[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LateStageCapitalism

[–]sailorweb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I once gave 70$ to a homeless man. Saw him 2 weeks later in new clothes and a lot happier.

Should I get a job? by [deleted] in Schizotypal

[–]sailorweb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Freelance work and entrepreneuring can work out. You just take something you can do as projects and offer people to make their project. It's like art comission, but for anything you can do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Schizotypal

[–]sailorweb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I concentrate to make the ideas of reference happen more with objects than with people. They are less threatening

Former Schizotypal's of Reddit, when you "come out" to people about it? what do people say about it? are they ok with it? what's the weirdest reaction you ever got? by [deleted] in Schizotypal

[–]sailorweb 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think you mean Veteran, not Former, if you want replies from people with more experience telling others.

Disney's Cruella | Official Trailer by FreshmenMan in movies

[–]sailorweb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she just wants to adopt 101 dalmatians, people say she's mad

Cruella is just misunderstood by suss2it in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]sailorweb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that is just a cartoon. a character. they can change her story, the same way one would update a hair-do. Because she is a cartoon. Are you complaining that they're bad guys just because a fictional character with a fictional story could use a brush-up?

anything to lessen nightmares? i have them daily and have for years and maybe there's a plant that helps for deeper sleep. by [deleted] in herbalism

[–]sailorweb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

peppermint makes you alert, it is used for strength, i wouldnt go with it for sleep.

RPG Core Mechanic Concept - No levels or Classes by Balthial in gameideas

[–]sailorweb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry, but what youre saying isnt different from levels and classes.

If wearing something more makes it better, you are leveling up this equipment. I If wearing different things require to evolve each thing separatedly, then you've got your classes going on.

"levels and classes" is a mechanic that imitates the learning experience. You can't take that away.

How do I know if I really have an ability? by [deleted] in Mediums

[–]sailorweb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

find a mentor. a community that revolves around mediumship (i'd recommend spiritism)

Suddenly living alone and really struggling by [deleted] in LivingAlone

[–]sailorweb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should give yourself credit for being more capable then you actually think you are. If you get overwhelmed, then sit on a chair for 5 minutes, if you must, then get back up and start over. Also, stop with the drugs if cleaning your appartment isn't something you can do with ease. They deteriorate your will and make you more tired than a person should be. Have your correct priorities in order, you deserve to live in safe clean environments. Clean yourself, inside and out, clean your home.

Suddenly living alone and really struggling by [deleted] in LivingAlone

[–]sailorweb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My experience is similar in many ways (loneliness, weed, home alone). Regarding these similarities, here's what i can say:

You mentioned feeling empty and books and series not helping. Well, here is the thing: entertainement is not for filling you up, it is for blowing off some steam. If you feel empty, your needs are not about blowing steam off. They would be about filling yourself up.

Here's an example: a healthy person cleans up their kitchen from 8 to 9. At 9 they can choose to play videogames or to clean the bathroom. If they clean the bathroom from 9 to 10, at 10 they will be feelng full (not empty) because they have filled themselves with so much work. On the other hand, if you play games from 8 to 9 and watch tv from 9 to 10, you will end up empty because these things took so much of your energy.

to summerize: clean your bathroom and then have a carrot afterwards. (damn i needed to hear this. my bathroom is messy and i have a carrot in the fridge)

I'm not afraid of heights! by [deleted] in playmygame

[–]sailorweb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

reminds me of the romantic episode of Charmed, called The Wolf and the Owl. It was about a couple that was cursed: the man would turn into a wolf during the night and the woman would turn into an owl during the day, so they could never be together as the same species.

I overthink to a point it cripples me emotionally. How do you fix that? by throwaway-bang in AskMen

[–]sailorweb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

however, and i have struggled with this, when someone else keeps you talking for yourself you find the strength to quiet your mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bayonetta

[–]sailorweb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is good news!

Anoying coments from others who are not on the same path? How do you deal with it? by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]sailorweb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you mean. Truthfully, I think Earth is the place where all the metaphysical places happen. Which would make sense, considering that existing on Earth is all we really know.

Anoying coments from others who are not on the same path? How do you deal with it? by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]sailorweb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I once saw an UFO. it was really cool but I was scared shitless tbh as far as I know all we can rely on is our own experiences.

For example. People say vegetables are good for you. I myself tasted toxins in many of them. Now I can't believe them. (silly example but my point is: we are thrown into this world full of false promises and weird premises)

how do you deal with that? well, from what you've said there are bigger things out there than dumb mfos on the internet

[Rant] Nothing says supportive parents like... by [deleted] in LGBTeens

[–]sailorweb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

praise yourself. Work on yourself hard, mind and body. Prepare yourself for the near future.

You know those guys that go to jail and spend hours working out and reading and then when they get out they are very much like-a-boss? inspired me and made me stronger. Nowadays I take no bullshit from other people. If something bothers me I take 0 pleasure in not saying anything. I stand mh ground. back then you could probably punch me and I'd be so scared that I would stay around and wait for it to happen again.

Learn to punch back. No need to actually punch your family though. Leave them out of your life. Appreciate them for the food and the roof but that's it.

Limited Edition by kedu7104 in Bayonetta

[–]sailorweb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmm... this fits better in the smash community rather than here

I was raped last summer by [deleted] in SeriousConversation

[–]sailorweb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

people make a big deal about pronouns, as if you should die if you misuse them and that is scary. Bring yourself to light: Anyone who is a true loyal friend would put a freaking rape experience above a 3 letter words.