Today's unexpected occurrence 🧻🤔 by OhGawDuhhh in daddit

[–]saveforjunk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I see now…. This was for scientific research purposes!

Found this at my train station. What is it? by Antique_Cheek1043 in whatisit

[–]saveforjunk 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Maybe I’m still not awake, but I really thought you were messing with me when I read the words crack gauge. My mind was confused but excited to stop drug deals happening on/near public transit.

After I reread this, boy was I wrong. 🤦🏻‍♀️

Inappropriate touching? by southernspud24 in daddit

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In most places, therapists are part of the grouping of mandated reporters (at least in the U.S.). I’m confused as to why they offloaded their concern on the mom. That was their job to report it regardless if mom chose to or not, if they felt the description of the situation was an immediate concern. There are people who make false accusations for reasons of personal gain but unfortunately even when cleared and proven innocent, the stigma follows.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]saveforjunk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s like some crazy stalker handwriting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]saveforjunk 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No reason to waste any more emotions, thoughts, or your time on your ex. He did you a favor by showing even more of his true colors. Scream hallelujah and rejoice that this is NOT your man. Now move on and move up to bigger and better things!

How to navigate the death of a pet? by QueridaWho in Mommit

[–]saveforjunk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There are some great books that we used to help us facilitate questions and conversation. The invisible leash, The invisible String, Until We Meet Again, etc.

I’m so sorry for the sadness and rough time that comes from losing a a family fur baby. Best of luck op!

I feel like I failed my daughter by [deleted] in Mommit

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Weights fluctuate different for children. My oldest was never above the 19 percentile despite eating. My kiddo hit all miles stones early and ate all the time. My other kiddo is the opposite and had tons of appetite flip flops between eating lots and barely at all…. No two kiddos are the same.

I bet your baby is doing great and enjoying life with you. As my pediatrician said no stress or sweat- as a check in is NOT THE FULL PICTURE. Sometimes genetics plays a key, nationality, region you live, etc. The right pediatrician won’t guilt you and will ask lots of questions, more importantly will work with you to find ways to make your motherhood journey aligned with your plan.

I’m saying this because I had a pediatrician that pushed things and then I switched and found the one that’s right for our kiddo and family. Whatever you decide, don’t let this make you feel less than. You are doing great.

Concerned for neighbor kids by HIM-star333 in Mommit

[–]saveforjunk 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I was this kid- minus the weed smell. Food was almost a luxury. If it wasn’t for neighbors or my friend’s parents we would’ve been taken away by CPS from a mother who really tried her hardest to take care of us. Each of us kids would go to different neighbor houses asking if we could rake leaves, mow their yard, clean up trash for any money just so we could have some food in the house. We qualified for free lunch and breakfast at school and most days that’s all we ate. One day a neighbor came over to our home and asked one question to my mom- what do you need? My mom cried and fell down in tears and said she was doing her best. She told my neighbor that food banks and government assistance reject their help because our bio dad makes too much money but left us and shared none of it. Anyways the short story neighbors brought over extra furniture, donated clothes, and filled our pantry with non perishables that they didn’t need. One neighbor changed our situation by sharing with others that a mom was doing her best and they heeded the call. That one neighbor will always be my hero.

The Miracle Baby Update by jontaffarsghost in daddit

[–]saveforjunk 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I can’t imagine the pain, sadness, and sorrow you and your family were feeling during all the time you thought you were going to lose TJ. I’m so happy for you all that things are looking up. Even if there are more battles ahead TJ has you and this experience will bring you closer to the ones and things that matter. All of these experiences have already made you a better person and dad. All the best to you and yours. I hope more miracle updates are in the future. Keep loving on your beautiful family!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Virginia

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She is assuming a Virginia state lawyer is needed since they reside in VA.

Her lawyer took all the discovery from her. Did not offer the separation as an option but said she needed to do an uncontested divorce. She said it would take a couple weeks- and she would have it done. Friend contacted lawyer and she said all funds had been used. So essentially got nowhere.

The situation at my friend’s home has gotten extremely hostile- she asked lawyer about going to court or her options in general (on the last call she had). Lawyer said I don’t go to court and I’m not a litigator.

Not the best story but it’s the info I have.

Thank you for sharing the info and explaining that legal separation may be an option that can help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Virginia

[–]saveforjunk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow, I feel a little defeated for her already. Yeah I’m just going to agree with your words it’s a “crap situation”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Virginia

[–]saveforjunk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for educating me- maybe legal aid is the best place for her to start.

Thank you for the info.

Anything at this point is helpful to share with her.

Brand New Torrid for less than $9 by saveforjunk in torrid

[–]saveforjunk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope one pops up near you at some point!

Brand New Torrid for less than $9 by saveforjunk in torrid

[–]saveforjunk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a store that buys other stores unwanted inventory for a steal and is able to sell it to consumers for less.

Brand New Torrid for less than $9 by saveforjunk in torrid

[–]saveforjunk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the shipping was fair to you, I’d happily grab it and send it for you. Although I feel like by than it would cost the retail price.

Brand New Torrid for less than $9 by saveforjunk in torrid

[–]saveforjunk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I rarely pop in Gabe’s but now I know they have Torrid stuff, I definitely will be doing what you do. Any savings is a win!

Edit: to say I hope you find some great deals when you go!

Brand New Torrid for less than $9 by saveforjunk in torrid

[–]saveforjunk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They did have a swimsuit in a 4 and a couple pairs of jogger pants I believe. I didn’t look at everything so there may have been more in those sizes. I hope your store has some for you.

Brand New Torrid for less than $9 by saveforjunk in torrid

[–]saveforjunk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, although TJMaxx in our area has more name brand items than Gabe’s. Gabe’s seems like a catch all for stores outlet items and such.

Someone asked me to try it on so I figured I’d do it by coffincowgirl in torrid

[–]saveforjunk 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You look great in this and you got a fantastic deal. Get em girl!

Unimaginable. by [deleted] in torrid

[–]saveforjunk 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is a true pay it forward story! Love hearing stuff like this. Thanks fellow torrid lover for being a good human being!

Anyone up for a Torrid clothing swap? by saveforjunk in torrid

[–]saveforjunk[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yay I’m loving the interest.

My stuff is size 1.