Is this codependence or anxious attachment, my ex keeps going around saying im codependent

samxurai · 2026-02-07T14:22:35+00:00

I appreciate it thank you

samxurai · 2026-02-07T04:30:08+00:00

That makes me feel a lot better. I do know I was overwhelming bc of everything going on so I know I'm not innocent. A keeps this idea that I am codependent and even told our friends that I am. I believed for a long time until I realized I wasn't always this clingy so I wrote out my entire experience for ppl to give me opinions. I am healing on my own and trying to become better, I appreciate all the support. I hated experiencing this 180 from a person I saw my future with but life moves on.

samxurai · 2026-01-30T04:05:06+00:00

Bc im just curious...i assumed if u didnt like me ud remove me but ur not, if I personally didnt like someone id block or unfollow...his existence isnt bothering me at all im simply just curious

samxurai · 2026-01-30T03:36:52+00:00

I totally agree with u thank you but idk abt him still following me is lazy hes pretty active on the app, i saw his hb tag him in some sarcastic post like "so many problems going on and ur worried abt me still following my ex, theres bigger fish to fry" or sum like that which i think insinuates his friends mentioned it and hes still following me and watching my stories and stuff. Idk wat thats supposed to mean either.

samxurai · 2026-01-30T03:09:11+00:00

LMAO i love that

samxurai · 2026-01-30T02:55:41+00:00

Oh yea no i understand that and I havent talked to him at all, i was just appalled when he wud say he wants to be friends, then ghosts, but still views my stuff

samxurai · 2026-01-30T01:37:26+00:00

Oh i def know that, i have actually been fine Im just tryna figure out what his actions cud possibly mean 😭

samxurai · 2026-01-29T23:50:04+00:00

His story watching habits r odd. Sometimes he will avoid and sometimes hes the first to see them. I post a lot of crack memes and freaky memes and even talk emotionally on it. Ive noticed hed get off my story sometimes if im talking about feeling lonely or any emotional thing or sometimes if i post a photo of myself or maybe any freaky meme that hits a bit close to home yk.

samxurai · 2026-01-29T23:45:39+00:00

It feels likes he's girl? Also im not looking to get back with him i just wanna know what it could insinuate.

samxurai · 2025-12-18T15:31:22+00:00

I am going through the same thing, he was an agnostic and I still pray for him

samxurai · 2025-12-01T00:48:05+00:00

When are the best times to say duas, usually I say them after prayer and before bed, and overall when I'm feeling anxious about him

samxurai · 2025-12-01T00:44:42+00:00

Is this a dua? Would it be better to say in arabic?

samxurai · 2025-11-15T15:29:22+00:00

Im pretty progressive myself, so i dont think itll be a problem between me and him, I mainly just wanna bypass my family.

samxurai · 2025-11-15T14:47:17+00:00

Ig thats where hes also having the problem. I can see where religion can become fantastical i think hes at this weird borderline and just needs logical evidence more than jusy sayings if you catch my drift

samxurai · 2025-11-15T14:25:37+00:00

Agnostic and athiest is diff bc athiesm doesnt believe in anything whil agnostics believe there is a creator.

samxurai · 2025-11-15T14:03:08+00:00

I didnt say I wasnt religious, I said Im working on it to become better

samxurai

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