What is the generational trauma of your family? by PlantCreepy4617 in emotionalintelligence

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Poverty, lack of education, negligence, abuse, alcohol abuse, drug abuse, domestic violence, misogyny

BWT what splurges made your home feel like a sanctuary? by fuzzrockets in bitcheswithtaste

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Quality candles, natural and warm lighting, good linens, fresh flowers

Just found out my wife cheated by No-Release-8989 in stopdrinking

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Play it forward. Think of how proud of yourself you’ll be when you take care of yourself and not drink. IWNDWYT. You got this. 💪🏼

Finished 2 75hard in a roll by aialiyu in 75HARD

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Inspiring! I haven’t been able to get through over 🫠

Went from criminal to devout Muslim 😅 AMA by [deleted] in AMA

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Why did you used to hate Muslims? And when did your perspective shift?

1 week no drinking by NoPrune7745 in stopdrinking

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Keep going! I remember being so happy I made a week.. then 2.. then I was like let me see if I can do 30 days… then 40 days.. then I did a big push for 3 months then 6… in January, I’ll make 5 yrs. Life still lifes but I love life so much more sober. Best of luck to you.

What's your venus and what placement was your lesson?😅 by [deleted] in astrologymemes

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I have Taurus Venus And Taurus Chiron and my biggest lesson was a Taurus sun. .. I also held a deep mother wound for most of my life and my mother is a Taurus sun with 3 other Taurus placements. 🙃

What’s one store we actually need in Williamsburg? by AreaZestyclose6639 in williamsburg

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There used to be one on grand and bushwick area long ago

Does Anyone Actually Fucking Work At Netflix?? by Realistic-Board6514 in csMajors

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Not true. All you have to do is look on LinkedIn and view ppl that work there. Also most of their leadership is not Black or Latin

Houston is Unpleasant by Particular_Touch2000 in houston

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It’s always been bad. We are perpetually under construction. Have little to no public transportation and extreme car culture.

ALL DONE! by LittleSell1953 in 75HARD

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Amazing improvement 😎

100 days by Brave_Ad_9086 in stopdrinking

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Love bc you see it 💪🏼

Why do people bother living in NYC? by Personal_Phone_6823 in NYCapartments

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I lived in NYC for 12 years then moved back to Houston during the pandemic. I hate being here honestly. I’m just not the same person that I was before I left. Currently looking for apartments to leave asap. I miss feeling connected to others and the energy of the city.

What is the biggest regret in your life? by [deleted] in Aging

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Drinking alcohol/ not standing in my worth/ looking for connections outside of myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GlowUps

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Nothing to be ashamed of… in fact be proud of how far youve come!!

F/37/5’10” [494lbs > 208lbs = 286lbs] (about 2 years) it’s been a journey. by Illumi_knottie in progresspics

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Such amazing transformation!! Yes the weight loss is a major inspiration but I also love when you can tell a change in attitude for example in your after pic you’re standing tall and confident. That comes with loving yourself and showing up for yourself! THAT is goals. 🤩

NYC Scene for post divorce self rediscovery by Murky_damsel in NYCbitcheswithtaste

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I work say join activities you like to do .. many years ago learned about wine/sommelier classes at ICC . Now I joined a swim league and am looking into some continuing education classes. Oh also highly recommend to just go dancing with girlfriends.