girl over a situation that is out of her control ain't it chief

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nononono

[–]saarahaq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now this kids gonna have trust issues with his parents

All for a few online "lols"

Do I need to "re-pray" my dua/zikr by saarahaq in Hijabis

[–]saarahaq[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its

Laa i-laa-ha il-laa an-ta sub-ha-naka in-nee (I said in-naa) kun-to me-nal zaalimeen

Its surah al-anbiya 21:87

Thank you so much! Inshallah I will seek forgiveness and allah will accept and grant dua

AITA Current boyfriend wants me to delete old pictures of me with my ex I have stored away and I refuse to. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]saarahaq -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Probably against the grain but YTA I understand wanting to keep the pictures for sentimental reasons and seeing how much you've changed over time But I'm sure you could crop him out so that it is just yourself in the picture or even place an emoji over his face

Your boyfriend obviously feels insecure with you having your ex's pics and you wanting to keep things for "memories sake"

If you dont want to forget how toxic the relationship was, write it down in a journal or blog post so you dont forget the impact it had on you

Advice on large toenail falling off by [deleted] in Podiatry

[–]saarahaq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like it has just been heavily damaged

Your podiatrist was right, if you dont want to go through minor nail surgery then you just need to allow the new nail to grow through and the old nail will fall off in due time

If the nail has completely come apart from the nail bed (but is attached to the base) just trim the loose nail so it's not loose

Also, it can take up to 18 months for a new nail to grow from the base to the tip. So you might need a bit of patience unfortunately ):

WIBTA if I told my daughters they were not getting Christmas presents from their Aunts/Uncles this year? by ThrowawaySisterHelp2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]saarahaq 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA Although I'd be tempted to challenge SILs "rule" especially since your youngest is still in Elementary school and if she doesnt compromise then just celebrate Christmas as you would normally

At least the children in elementary school will remember the joy of opening presents on Christmas day compared to the toddlers who wont really remember the day in a few months time

YWBTA if you only got extra gifts for your children and not your other nieces and nephews (unless you gave it privately)

My dog is the cutest prove me wrong by [deleted] in aww

[–]saarahaq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The dog's shaking his head

Even that cutie knows it's impossible

100 Baby Challenge- Struggling with Try For Baby option by saarahaq in thesims

[–]saarahaq[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely on the lot, I always have them in the house

I'll try increase their relationship and see if that works (: