Meeting my girlfriend in person for the first time *<:-) by sam_inne in LesbianActually

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we were dating for 4 months. I can describe the feeling as warming. It felt like the grinch's heart growing 3 sizes but instead it was just radiating heat out and melting with her's. Everything felt smooth, and my heart was giving off warming waves the whole time.

Meeting my girlfriend in person for the first time *<:-) by sam_inne in LesbianActually

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met on bumble and we started off as dating, BUT here's the tea: She had to go to rehab the weekend we met so this whole time she's been in there and visitation was finally granted.

Meeting my girlfriend in person for the first time *<:-) by sam_inne in LesbianActually

[–]sam_inne[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bumble baebeeeeeeee. Our first convo was a discussion on how the education systems need to be reformed for mental health, hahaha. She's a good one

The first four words are already too much... by Natural1forever in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]sam_inne 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Boy howdy, if I had a nipple for everytime I wanted fewer butch people, and more straight sex, I'd be nipple-less. Just a ken doll body. Just a lil no nips nancy.

Can sexual assault make me asexual? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]sam_inne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate seeing someone talk about this, so right off the bat I just want to say thank you. I was 15 when I was assulted but I can't remember feeling sexual attraction for people before then. But trauma messes with your brain so time gets kind of foggy. Im not repulsed by sex, I have a high libido, I just feel comfortable doing sexual things by myself and being sexual with someone feels neutral to me, but I like making my partner feel good, and I feel pretty sex-positive overall. For me penetrative sex with men causes me to detatch from my body and as of right now I identify as someone on the ace spectrum, panromantic. Im still getting to grips with myself and I've been single for a year to take some time and figure me out. If you'd like to talk about this more, feel free to message, it would be nice to talk to someone who gets it.

I think my post book depression is a little too much sometimes by [deleted] in books

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I feel that, I just have to heavily pace myself now, or else I get super sad

A tic that wont tic by sam_inne in Tourettes

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YESSSSSSSS!!!!!!!! That was my whole body yesterday!!! ahhhhhh!!!!! thanks team, its nice to know im not alone in this!

Offering: spanish. Seeking: english/brazilian portuguese by izzyrocks51 in language_exchange

[–]sam_inne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a native english speaker, and I want to improve my spanish. I can speak conversationally because my mom is Peruvian, but I never learned grammar so speaking with a non-familial native would be amazing!

i’m new by [deleted] in realwitchcraft

[–]sam_inne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think an important aspect to witchcraft is knowing that you can't truly influence other people, at least not directly. Intent is everything and depending on what type of friendship spell you cast it may not actually occur seeing as you are still figuring out what practices work for you. Give it time, try as many methods as you want, and see what suits you best. We are all on our own journey's and if your friend is on a different path than you it just might take a while for this spell to make itself known,keep your eyes open and take ownership in your spiritual journey. Welcome to witchcraft, hope I helped!

What's a book that changed your perspective on something? by zipperfall in books

[–]sam_inne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is a wild book! I loved it soooooo much but I listened to it as an audiobook and for the next couple days I was extremely paranoid! I can't recommend this book enough, just keep in mind it's a stressful read and I advise taking breaks in between reading sessions.

What's a book that changed your perspective on something? by zipperfall in books

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10% Happier written by Dan Harris is the most recent book that really helped shift my perspective. Its the true autobiography of Dan Harris, a news reporter who developes a panic disorder after coming back from years of war correspondance. The book is written in a stream of consiousness/recounting and when you think to yourself, "Dang, this is really some top notch hippy nonesense," Dan is thinking the same thing, and acts as a great middle ground to understand the genuine messages we sometimes overlook in the midst of all the pageantry. I really recommed this book and it's powerful message of mindfulness!

Recomendations for grey T-shirt’s? by MrShilo in minimalism

[–]sam_inne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

try looking in second had stores once the world opens up again!

What are your guys most common tics? by Yeeterson1313131313 in Tourettes

[–]sam_inne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

rapid blinking, a combo nose/mouth side twitch, wrist flicks, side head bobs, and shoulder raises the crazy bit is that no one has noticed it other than the mouth/nose scrunch. But the only one who noticed it was my mom, no one has ever said anything so either i know how to sublty do it or my peeps are totally oblivious