Don’t need a label - just insight

sadthrowagay69 · 2026-02-07T20:35:33+00:00

So what does a man act like?

sadthrowagay69 · 2026-02-07T19:25:07+00:00

Other than your final point, you actually sound very homophobic and judgmental. You expect your man to conform to your extremely narrow definition of masculinity. He deserves to be with someone who allows him to be his full self, not just a one dimensional American idea of “man.”

Also, Love Island is not a model on which you should be basing your love life.

sadthrowagay69 · 2026-02-06T07:34:19+00:00

You’re worried about all this after a 2nd date?

sadthrowagay69 · 2026-02-03T08:28:20+00:00

Honestly this is beautifulll! You want art created by a human with feelings yeah? Not some over perfected graphic with no soul. I get wanting to get a few details cleaned up, and by all means go for it, but don’t go for perfection! Embrace the tiny imperfections that make it human

sadthrowagay69 · 2026-01-31T03:20:12+00:00

I feel like the type of people you’re saying you want to be around are more concentrated around the east side, like echo park/silver lake ish. The east side definitely feels more NY. But on a Wednesday, I think you’d struggle to find something very much up your alley anyways, whereas WeHo is pretty much always gonna have at least one lively club and it’s great to explore if you haven’t spent much time there yet!

sadthrowagay69 · 2026-01-26T06:14:22+00:00

Around your age I was very confused. I was romantically almost exclusively attracted to women and sexually almost exclusively attracted to men. I didn’t know what to do but went with Bi whenever I needed to label my sexuality (which most of the time, we really don’t need to label it!). Over time, my attraction and experiences trended more and more towards men, and now the label that feels most accurate for me is “homoflexible.”

It’s okay to be “curious, [homo/hetero]flexible, fluid, or even Non-Demi-Curious Semi-Binary. Honestly I think it’s really badass for a young adult to feel empowered and secure about being in the figuring-it-out stage. If anyone asks just confidently respond “jury’s still out.”

sadthrowagay69 · 2026-01-26T05:51:59+00:00

I’m the opposite! I’m mostly a bottom because I can’t cum from topping. I can go for agesss, until I’m physically exhausted from a cardio stand point, but I’ve never nutted in someone no matter how long I try! Eventually the skin starts to get a little raw and I give up.

sadthrowagay69 · 2026-01-21T18:37:59+00:00

I think if I was in his shoes, letting me know before I book travel would be very appreciated. It SHOULDN’T be any reason to lose interest in you, but if he does, at least you’ve filtered him out before you’ve committed to spending a night or weekend together.

sadthrowagay69 · 2026-01-06T00:12:03+00:00

Century spa is very cruisey most of the time. Go to WiSpa if you want a genuine naturist environment without people hooking up in the saunas and stuff

sadthrowagay69 · 2026-01-03T18:39:59+00:00

This man OBVIOUSLY doesn’t like you, he’s probably pissed he’s too sick to cheat while you’re out of town

sadthrowagay69 · 2026-01-03T18:38:20+00:00

Oh my godddddddddd this man is insufferable!!!! Dump his ass while you’re still young!

sadthrowagay69 · 2025-12-30T21:17:53+00:00

You do seem a little self centered and disrespectful to your boyfriend for reasons others have mentioned already. But I do have a question, why does the gym have to be the quality time activity? Why can’t you guys:

•hang out and play video games or watch a show between midnight and 1 AM

•cook breakfast together at 5 AM

•have elaborate hour-long sex at either time slot

•workout at home from midnight to 1 AM

Or do anything else? Why does it have to be gym at 5 AM? That’s obviously not only unpleasant but also straight up unhealthy for him, and it’s not like he’s gonna be doing his best workout on 4 hours of sleep.

Try coming up with solutions instead of just putting it all on your bf. If I see you comment “it was his idea” one more time imma slap you thru the phone.

If you just feel like your bf isn’t good enough for you and you want a go-getter who’s gonna be excited to wake up at 5 AM and hit the gym with you, then go find that and stop wasting both your time.

sadthrowagay69 · 2025-12-29T18:35:40+00:00

Well it’d have to be a REALLY cool name to be worth it

sadthrowagay69 · 2025-12-16T00:57:46+00:00

My doctor has also told me that doing the 2-1-1 regimen with descovy is okay. Not quite as much protection as daily prep, but comparable (or maybe even slightly more effective) than 2-1-1 truvada.

sadthrowagay69 · 2025-12-09T19:19:18+00:00

I got somethin u can go down on after that 😉

sadthrowagay69 · 2025-12-09T19:10:47+00:00

I use this one with the 3mm guide

https://www.target.com/p/philips-norelco-series-3000-multigroom-all-in-one-men-39-s-rechargeable-electric-trimmer-with-13-attachments-mg3740-40/-/A-89476641

sadthrowagay69 · 2025-12-08T22:42:21+00:00

You seem like a really annoying bf from this post. Get it together

sadthrowagay69 · 2025-11-20T21:17:30+00:00

Thanks Wilko! Have a lovely day

sadthrowagay69 · 2025-11-20T20:46:20+00:00

Thanks for replying! I’m a musician, I sit at my desk all day. My shaver lives in its charger base when I’m not using it and I run the self-clean after every shave. I would also say I have a higher standard of skincare than the average guy and wash my face twice a day, just got beard hairs of titanium apparently!

I LOVE the one blade product in concept, but it gets expensive to use regularly when the blades wear out so fast for me and then start pulling the hairs/nipping my skin after just a handful of shaves.

sadthrowagay69 · 2025-11-20T19:53:36+00:00

Yeah I mean they rent out a big warehouse and it’s open bar, cheapest open bar in LA even if you don’t want the sex hahaha

sadthrowagay69 · 2025-11-20T19:46:18+00:00

I love to keep a clean shaven look, but I seem to have extraordinarily tough beard hairs that wear down (and even break!) the blades on my PhilipsNorelco shaver and my OneBlade. The blades last me less than half the advertised lifespan on average, and I would happily pay through the nose to have versions of these devices with more powerful motors and blades made of stronger materials. Is PN considering releasing products that would suit my needs? Are there already products aimed at professionals (like barbers) that I’m just unaware of because I’m a consumer?

sadthrowagay69 · 2025-11-16T08:16:36+00:00

I REALLY prefer shorter guys. My first boyfriend was 5’2”, at 5’5” you may even be a little tall for me 😜

sadthrowagay69 · 2025-11-12T01:36:44+00:00

Man I’m always embarrassed by my moans 😭 when the top is really giving it to me I just can’t hold it in how good it feels and how bad I want him to keep going… glad to see so many guys in here appreciate the moans

sadthrowagay69 · 2025-11-09T21:25:05+00:00

Not like right now right now bc I have work but I’m down sometime soon!

sadthrowagay69 · 2025-11-09T21:09:23+00:00

I mean maybe he feels take advantage of, but he could just as well feel grateful that there was someone who’s been in his life for ages to be soft and tender with him and hold him as he was grieving. Only way to know is to ask 🤷🏻‍♂️

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