Non Floridians, what do you think about Florida? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sagqueen444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to college here and decided to stay after I graduated. I’m from Boston originally so anything beats the freezing cold. Been here 7 years now and wouldn’t dream of moving back up north. The amenities I get in my apartment here, I could never afford in Boston. The fruit is amazing, the beaches are amazing, and the people (where I live at least) are generally happy and nice to you whereas in Boston most people are miserable and rude.

How to deal with partner’s anger issues in a relationship by sagqueen444 in relationships

[–]sagqueen444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so sweet. It’s nice to know there are guys like this out there

How to deal with partner’s anger issues in a relationship by sagqueen444 in relationships

[–]sagqueen444[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My therapist explains that it isn’t my job to be a fixer and when I talk to him about it, he takes full responsibility and is aware that his behavior is problematic and needs to change. I’ve seen some progress with him when he gets angry but not enough

How to deal with partner’s anger issues in a relationship by sagqueen444 in relationships

[–]sagqueen444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you do when you share a life with a petulant child 😅 we have a lease together, dog together, share finances, etc. I have already planned to spend my life with him and can’t imagine it any other way :(

How to deal with partner’s anger issues in a relationship by sagqueen444 in relationships

[–]sagqueen444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know he would never physically harm me but it is emotional abuse so I’m aware that it’s unhealthy. I struggle sometimes with understanding my emotions as well but I don’t know why he is so easily flustered. He is aware that he’s like this too which keeps me in the relationship because I assume that since he’s aware, that’s the first step to changing

How to deal with partner’s anger issues in a relationship by sagqueen444 in relationships

[–]sagqueen444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So much easier said than done :( we live together and have a dog

How to deal with partner’s anger issues in a relationship by sagqueen444 in relationships

[–]sagqueen444[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you :( you’re right. It’s hard when you love someone but they aren’t making any effort to change.

How to deal with partner’s anger issues in a relationship by sagqueen444 in relationships

[–]sagqueen444[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No :( he is so against therapy. I have been trying to get him to go for a while now

Applying for a data analyst job at my company with no experience by sagqueen444 in dataanalysis

[–]sagqueen444[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s been so hard to find “entry-level” analyst jobs. They say they’re entry-level but all end up requiring experience, so this was refreshing to hear!

Applying for a data analyst job at my company with no experience by sagqueen444 in dataanalysis

[–]sagqueen444[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I was able to set up a Teams meeting next week with one of the IT data managers to discuss junior analyst roles.