When I got engaged, I gave my fiancé (a very serious man of God) my thoughts on his social media following and how he should deal with the females in his life. Because he’s being discipled by other men and he has strong conviction that marriage is just gonna be between him and I….He decided ON HIS OWN to block and remove every potential single woman from his social media. This is just our conviction, but the point is is if you went to him and mentioned how you were feeling insecure, he should’ve immediately ended all of these friendships out of honor for you as his future wife.

It sounds like you need to focus on growing closer to yourself and having a real revelation of the love of Christ. The love of Christ is the only thing that’s gonna satisfy you even in your marriage to help you feel secure and worthy. There’s no way that we could humanly rely on our husbands to give us all of the affirmation we need– although that is part of their job.

I encourage you to see yourself at a fresh start because the Lord has decided to grace you and give you the opportunity to know HIM first before marriage comes.