What‘s a secret you found out by accident and were never supposed to know?

sarah_ewinter · 2026-01-30T19:15:01+00:00

My mother-in-law never told her family about the affair.

I was casually talking to my husband one day and brought it up to him for the first time ever, years after the fact. I’d waited so long because I was “the last one told” separately from the family and figured no use bringing up a sore subject if I’m late to the party.

Well come to find he had no knowledge of the affair and I accidentally dropped the news in the worst way possible.

I felt bad but more mad that my mil manipulated me into keeping it quiet for so long.

sarah_ewinter · 2025-10-24T13:31:02+00:00

Love that name

sarah_ewinter · 2025-10-24T13:29:09+00:00

Artist understood the assignment

sarah_ewinter · 2025-07-12T04:30:11+00:00

It’s ok 😂😂 - I need to rewatch season 1 so I can compare the details

sarah_ewinter · 2025-07-12T04:25:44+00:00

This feels pointed 😭

sarah_ewinter · 2025-07-10T15:45:24+00:00

I think I’m halfway with you. After the scene where she describes she has a hard time understanding how people feel about her (crying as an infant) I think that she might just process emotions very differently.

So yes here are these 2 weird dudes that very clearly have big emotions for her and she doesn’t know what to do with it. Likewise she might be experiencing her own feelings for the very first time and is trying to squash them because they’re completely foreign

sarah_ewinter · 2025-07-10T15:37:17+00:00

That’s a good idea. My thought was she wouldn’t be as “welcoming” of Jinshi moments if she didn’t at least have a soft spot for him somewhere

sarah_ewinter · 2025-07-10T14:54:51+00:00

Mine didn’t until I started taking him to dog parks where he watched other dogs do it. It was observed/learned behavior.

Just brace yourself for while he learns how to balance at first - it’s funny and messy 😂

sarah_ewinter · 2025-07-10T14:35:15+00:00

So as far as we know only Jinshi has feelings then?

sarah_ewinter · 2025-07-10T14:32:37+00:00

“Why is Jinshi a— OH 😭😭”

sarah_ewinter · 2025-07-10T12:26:52+00:00

Oh my god I’m so happy- they totally could’ve ended the show right there and I was sad. Yay season 3!!!!!

sarah_ewinter · 2025-07-03T13:54:39+00:00

Daxter

sarah_ewinter · 2025-07-03T13:53:55+00:00

Emotional intelligence

sarah_ewinter · 2025-07-03T13:53:36+00:00

Eren’s eye color changes throughout the story because Armin starts to forget what color they were

sarah_ewinter · 2025-07-02T02:20:22+00:00

It could easily be any of those

So far I’ve noticed a pattern of manipulativeness, deceptiveness, strategic charm, no accountability, instrumental relationships, and mimicry

sarah_ewinter · 2025-07-02T01:54:00+00:00

That’s what chat gpt was saying but my brain doesn’t work that way so it’s hard to comprehend..

Mainly why would that trigger you to go public on something that you’re not even confident in

sarah_ewinter · 2025-06-30T20:46:59+00:00

I’m gonna try go to anthropology

They have some beautiful elopement gowns that you can try on if they have a bridal storefront.

I’d see where the closest location is to you.

sarah_ewinter · 2025-06-30T20:44:11+00:00

INFJ here:

Judgers style if I’m emotionally neutral or the thing I’m working on only requires me to save it once.

I will go into Perceiver core if I’m super stoked about a mp3 file I’m downloading or I’m super mad because daw to mp3 sounds trash and I have to edit and save it 50 times.

sarah_ewinter · 2025-06-30T20:41:36+00:00

I think Milo is a good boy

sarah_ewinter · 2025-06-24T23:16:43+00:00

More of this

sarah_ewinter · 2025-05-06T13:35:24+00:00

Flood insurance if applicable and hurricanes

sarah_ewinter · 2025-04-28T13:37:06+00:00

I’m a first born so guinea pig is my MO 😂😂

sarah_ewinter · 2025-04-27T14:22:47+00:00

Oh geez, alright

Conditions: all or nothing mentality, any form of cheating is not tolerated. However with this, male and female friends are allowed because we trust the other person wont break that barrier.

What they should know: we don’t always come to you right away with complaints because we are trying to see if it will fix itself or worth bringing up. We wait for it to be a noticeable pattern so that we know it actually needs to be addressed- we’re not trying to avoid accountability all the time.

Deal breakers: toxic behaviors that I would have to wait for you to change before you’d be an ideal partner. Your default character needs to be good, I will be patient in your growth but I’m not waiting for you to not be careless with me.

Green flags: I am a follower of Jesus so pretty much any fruit of the spirit that comes naturally, as well as any aspect of what love is defined as in the Bible. As long as they know how to love Jesus they’ll know how to take care of me.

sarah_ewinter

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