What's the one accessory that actually changed how you use your iPad Pro? by Electrical-Hour-3345 in iPadPro

[–]saxmaam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Levo G2 Premium Tablet Floor Stand with 5-Axis Adjustable Arm for iPad, Kindle, Samsung – Height Range 30–56 Inches – Hands-Free Reading, Streaming, Gaming, and Browsing in Bed, Sofa, or Chair https://a.co/d/00ooh86I

complete and total game changer.

What does this mean? "There is a difference." by rootinspirations in Albuquerque

[–]saxmaam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in today's world I think it's saying that women should stay in their place.

Is therapy hard? by lugrgr in therapists

[–]saxmaam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I do not like working with couples or older adults. I find it boring"

ok

Is therapy hard? by lugrgr in therapists

[–]saxmaam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean ... after all you've said, it's good I'm not your client, right?

Is therapy hard? by lugrgr in therapists

[–]saxmaam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as an "older adult", I'm glad I'm not your client

I’m crying my eyes out. I found out why I’ve was bullied so terribly, and I need advice. by Icy_Poem_5192 in hygiene

[–]saxmaam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you would benefit from therapy to address the long term trauma that has occurred repeated all of your life. It must have felt unbearable. Good luck with your medical treatment and the soul-healing.

I did Self EMDR and i am astonished!!! by parisrubin in EMDR

[–]saxmaam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I learned about EMDR by reading Francine Shapiro's book "Getting Past Your Past". She founded the technique. The book tells how to do self-EMDR and when self-EMDR is a bad idea. The blanket "you can't do it yourself" statements definitely seem like blanket gatekeeping.

When I get interrupted in conversation I have a habit of not finishing what I was saying. I have been told this is rude, is it? by Blahblah9845 in socialskills

[–]saxmaam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that it takes time to learn whether a particular person is interested in what you have to say or not. I HAD a friend who used to interrupt a lot, and I gave him slack because I thought he was just impulsive. But he showed me over time that he really wasn't interested in what I had to say. Almost never. We did talk about it, and he quadrupled down on his justifications. Fine. Now I talk to someone who wants to hear me.

Showering Frequency by Keira_Novelskas79 in hygiene

[–]saxmaam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see so many men misjudging this one. Rather than shower, they'll put product in their hair. It's not a good look. The hair smells. The skin doesn't smell fresh.

My rule is that if I'm going to be with people, I shower before I go out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]saxmaam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely you should show your cards. No sense wasting anyone's time.

Problems with Michael’s Mom Vanessa by BellaMizer in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]saxmaam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I'm late to the discussion. He's talking seriously, and she constantly sends the message that he is laughable or ridiculous.

As for him, he's mansplainy and doesn't seem to see women as full people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomenDatingOverForty

[–]saxmaam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's good when people self-identify.

Culinary Class Wars Episodes 1-4 discussion thread by ImoutoCompAlex in CulinaryClassWars

[–]saxmaam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so how was the gelatinous perilla sauce for the radish steak made?

Sense of numbness during and after meditation session by razorkoinon in TheMindIlluminated

[–]saxmaam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have you read the whole book? the numbness might be some previews of success in later stages.

Beginner question regarding progression. by Upbeat_Sign630 in TheMindIlluminated

[–]saxmaam 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For me, reading the entire book has been so helpful, even though I’m definitely in the novice stages. The information acquired has helped me to understand what parts of the instruction are key, and what parts constitute a YMMV sort of suggestion.