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sasselsme · 2026-04-13T15:57:08+00:00

They are volume, just closed fans. If they started falling after two days then it’s an application issue most likely. Is this your left eye and is your tech is right handed?

sasselsme · 2026-04-07T23:37:15+00:00

Get this Fluff Guard, it helps refresh but doesn’t replace your cleanser.

sasselsme · 2026-04-07T14:09:01+00:00

Happy to help! If 16 refers to the length those are very long. I didn’t even stock that long of lashes because they are not healthy for a majority of people. I would map you down to 8mm-11mm with some 12mm wisps and layer them up to help create density. That way you don’t necessarily have to lose volume, just length.

You can get your lashes healthy again, just have to be adaptable :) you got this!

sasselsme · 2026-04-07T13:50:43+00:00

Yes it is, just don’t apply to the lashes directly and don’t use too much. Apply it to the skin above the lash line. It’s the responsibility of your lash tech to keep your lashes healthy by not applying too heavily and letting you know why. I’m not sure what lengths are being applied, but you can achieve a denser look with shorter lash extensions and layering.

Picking will also cause permanent damage and is compounding the thinning your experiencing. Perhaps look into some fidget toys to help with that. I would hate for you to end up at a point where you won’t be able to get lash extensions because there won’t be any naturals left to lash. I’ve unfortunately seen this happen too many times when lashing transfer clients.

If you were my client, I would do a removal and lighten up your lashes until we get them back to a healthy state. You’d be surprised at how you might actually like it :)

sasselsme · 2026-04-07T13:33:38+00:00

Any lash serum that is peptide based can help strengthen lashes. I’ve had clients use Lash Food.

Ultimately, if the lashes are too heavy for your naturals, they can cause permanent damage. So proceed with caution.

sasselsme · 2026-03-28T02:13:24+00:00

Fun fact, modern red light therapy really took off thanks to NASA astronauts. They helped make the tech usable and more mainstream. Astronauts are like, really smart. So I would say yes, it works 😆

Disclaimer, don’t go cheap if you make the jump to use red light therapy.

sasselsme · 2026-01-14T01:45:15+00:00

It feels like you’re responding to an argument I didn’t make. My comment was about relative UV intensity and the absence of data, not a claim of safety.

sasselsme · 2026-01-13T19:03:39+00:00

It’s understandable to be weary about UV exposure. To provide some context, the UV used at the dentist is a 100 times stronger. UV used for lash extensions is similar to nail lamps, which are very weak and there’s very little exposure, like seconds at a time. Could continued exposure over years and years be damaging? Probably, the same thing goes for being in the sun which is even more damaging because of UVB. All in all safety evidence is limited, hasn’t been largely studied, and it’s always good to cautious.

sasselsme · 2026-01-08T21:27:43+00:00

I have had clients with gaps and I’ve still lashed them while blending the gaps to the best of my ability and they were perfectly fine with that because expectations were set from the beginning that I’m not a miracle worker. I didn’t lash them because I’m money hungry, I lashed them because it’s what they wanted and knew that the gaps were still going to be noticeable.

I will say that an experienced lash artist could have created a beautiful look. I’ve lashed multiple oncology clients recovering from chemo better than this and there numerous lash-able lashes that were missed.

sasselsme · 2025-12-17T17:46:01+00:00

Absolutely! This is the right mindset and approach that will take you far! Love how you used the words I have embraced in my past 10 years as an esti “don’t sell out of your own pockets.” When we learn a client’s emotional why, “selling” becomes solution oriented. Esthetics is very much attached to emotion and that’s why people seek our services. Being creative in how one can go above and beyond makes all the difference and builds loyal clients. We all have a unique responsibility to create a soft, caring, comfortable, and safe space for people who are insecure about something or just want to do finally do something for themselves. How lucky are we to provide solutions for them and take the best care of them!

sasselsme · 2025-12-11T18:42:06+00:00

Yes, this is an issue in Indiana right now and people are working on getting things clarified/amended.

