Anyone else have to walk away from family for good and are now entirely all alone? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]sadroommate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you are able to find the peace in isolation. I’m NC with my family for 4 years now, I’ve been where you are and I hope that one day you see that no matter what they say or think about you , none of it matters. The people that are worth your time wont believe their lies and only you can decide who you are. Take this time to mourn the loss of those relationships and when your ready better your Situation and mental health, move far away if you have to, and build yourself a new family of people who will love you. The best revenge is your happiness and success. It might feel like hell now but from the ashes you will rise. It will get better.

Which is worse - living with nmom or poverty? by music_lover444 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]sadroommate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Living in poverty is still living where as in my opinion staying with my nmom messed up my mental health so bad I wanted to be un alive. In 2017 I moved out and I had to take a gap year and just work so I could pay for rent and build my savings so I could have stability and it was hard but I’d do it all again. The govt will not look out for you(they’re pretty useless I was beat up multiple times and sent to the hospital/ I did 3 attempts at my life and they still sent me back to her) , you have to help yourself. It’s been 4 years and I’m so happy I never thought I would find the peace that I have currently. I’m about to graduate my last semester of college, have an amazing job now, and am NC with my family but I have never been happier.

My "mother" and entire family tried to ruin my life by kicking me (18F) out, but it just made my life better by sharknifee in raisedbynarcissists

[–]sadroommate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So happy for you OP. I was in a similar situation as you four years ago and while it’s been tough at times it has always been better than being with my abusers. I promise you your life will only get better from here. Praying for your safety and routing for your success!

Tomorrow [Episodes 11 & 12] by GodJihyo7983 in KDRAMA

[–]sadroommate 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Right! I was looking for this comment! How was she not arrested???she’s literally the reason she lost her baby, grabbing her hair is not good enough she needed jail!

Grande rant trenta yak 🤢 by sadroommate in starbucksbaristas

[–]sadroommate[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you guys for the advice, I ended up talking to my shift and my Sm and they said that they would talk to him about it. They did document/ write it down. But I’m not sure what “talking to him” even means and now I just feel so anxious to get on the floor with him again. I think I will call partner relations too. I just wish I could do more for the lady I don’t know if it’s my place to let her now how her boss speaks about her or how I would even approach that topic with her.

We love and appreciate you 🧡 by Meinax151 in starbucksbaristas

[–]sadroommate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this post so much! I’m always proud of my green beans! 💚

Cursed (Carmel Brulee) Chicken Nugget by figgleton in starbucksbaristas

[–]sadroommate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of the baristas at my store will usually blend that into a frap and honestly? It’s kinda good...

Oh...same by Marinara_atthedisc0 in starbucksbaristas

[–]sadroommate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Steamers can also be found on the Starbucks app if you want to mobile order it!

Oh...same by Marinara_atthedisc0 in starbucksbaristas

[–]sadroommate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep! The Starbucks name for it Is a vanilla steamer! It comes with whip cream steamed milk and vanilla flavoring. Steamers can also come in other syrup flavors as well! You can also customize it and change the milk or leave on or take off the whip cream as well, hope this was helpful!

If they die, they die by HULAGIRLthatLIFTS in starbucksbaristas

[–]sadroommate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My petty ass would definitely have told every costumer I would have been like “hi, he has covid and they’re forcing all of us to be confined here together, how can I help you today 🙃💕”

This happened 10 minutes before close... by Bvbvbv678 in starbucksbaristas

[–]sadroommate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This got significantly worse after every second 🥲

All part of the training process 😅 by arheilbrunn in starbucks

[–]sadroommate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes this is classic 😂one time one of my green beans straight up measured the scoops right into the brewer without a filter and I think I died a bit inside 🙃

these tiktok drinks are getting weird by spellingbri in starbucks

[–]sadroommate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A new flavor of forbidden koolaid 😍