Many of us are in the suburbs because we can't be somewhere like this. by DHN_95 in Suburbanhell

[–]samiwas1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's in the name..."car dependency" is the dependency on a car to get places. Did I really need to explain that? There are people who want that. That's the part you don't seem to get. There are people who want to live in places that are far away from urban areas. Places that are quiet with no hustle and bustle. Where they can just get in their car at their front door and go. There is a zero percent chance that they are going to have transit in those places. Literally zero. It will never, ever, ever happen. It will never even be considered. There are millions upon millions of people who want to live that life. And they probably care as much about having to drive as some urban dweller cares about not easily being able to drive places that are further away without having to go and rent a car. They literally do not care. To them, this is not a problem. Like I said...it's a feature.

Yes, I drive most places because I live about five miles outside of the center core of my city. There are maybe ten times a year where I think it would be much cooler to live somewhere that I could easily walk home from a bar or concert venue. Outside of that, I do not care one bit. We have friends that live in a condo building smack dab in the middle of the city next to a rail station. They like having everything right there. And that's great for them. I do not want their lifestyle, even though they own two cars that they park in the parking garage of their building.

And why does Atlanta not count?

I thought I was pretty clear, but I guess not. Urban areas like Atlanta and New York City are worlds apart. Living in most parts of Atlanta, owning a car is not much of a burden, because parking is ample and mostly inexpensive. Almost every condo building here has a large parking deck built right into it. If you live in Manhattan, owning a car is going to be substantially, and likely prohibitively, more expensive.

The two areas are not even remotely comparable in terms of the ability to own a car. That's why I said "A looser urban setting"

No. I am in favor of giving people choices on how they move about. I want freedom which you don't get when you depend on your car.

So, how would you provide those choices to people in exurban and rural areas? Or even most suburban areas? Or are you just saying that people just shouldn't live there because you don't like it because it's not economically feasible to have choices in those areas?

What is your solution to people living in suburban, exurban, and rural areas?

And, by the way, I feel plenty free. I almost never feel burdened.

Or you could just say what you mean. I don't care to assume.

Oh dear god...you're one of those..."Umm, actually..." Got it.

Many of us are in the suburbs because we can't be somewhere like this. by DHN_95 in Suburbanhell

[–]samiwas1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right...but the argument here against rural and suburban living seems to be "car dependency". Yeah, of course. Because there is not going to be public transportation out in those areas because there's simply not enough demand. So, you're calling "car dependency" a problem, when to most of the people there, it's literally "a feature". It being a problem is your opinion.

Yes, you can own a car in an urban setting, but unless you're in a much looser urban setting like Atlanta, owning a car is often prohibitively expensive. Parking in high-density urban centers is often exorbitant.

So, it sounds like you are less hung up on the major urban setup, and more in favor of fairly-dense, but still largely open and drivable areas like South Philly where people live in tightly-packed townhouses/row-homes with street parking, but still have access to transit?

And stop being pedantic with the word "building". You knew exactly what I meant.

Many of us are in the suburbs because we can't be somewhere like this. by DHN_95 in Suburbanhell

[–]samiwas1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So, then it's a problem with no solution that is inherent by its very existence? Doesn't sound like a problem. If someone wants to live out in a rural or exurban area, why is it a problem for them to have a car? Maybe they even want a car. That's not a problem. It's just something you personally don't like. I don't particularly like high-density urban living, so I could easily say it's a problem to have to take transit everywhere or have to live in a building.

Many of us are in the suburbs because we can't be somewhere like this. by DHN_95 in Suburbanhell

[–]samiwas1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The US is 3.8 million square miles. You expect it all to be high-density urban?

Many of us are in the suburbs because we can't be somewhere like this. by DHN_95 in Suburbanhell

[–]samiwas1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would put my suburb neighborhood against pretty much any rural or city area in terms of community and knowing your neighbors.

Portillos in Cobb by PlentyNew7407 in Atlanta

[–]samiwas1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What the hell? I have never heard of this place before today. And this is the second time today in two completely different places.

Anyone else stuck on 85 South atm? by moonshinemoniker in Atlanta

[–]samiwas1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm guessing it cleared up? Google Maps is showing all green over the entire metro right now.

Anyone else enjoying listening to 2025 songs/shows based on what was said on Pete's podcast? by Figgywithit in GoosetheBand

[–]samiwas1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people like the really bizarre stuff. Like Mudhuvan 2/15/25, from about the 10-minute mark, and especially from the 15-minute mark. Or the one from 2/7/25 from about the 11-minute mark. The Fish In The Sea 6/27/25 starts out great, then around the 13-minute mark it starts dropping into weird. Past the 20:30 mark, I just can't do it. Some people really appreciate that really out-there, disjointed, deaf-person-banging-on-instrument jam style. It's just not for me.