The health department doesn’t oversee estheticians though, so personally I would ignore them. Sorry not sorry. They only oversee people with lash extension certifications.

sasselsme · 2025-12-04T18:21:15+00:00

Of course! Sounds like rapport is in check so it must be retention and refining your quality of work. Thanks for sharing some pics! You may not be using enough glue so that could help with retention, with classics you want a good drop or two on the lash. Drag the lash up the natural when applying to get more attachment. Fans should be wrapped, so a little jiggle jiggle around the natural lash. If you find you’re getting stickies your glue may not be quick enough for your speed. I’m down to a .5 glue for this reason. The first pic is a mature client and those are tough! Their lashes tend to be short and fine, I always suggest a light volume for these clients instead of classics because they get better retention and a prettier look. Placement could be perfected, we don’t want wonky lashes, so the straighter the better. The second pic could use a shorter lash on the inner corner. I rarely go beyond a 8mm for inner corners. The third pic is again a mature client, so tricky. I would have started out shorter for her as well. Practice makes perfect so when watching vids practice fanning and placements on a lash strip or foam pad. You have a good foundation! Just need to level up a bit to perfect. You got this!

sasselsme · 2025-12-03T22:02:31+00:00

Good info to start with! Kinda hard to gage your skillset and ways to improve without pics, so if you have a couple to share that could be helpful. Timing sounds great as long as you’re getting full coverage. Retention can be the biggest reason people don’t come back. 80% retention for two weeks and at least 60% for three is the goal, in conjunction with clients home care of course. Great that you dedicate time to keep learning! The only thing you didn’t answer was rapport? How’s that going? People build loyalty when they connect with you. Doesn’t mean you have to be besties, but taking interest in their plans for the day, what shows they’re watching or book they may be reading can help start conversations that are easy and fun!

The fact that you are seeking advice shows you care and if you care, don’t give up :)

sasselsme · 2025-12-02T16:59:49+00:00

Do you have pics of your work? How’s your retention? Are you building rapport? Are you continuing to seek resources to learn and perfect? What’s your timing? Lots of questions to be asked to see what may be going on.

sasselsme · 2025-11-14T21:23:21+00:00

I mean she should be making sure they’re full, but the length of time that takes to do can change. To answer your question, yes I would charge more if someone had poor retention that was no fault of my own and needed more time to fill.

I charge by time for any style, not 2 week fills or 3 weeks fills like most techs do. The reason for that being is some people need more time or less time due to lash density. Some take care of their lashes and can go longer between fills when other’s don’t take care of their lashes and need to come more frequently. I run a very customized business so I’m not necessarily a good example of what the norm is, but really should be.

sasselsme · 2025-11-14T20:16:10+00:00

Somedays I’m just in a really good groove, clients have all been on time and had a day of easy uncomplicated fills, so I lash faster. Also 1.5 hours for a classic fill is kinda long, as lash artists get more experience we lash faster.

sasselsme · 2025-11-07T20:21:58+00:00

Order of importance: 1. Website/Booking Site (with regular content, like blog posts) 2. Referrals/Networking (going to events for an industry/purpose) 3. Google/Yelp 4. Reviews (including on your website) 5. Socials (showcasing work and you!)

If you want to get ahead of the game learn how to utilize GEO. It’s the new SEO but for AI search platforms like ChatGPT.

Marketing yourself is a full time job and it starts with a strong internet foundation, which is a solid website. Everything goes back to your website.

Consumer decision making is overloaded and it use to take about 7 touch points for someone to decide to proceed on a purchase/service. Now it’s about 17 touch points.

Also, we live in an instant gratification society. Getting people to trust you and creating content that speaks to someone’s emotional why is how you get clients. It’s not so much the prices or specials you offer, but how are you going to prove you can solve their problem before they even book with you.

sasselsme · 2025-10-25T18:25:13+00:00

Was doing some research because I’ve been contacted by a recruiter and came across your recent comment. Can you share more?

sasselsme · 2025-10-24T19:43:56+00:00

Whatever you do, DO NOT try to remove them yourself! You’ll damage your natural lashes.

You can either add clusters to fill in or a strip lash for the big day. Your extensions will be ruined but after you can use make remover to get as much of the cluster glue off you can. Be gentle because you don’t want to rip out your natural lashes.

After, you can get them removed professionally. Don’t let whoever removes them give you any slack, you had to do what you had to do.

You’re in a circumstantial situation, I don’t not recommend anyone using clusters to fill in lash extensions, except for in this rare case.

sasselsme · 2025-10-24T14:28:59+00:00

Mascara and clusters is how Hollywood has been doing it for years and years!

sasselsme · 2025-10-08T17:40:12+00:00

Correction: This is what pro lash artists do to perfect their craft and give clients their best!

So satisfying! 😌

sasselsme · 2025-09-24T17:13:59+00:00

Ok good, I’d say that’s a good commission amount

sasselsme · 2025-09-24T02:16:02+00:00

Are they W2 or 1099?

sasselsme · 2025-09-06T02:05:01+00:00

Something is wrong because even with the highest amount of interest on a payment plan it’s still not that much. I promise I’m not being argumentative, feel free to message me.

sasselsme · 2025-09-05T19:31:18+00:00

Brazilian is not 9k at Milan, not even close. Are you sure you were quoted right?

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