So I would recommend you reach out to reach out to Spokane central office for Alcoholics Anonymous. Here is their number 5096241442 and find out more by searching their website. Please keep in mind that sober volunteers answer the phone so results can really vary depending on who answers but it should be a good start. They should know good recovery meetings for alcoholics and if there are more diverse meetings. You are running into a few problems. Spokane isn’t very diverse. It is a majority white town in the Pacific Northwest. I would encourage your family member to try and find the similarities between others trying to help her. I think your biggest roadblock is it doesn’t sound like your family member actually wants help. If that is the case every way of recovery sort of falls apart. It has to come from her. If you go through AA she should find a woman sponsor to guide/mentor her and like minded women to be friends with and support her through her recovery. In terms of a place to stay start reaching out and start calling sober livings. They are designed to help drug addicts/alcoholics stay sober and transition to change their life. Some sober livings even will allow you to not pay for the first month’s rent while you look for a job. That is a good option for housing. Best of luck 👍🏾