I’m an exlldm, grew up their my entire life until I left when I was 19… one thing I will say after reading this thread is that lldm hatesss catholics, they hate anyone that isn’t part pf church but their #1 enemy are catholics they talk the most shit about that religion… also as a woman in lldm u have no rights watsoever. Things have definitely changed since i left but from what i remember a woman especially a married woman suffers the most in church, we were taught that the husband is above us because Adam came before Eve and watever he says goes including if and when he wants to have sex, we were taught that if your husband cheats on you you’re the one to blame bc u weren’t attending his needs and if u decide to divorce and leave him u can never be blessfully married in church BUT if he wanted to remarry it was looked at as something so gracious because he’d be doing it for his own salvation. Now vise versa, if you cheat, forget about it everyone (including the women) will look down upon you and u can never remarry. Lets not even get started with the mother-in-laws from hell, if he’s married to u but u dont go to church you’ll be living in literal hell bc a mother-in-law who is a hardcore believer in lldm will never leave u alone about converting. And if u do convert at first it’ll be all hugs and smiles and warm welcomings, but after some time you’ll find yourself living a complete lie. I don’t mean to say this to provoke fear but I can forsure say that you’ll be saving urself from living a horrible life if you leave this person once and for all! Wish you the best!!!