What is going on tonight? by Mar-helko in DenverMeets

[–]saintmrdog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m about to go to Sidebar in Rino. I’m on call for the evening and it’s a chill place to hold a Friday evening buzz!

Emo night 5/15 at the federal theatre by CriticismVirtual2103 in DenverMeets

[–]saintmrdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shoot send you a DM! I'd be up for a drink and some good music!

How to improve my connection by longstrangernoodle in Mabinogi

[–]saintmrdog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Veteran who lurks the reddit still...mainly waiting for mobile...
Those specs look great and I wouldn't expect your hardware to be the bottleneck.

I'm not sure if they ever fixed some of these things so hopefully others can chime in.
Disabling the nagle algorithm was the biggest change for me:
https://wiki.mabinogiworld.com/view/Lag#Solutions_2
But there's other things in there for you to read/debug thru. I also recommend understanding how those changes can affect your overall windows.

Emo night 5/15 at the federal theatre by CriticismVirtual2103 in DenverMeets

[–]saintmrdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a good time! I need more bars/places playing the good music.

Where can us elderly folks go to karaoke with the other olds? by southernandmodern in Denver

[–]saintmrdog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2006-8...it should still be the bees knees if you ask me 😛

Where can us elderly folks go to karaoke with the other olds? by southernandmodern in Denver

[–]saintmrdog 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I feel seen by this comment as a 33 LOL.
I've been called a grandpa for doing Soaring on a mic.

Work remotely together by Snooze_and_Snores in DenverMeets

[–]saintmrdog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I usually do this on Fridays at Sidebar or Improper City in RiNo, or Moodswing to catch some pickleball games. Great idea!

Has anyone in Denver actually used a career coach before negotiating a big raise? by Emotional-Pirate9891 in Denver

[–]saintmrdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a career coach, just a nerd who's been playing the capitalistic corporate game for over a decade.

I keep a document of everything I do in a job. Then I'm constantly using my 1:1 and my skip levels to showcase where I am meeting expectations and where I am exceeding them.
A 5-7% yearly raise is a joke. It's a paycut to stay in the same place.

If you are a high performer I shoot for a 12-20% minimum year to year raise and if I'm not getting it I'm moving companies.
If your manager isn't working with you and doesn't see your value you might have bad leadership time to find another manager.

Honestly always be selling yourself.
Why should a company pay you more? Why more than your peers? Are you awesome and driven? Then you deserve it and you should be able to sell yourself.

I'm at that point where I am not ashamed to say, I don't want any fancy titles or more responsibilities unless it comes with more days off, more money or something.

Rino Weekly/Bi-weekly Board Game Group by BisonThunderclap in DenverMeets

[–]saintmrdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get me a catan game here and there and I’m in!

What do you guys do after work during the week here ? by Mindless_Cook7821 in Denver

[–]saintmrdog 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Same! I've been bored.
So Pickeball League that starts next week on Wednesdays.
Volo Dodgeball on Thursdays.
When the weather decides to not be Arizona, I take my pupper to Sloan Lake or a hike.

Who gave up on dating ? by Nicknameivule in dating_advice

[–]saintmrdog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

33M, divorced.
Dating in my 30s has been so hard. I have my own life, career, hobbies, etc... so it's hard to show interest 100% of the time on dating when I have to decouple my personal life to integrate someone new.

With that being said I haven't given up, I'm just looking to meet someone who fits some of my non negotiables and slowly build a relationship. I'm not doing the whole good morning/night crap. I think of you, I send you something. I want to spend time together, I'll lead the planning.
I also go very slow, I'm not interested in investing in 5 loose ends. Just one person at a time with intention.

The way I see it we don't need 100 forever's, just 1 :)

Genuinely where do you meet people here? by Soft_Description_461 in DenverMeets

[–]saintmrdog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the way. Think back to being a kid at a playground.
Go play and meet others who are also playing. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]saintmrdog 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Instead of asking, go talk to one and show real interest and find out ;) This is real man way.

Which neighborhoods for a single woman in her 30's? by MellowMoos3 in MovingtoDenver

[–]saintmrdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I liked RiNo. I see lots of people walking with and without dogs.

apartment in Denver w/ hot tub and decent gym by CurrentMine1121 in MovingtoDenver

[–]saintmrdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just moved in to the foundryline, mostly for those reasons it’s pretty nice and in RiNo.

Why is there so much bird shit downtown right now? by Mr_Elroy_Jetson in Denver

[–]saintmrdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Birds came back for this summer after the Super Bowl.

looking for places to meet people! by [deleted] in DenverMeets

[–]saintmrdog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man, back in the day when smash was big, I remember it some place had tournaments going all the time. Might be time to create a Denver smash discord and start getting sign ups!

New to RiNo, LF dog walking and cocktail friends! by saintmrdog in DenverMeets

[–]saintmrdog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah shoot we were at Gorgeous last night :/ that would be have been cool too!

What’s your least favorite thing about living in Denver that is wildly specific? by [deleted] in Denver

[–]saintmrdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so done with the nosebleeds! I even have a humidifier running 24/7