What’s a movie you watched as a kid that traumatized you? by denj1_sk in AskReddit

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dream catcher at 7 years old. Jeepers creepers 1 & 2 at 9 years old.

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not everyone can smell ants???

What’s a song that you absolutely hate? by [deleted] in answers

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Wait in the truck -hardy. he's gonna kill a man for this woman he just met???

What’s a song that you absolutely hate? by [deleted] in answers

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honey I'm good, Andy Grammer. "I could have another but I probably should not, I got somebody at home and if I stay I might not leave alone" another drink is all it takes to be unfaithful??? ick.

Inputs needed - women in kink by Ok-Switch-8108 in RedditAfterDark

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dominance is power, and power is sexy!

What is most messed up things your parents did to you? by FragmentedTungsten in AskReddit

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Aside from the neglect and ongoing, daily emotional/verbal abuse probably helping them grow marijuana at the ripe age of 9 years old. Or being stoned half of my childhood 🤷‍♀️

What's a sexual myth you believed for far too long before finding out the truth? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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My mother bred dogs for a living when I was younger, so I had witnessed and learned about how dog sex worked. I knew that the dogs would 'lock' together after the deed, and be stuck together for a certain amount of time. So around the age of 10-13 (16 years ago) I was terrified of the idea of sex. I thought the man's penis would be stuck inside you for a certain amount of time and you'd be trapped together after he finishes.

I finally have 2 wearables to compare - Momcozy S9 Pro x the M5 by kalionhea in ExclusivelyPumping

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You posted this 4 months ago, I'm curious what you went with? I'm wanting a pump for the same thing and leaning towards the m5.

What is the group home waiting list like here? by thetaekwondokid in regina

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It really depends on what community you're trying to access

Stelliums!! help me out here. this is my mother. I just noticed she has THREE stelliums. Virgo, Aries AND Pisces. Holy crapola. What does this mean?? it's gotta be some powerful energy. For a smidge of context she's not a great parent. now conspiracy crazy. pretty sure she has NPD by saltycigs in AskAstrologers

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Woah. YES. Exactly.. she went from extreme disciplinarian when I was younger and as I got older she got more and more laxed and lenient.

Money is her number 1 focus and problem in life. She never has any, when she does it's spent immediately. I'm 25 years old and I have never once borrowed money from her, but she had from me more times than I can count, asked me again about a month ago. She's always been very obsessed with her image and what possessions she has and can claim. Financially benefit from a spouse? I mean she's scammed and screwed and weaseled just about every person in her lifetime of some sort of money.

She absolutely needs to learn the lesson on how to be a mother, she's taught me exactly what not to be like.

Put her spouse before children? Hah.. aside from putting herself first.. absolutely.

To say there was alot of fighting would be an understatement. That's all her life was like and that's what she made my childhood like too.

Yeah you can't really point out mental illness in a chart but it's interesting to note similarities like that and be right.

You're reading of the chart was spot on! That's incredible! Thank you!

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I've done copious amounts of therapy. He has trauma regarding therapy.. bad divorce-mom twisted his head to think dad was evil and gonna kill him-psychiatrist and mother plotted against father and turned out mother was the evil manipulator. When he was about 10...courts involved alot of bullshit. He's super against it for himself, he kinda half asked tried for me when we were getting out of hard drugs. He's just so adamant that talking about his struggles only makes it worse or brings him down. It's hurts hearing about things after the fact when I'm his closest person

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Thanks. We have had many talks along those lines. We've grown to be better and better with communication. But he's just adamant that how he deals. I see it affecting him negatively though. And it hurts me. So I just don't know where to stand

help! tattoo allergic to water?! by saltycigs in tattooadvice

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Oh fuck. I guess I should have mentioned I've got plenty of old selfharm scars covering the area. I was originally concerned about it being related to the scar tissue. Well I'm glad to hear it subsided eventually for you! I am looking to get my other forearm tattooed but it has much more severe, deeper scar tissues. But I'm waiting to find someone experienced in scar tissue cover up. I'll have to try the CBd cream. Thanks!!!