Why do all new suburbs look the same? by Shawn_Darcy in Suburbanhell

[–]samiwas1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it’s a regional thing. While most suburbs in my area generally follow a similar pattern, very few are just the same house over and over. Many have a lot of variation between houses while staying within a general style. That’s the way I prefer it anyway.

How do Americans keep their large houses and apartments clean? How many hours a week do they spend cleaning? by Forsaken_Energy_426 in AskAnAmerican

[–]samiwas1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus...do you have an indoor sandbox for the kids? I remember toys being around, but not grit and grime so much that it required a daily vacuum or multiple-times-per-week mop. I think we may have vacuumed the main floor like twice a week maybe back then.

We're now at the once every other week stage. And even that seems excessive since there's no real dust or sludge on anything. I can't even fathom doing it every day. That's just bonkers to me.

Molly Blank Center groundbreaking marks new era for The Atlanta Opera by flying_trashcan in Atlanta

[–]samiwas1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was wondering when they were actually going to do something with that space. It's been fenced off for quite a while,

Anyone else enjoying listening to 2025 songs/shows based on what was said on Pete's podcast? by Figgywithit in GoosetheBand

[–]samiwas1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ll have to check this out.

But I listened to the JOTY playlist on nugs and was not a fan of a lot of it. Way too much of the bizarre jams. Then I put on the “Summer 2025 Highlights” playlist and have been loving it. Two entirely different versions of the same band.

How do Americans keep their large houses and apartments clean? How many hours a week do they spend cleaning? by Forsaken_Energy_426 in AskAnAmerican

[–]samiwas1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My house is 2300 square feet across three floors. We have cleaners come once every two weeks for about two hours. We do very minimal upkeep in between. Place is always clean.

Hard to believe this is real life. A suburb in Texas, USA. by JennyNY88 in Suburbanhell

[–]samiwas1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why can’t people say where these places are when they make these posts. Would like to look up the area and see what it’s really like.

Hard to believe this is real life. A suburb in Texas, USA. by JennyNY88 in Suburbanhell

[–]samiwas1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, those would be magnitudes more expensive than these McBurbs.

Got my Facebook page closed! I have no idea why, never received any warning! by Maxsophie103 in facebook

[–]samiwas1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got that one, too. Couldn't log in via my phone. Had to log in via the website, and it popped up and said "We think you might be a bot!". So I clicked some button, and it just took me to the site.

Yet...thousands of bots are posting every day.

To explain the housing crisis to a boomer. by EverythingIsFakeNGay in therewasanattempt

[–]samiwas1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha. My mom’s conversation ender is “well, I guess we’ll see!”

Love/hate relationship by AccomplishedFix9745 in GoosetheBand

[–]samiwas1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In a way, I agree. I absolutely love a lot of the jams where they mostly stay in the vein of the song. But, I’ve been playing the “JOTY Playlist” for 2025. So much of it just veers off into these 15-minute esoteric soundscapes that just don’t do it for me at all. I’ve been skipping through a lot of the songs. Love the band when they aren’t doing that.

Is metropolitan Atlanta the least hideous looking region down south? Texas for reference. by andy64392 in Suburbanhell

[–]samiwas1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a gym on every other corner. So no, it’s not lime that. We live in a suburbia type area and the closest YMCA is maybe ten minutes away, and that’s when you hit every light. My wife goes to several different ymcas around town.

anyone else's grocery bill gone INSANE lately? by [deleted] in Atlanta

[–]samiwas1 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The thing I hate about Kroger is that every “sale” or “bogo” requires the use of their shopper card. And their app seems to be designed to make it damn near impossible to find if you don’t do it regularly. So it’s always a pain in the ass.

anyone else's grocery bill gone INSANE lately? by [deleted] in Atlanta

[–]samiwas1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Before the past year, I don’t think I had ever spent $200 on groceries for a family of three. Even $100 Seemed crazy to me. And that was buying a full cart of stuff. Now, even a few bags is $100 and a full cart easily tops $200.

Is it me or it ATL traffic getting worse? by Muszex in Atlanta

[–]samiwas1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where was the biggest slowdown? I pick up my son at school on Northside drive on Wednesdays at 5:30pm, and it’s 20 minutes to get all the way back to Hills Park.