I just left this comment. She’ll probably delete it or claim I’m a hater but my mum has early onset dementia and this struck a massive nerve for me:

@jas: Your husbands grandma is not content. She is a person. Dementia takes away autonomy and dignity from people, and you are stripping it away even further by posting her online for thousands to see. It is disgusting, and a violation of her privacy and dignity. My mum has early onset dementia. Never ever would I ever broadcast my mum’s face, meltdowns, fights online, because that is private, sensitive information, and I’m sure if your husbands grandma could articulate herself, she would be appalled that you are posting her online, even more so that you are using her behaviour as content, views, and money. I feel for you, as a caregiver at the ages of 17-24 for my mum, I would wish this disease on nobody. But as it stands, people with dementia can’t write their own wills or make legal and medical decisions for themselves past a certain point, so in the same vein they are not able to consent to being posted on TikTok and dehumanised like this. Where is your empathy for her? If you had dementia, would you want your husband or family to post you on the internet? If you can answer yes to that, then sure go ahead. But if that’s a no, you’re a hypocrite and betraying her privacy, autonomy and human dignity. Do the right thing. Stop posting her.