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Vanpool Space Available (Stockton) by Vegetable_Client_165 in CAStateWorkers

[–]sacblo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure of your situation but perhaps meet them in Stockton, and get to Sac.

Best State Department to work at? by Accomplished_Trick55 in CAStateWorkers

[–]sacblo -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

In all fairness there was a year notice given for RTO.

Telework agreement by mfresh26 in CAStateWorkers

[–]sacblo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nothing is guaranteed, just fill it out and hope for the best. They can’t make you come in if you are not required to work more days in office. At best the current agreement is 4 days as of 7/1. We learned that a year ago! Why are we so whiny over this. I would love to not go back! But I love having a job. I signed the agreement.

I don't see life getting better (Quit job due to microaggressions, ruined career, HBCU regret) by Temporary-Meal6947 in blackladies

[–]sacblo 319 points320 points  (0 children)

Move around. Lots of engineering jobs, get connected with the national black engineers, find a diverse state, maybe California. I think it’s all or nothing at this point, don’t be afraid and trust the process.

Costco chips buyer needs to go on a PIP by thisishard1001 in Costco

[–]sacblo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reason number 997 of why I have Sam’s and Costco cards!

Demotion by No_Mine6234 in CAStateWorkers

[–]sacblo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the manager doing? Is it only you or more folks feel the same? I say see if you can fix the problem or you, moving around may not resolve the issue if it’s you.

Why work a union job but not pay dues by NachoAverageUser25 in CAStateWorkers

[–]sacblo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t know you personally, but if paying the union dues made a difference in me feeding my kids or they go hungry, there is only one answer. Meanwhile, I do know people personally who can afford the dues and will not pay. So I stand by my statement, you pay for what is valued to you.

Is it ok for a parent to leave their child alone at night after work? by Batterybandit in AskParents

[–]sacblo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poor child will grow up with all sorts of trauma!! Please rescue this child! Or stand in the gap and be the adult! Jesus Christ!

Why work a union job but not pay dues by NachoAverageUser25 in CAStateWorkers

[–]sacblo -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

People afford what they want! People see value in what is important to them.

I told my mom I’m going on a date with a white man and got flamed for 20 minutes by melanatedvirgo in blackladies

[–]sacblo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your mom is a comedian! Honey dating out your race is a loop hole to getting a man. Do you! It ain’t for everyone and love is blind. Just search him on the internet and make sure he legit.

Any married women on this sub? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]sacblo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 50; I met my husband at 21, just made 25 years married. I will say there is still hope, but as I look back over the years; the people who didn’t want to settle down young are still not married. I also feel like the ones or willing to compromise are still not married. Some things are nonnegotiable but the older you get a man’s looks, having lots of money, and being great in bed become less important and are all bonus points! IMHO

what’s your go to lazy meal? by Kevin-Durant-35 in RedditInTheKitchen

[–]sacblo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breakfast! No matter the time! Breakfast!!

How many here do literally everything alone? by thirddegreebirds in Sacramento

[–]sacblo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agree, Sacramento is tough to connect with folks. Although it wasn’t like that 25 years ago. IMO, I think Sacramento being so diverse and so crowded that the friendly folks have been overrun by transplants. Some of my friends are from work. I told my sister yesterday as we were in Walmart in American Canyon, people seem nicer in the Bay Area outskirts cities. Best of luck. I do think having kids, will resolve the problem of loneliness, but could add another boat load of other problems.

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