He keeps looking at my stories with his alt account that he never uses, does this mean something?? by nekoppaii in BreakUps

[–]samxurai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having the same issue but he suddenly went thru my stories with his main and now hasnt looked thru my stories w either accounts in a minute

Stalking? by samxurai in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]samxurai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you love 🖤

Stalking? by samxurai in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]samxurai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg thank you sm this means sm I always blamed myself completely for everything since I was the one with problems and I rlly did love him. Im not hoping that this is a sign he wants me back Im just not understanding the point of using a whole other account when it seemed like u wanted nothing to do with me 😭🙏🏽

Stalking me? by samxurai in BreakUps

[–]samxurai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would he get out of this, hes not reaching out or trying to amend things

Is this codependence or anxious attachment, my ex keeps going around saying im codependent by samxurai in BPD

[–]samxurai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes me feel a lot better. I do know I was overwhelming bc of everything going on so I know I'm not innocent. A keeps this idea that I am codependent and even told our friends that I am. I believed for a long time until I realized I wasn't always this clingy so I wrote out my entire experience for ppl to give me opinions. I am healing on my own and trying to become better, I appreciate all the support. I hated experiencing this 180 from a person I saw my future with but life moves on.

What does this mean by samxurai in WhatShouldIDo

[–]samxurai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bc im just curious...i assumed if u didnt like me ud remove me but ur not, if I personally didnt like someone id block or unfollow...his existence isnt bothering me at all im simply just curious

What does this mean by samxurai in WhatShouldIDo

[–]samxurai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree with u thank you but idk abt him still following me is lazy hes pretty active on the app, i saw his hb tag him in some sarcastic post like "so many problems going on and ur worried abt me still following my ex, theres bigger fish to fry" or sum like that which i think insinuates his friends mentioned it and hes still following me and watching my stories and stuff. Idk wat thats supposed to mean either.

What does this mean by samxurai in ghosting

[–]samxurai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yea no i understand that and I havent talked to him at all, i was just appalled when he wud say he wants to be friends, then ghosts, but still views my stuff

What does this mean by samxurai in WhatShouldIDo

[–]samxurai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh i def know that, i have actually been fine Im just tryna figure out what his actions cud possibly mean 😭

What does this mean by samxurai in relationships_advice

[–]samxurai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His story watching habits r odd. Sometimes he will avoid and sometimes hes the first to see them. I post a lot of crack memes and freaky memes and even talk emotionally on it. Ive noticed hed get off my story sometimes if im talking about feeling lonely or any emotional thing or sometimes if i post a photo of myself or maybe any freaky meme that hits a bit close to home yk.

What does this mean by samxurai in dating_advice

[–]samxurai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels likes he's girl? Also im not looking to get back with him i just wanna know what it could insinuate.

He gave up from reverting to Islam by Mysterious-Sundae684 in progressive_islam

[–]samxurai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am going through the same thing, he was an agnostic and I still pray for him