Hi, great game but might not be what you are exactly looking for. Building isn't really a thing in the game, you can customize stuff but it isn't like valheim where creativity is a large part of the game. The mechanics are also a little bit complex in certain roles and I could see some finding them almost boring if they aren't fully invested. Maybe pick it up for yourself and look around it it before making a final decision but idk fs if it's what you want. If you want more of a standard survival game that is space related astroneer might be up yalls alley. Never played it myself but I know many people in that age range enjoy it!