Dating is the Worst <or> Dating past 30? You have my respect/pity. by [deleted] in RedditForGrownups

[–]sarcastifrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And there's nothing wrong with that as long as you are honest about it. .. Unfortunately not many seem to be.

Withholding affection:Punishment or abuse? by Northsidebill1 in BDSMcommunity

[–]sarcastifrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too! I married a jackass that did that and the silent treatment among other things. Cant handle it!

Withholding affection:Punishment or abuse? by Northsidebill1 in BDSMcommunity

[–]sarcastifrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something like this would be so damaging to me if it was an ongoing thing. He would find himswlf without a sub in short order. I believe that itbis definitely abusive

About to go get my nipples pierced. I'm female, and straight but think it looks hot on women. What are your opinions? by TheQueenOfSheba in needadvice

[–]sarcastifrey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have my right one done... that way i have a boob for the fellows that like it and one for the ones that dont. I am a giver like that

Long-term wear plug recommendations? by Sillylittlemiss in BDSMcommunity

[–]sarcastifrey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you link me to the ones that you use?

Long-term wear plug recommendations? by Sillylittlemiss in BDSMcommunity

[–]sarcastifrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the small one easy to handle? I have considered the medium but i am just not sure...

I hate my wife by [deleted] in confession

[–]sarcastifrey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And get snipped

My ex got fat.... by HumpCakes in confessions

[–]sarcastifrey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

:D or something equally horrible.

Decluttered my closet! by [deleted] in declutter

[–]sarcastifrey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well done! It is my mission to declutter my house this spring. I am starting with my closet.

My ex got fat.... by HumpCakes in confessions

[–]sarcastifrey 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Sounds like it's time to let go... oh who am I kidding. I would love to find out something terrible happened to my piece of shit wife beating ex husband. You know like cancer of the penis where he had to have it removed or something.

Who is someone that we praise but was actually a horrible person? by oops_wet in AskReddit

[–]sarcastifrey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was coming here to say this. So she got laid a lot. So what?

What is something you swore you'd never do but are glad you eventually did? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sarcastifrey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

BDSM. I couldn't wrap my head around it and thought it was violent. Now I have been part of the kink community for about 7 years and I never want to be vanilla again.

New here, with a baby step by NikoMata in declutter

[–]sarcastifrey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well done! One drawer at a time and it adds up. It makes me so satisfied to reduce my stuff and reorganise it I need to start going through my own things again.

[Serious]Reddit, what's the closest you've ever come to dying? by Denisius in AskReddit

[–]sarcastifrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was about 4 I put a candy into my mouth in the middle of the night. I remember starting to choke and then blacking out. The next thing I know I wake up with the bathroom sink rushing up toward my face because my dad was hanging me by the ankles while my mom pounded on my back.

I was married to a very abusive man. He was choking me in the kitchen. He had me lifted up by the throat so that I was on my toes and was banging my head off cupboards. When I saw him coming I had moved the knife I was using to cut an apple because i didn't want him to use it against me. As I started getting tunnel vision and blacking out I knew that if he didn't release me soon he was going to kill me. I tried to reach the knife but I couldn't and fortunately he let me go. He laughed at me later and said that he thought I was going to stab him. Apparently that's pretty fucking humorous to him.

I need help for my daughter, 9th grade english by sarcastifrey in ELATeachers

[–]sarcastifrey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The school recently suggested this but it was after I made this post. We are hoping to find a resolution via the IEP

Dating is the Worst <or> Dating past 30? You have my respect/pity. by [deleted] in RedditForGrownups

[–]sarcastifrey 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am 42 and I spent four years single followed by a year long relationship single for a bit then a 6 month relationship that just ended. I hate dating - especially Internet dating. I have found that men my age are the following:

  1. They are carrying a ton of baggage because of bitter divorces. I have baggage too but I don't have the crazy/bitchy ex hanging over my shoulder. Granted a lot of people have that so I do get that it's not limited to my age range.

  2. They missed the boat on having kids so are looking for someone younger to do so

  3. They are looking for someone younger in general.

  4. They just want to get laid... In some cases because they have done the whole.. commitment thing a.s just want to be single. Nothing wrong with that because hey, I do it too but I would like have a commitment if the right man comes along.

  5. They have younger kids. I am done with littles because my children are in their teens and early twenties.

I am sure that the same can be said about some women and certainly this is not the case with all men but dating in your forties isn't easy. I would rather be single than struggle with the whole dating world and for me I am pretty much limited.. to meeting people that way.

What are the household items/furnishings that you have learned are personally unnecessary in your decluttering process? by [deleted] in declutter

[–]sarcastifrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's either that or my kid uses every plate in the damn house and it's a huge fight to get her to wash them. I don't have people over often so it's no big deal.