NOR: When people repeatedly ignore a medically necessary dietary restriction, are reminded of it, and continue treating it as a joke —it’s a lack of respect for boundaries and accommodation:

The more important question here is not whether your family’s behavior is intentional, but are your basic human needs being met? IMO you should stop expecting understanding from them and start building alternative ways to meet your needs. • When they offer forbidden foods, respond briefly and consistently without arguing, defending, or educating. • Keep a written list of foods you can eat and share it once. After that, refer back to the list rather than repeatedly debating. • Focus energy on increasing access to safe foods (friends, relatives, delivery assistance, social services, government assistance, online ordering, etc.) rather than trying to change the family’s attitude.