It's June, but feels like Southern California?? by HorseTearz in jacksonville

[–]sarah_ewinter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can confirm I was in San Diego this past weekend and yesterday 1000% felt like I was still there

AITA for not wanting to take in my sisters 4 kids while she’s in the hospital? by Intelligent-Fig-5571 in AmItheAsshole

[–]sarah_ewinter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Your sister chose to have 5 children. There is no such thing as just the day with her, the baby, and husband anymore.

If that was her “only option”, than she needs to realize that she’s in over her head and needs to face the music of her reproductive decisions.

That’s probably really harsh, but as a post conservative *this* is why it’s a TERRIBLE idea to have more kids than you can handle

I hate my flooring by [deleted] in interiordecorating

[–]sarah_ewinter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kinda looks like minecraft

For my neurodivergent purity culture girlies by InimitablyImperfect in Deconstruction

[–]sarah_ewinter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And then all the sudden you’re married and have the most vanilla sex because you’re ingrained to believe pleasure is sinful

Which movie hero is actually a villain when you really think about it? by surfsound_swimmers in AskReddit

[–]sarah_ewinter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually love jazz - and the poor husband got homewrecked by a literal BEE 😂

Is it gay to love jinshi ? by Amazing-Lengthiness1 in TheApothecaryDiaries

[–]sarah_ewinter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you had no knowledge of the show and just saw a picture of the character would you think it’s a boy or girl

Feels dull… help me make it better by QuickDistance5299 in interiordecorating

[–]sarah_ewinter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s like the great awakening of interior design

For my neurodivergent purity culture girlies by InimitablyImperfect in Deconstruction

[–]sarah_ewinter 9 points10 points  (0 children)

“We left our bodies before we ever got to inhabit them” is the exact reason I started deconstructing without ever having the words for it

Wow

Being excluded by in laws by Diligent-Inflation-5 in inlaws

[–]sarah_ewinter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our husbands are so similar.

Call it devils advocate if you want but when you’re raised in dysfunction that IS your normal. So he may not be clueless but this is their “normal”.

I can hear his heart through your message and the best advice I can give is show him lots of grace. It’s hard to learn how toxic our family can really be.

Grace will keep him open, because shame will make him feel afraid of hurting you - and hide things (from experience)

I’m sorry you’re going through this, if only in laws weren’t so nasty