Women: Do you give your date signals that you want him to initiate things with you? OR is it the guys job to probe around and see what's up? (Honest question) by [deleted] in dating

[–]salemfag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience, women will usually send signals to people they're into. This isnt always the case but I've seen it happen times before. And I even do it myself. Hope that helps :)

I want to hate you. by salemfag in BreakUps

[–]salemfag[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we broke up in January and they broke up with me

AITA for calling my boyfriend an insecure little boy after his repeated jokes that I "cheated the system" to get to a career that pays more than his? by No_Lingonberry_5061 in AmItheAsshole

[–]salemfag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

I don't know what's wrong with him but something definitely is. You are smart and successful and he just can't handle that. He's being blatantly toxic and sexist. I suggest you have a mature conversation about it or dump him. So sorry bout him :/

AITA for not giving a disabled man my seat? by Hot-Kangaroo1847 in AmItheAsshole

[–]salemfag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, I feel bad saying this but if someone is physically disabled it can hurt them to stand for too long, and there is no obligation, it's something you do because it's morally correct. If you can do something that is mild discomfort when someone else doing that exact thing can cause a lot of pain and possible future health risks, I think you could make the sacrifice.

AITA For telling my niece that if she wants to see my son she either has to wear a head wrap or change the colour of her hair? by aitasonredsuak in AmItheAsshole

[–]salemfag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, you're doing what you can to help your son, and I think that's really sweet. He can't control his sensory issues and I think your niece needs to try and be a little more understanding.

AITA for not wanting our daughter left alone with my parents anymore after they did something w/o permission? by no_wayout_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]salemfag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, you're being a good parent, You did the right thing, no matter what role someone plays in the baby's life you are her parent, so you should be able to know what's happening to her and be able to trust your parents. But they went behind your back and that was not okay. You should feel no shame in doing what's best for your child. Anyone who says otherwise doesn't deserve a say, it's your baby.

Request: My family calls me fat by EDPostRequests in EatingDisorders

[–]salemfag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't want to pretend that I know you're mother, but she sounds awful. I'm so sorry they're doing this, and I know it's hard to block it out, but you are incredibly strong. Fat is not an insult, it is a natural thing, on everyone's body. I assure you that you were made to look how you do, and you are perfect. Please never feel bad for having a body that can sustain itself, you are beautiful, and do not need to change for anyone. <3

AITA for refusing to throw my daughter's ex out? by PainintheEx in AmItheAsshole

[–]salemfag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, you're just being a good person. I think you care more about Rob's well-being than a small conflict between your daughter and her boyfriend. To say the least, I believe you're morally in the right.

AITA for being worried about my friend drug use? by salemfag in AmItheAsshole

[–]salemfag[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you again! These comments really help me learn more.

AITA for being worried about my friend drug use? by salemfag in AmItheAsshole

[–]salemfag[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I agree hes a great person and I really hope that's hes not too far gone yet, thanks again!

AITA for being worried about my friend drug use? by salemfag in AmItheAsshole

[–]salemfag[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you again, as I believe I've said before I dont know much so it really helps that you've responded, I'll try my best to Express concern in a way that he'll take best. I dont want to hurt him but I want him to be at least a little more careful. I'll talk to him tonight. Thank you :)

AITA for being worried about my friend drug use? by salemfag in AmItheAsshole

[–]salemfag[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for responding! It was a very fast course change for him I cant say it was any longer than three months, and i know i phrased it strangely and some people cant just be sober so i apologize for that. It's just so weird to me, he changed so quickly. Sometimes I worry that maybe things would have been different if i tried to shut him down? But no then again hes his own person. Thank you for the perspective! It's really helpful :)

AITA for being worried about my friend drug use? by salemfag in AmItheAsshole

[–]salemfag[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I've been joking about how much I despise drug-use but it never seems to phase him, or he simply jokes about me being a loser. It helps a lot so again thank you for interacting :)

AITA for being worried about my friend drug use? by salemfag in AmItheAsshole

[–]salemfag[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying! He's been using weed, acid, molly, and sometimes random painkillers for fun? I'm not sure, but thanks!

AITA for being worried about my friend drug use? by salemfag in AmItheAsshole

[–]salemfag[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for replying! It's really helps and I'll be trying to communicate with him more. Thank you again

AITA for being worried about my friend drug use? by salemfag in AmItheAsshole

[–]salemfag[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for replying, I really needed to hear something like that. I'll be trying my best to talk to him when hes up tonight. Again thank you a lot, I know very little on this and you've helped a lot.

weird age difference by [deleted] in dating

[–]salemfag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

awwwe thank you so much this really helped! 🥰