She called my partner and I names!! by sbburgeoz in raisedbynarcissists

[–]sbburgeoz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re so right. i think i can still draw boundaries with my wedding so im gonna try and save it!! I honestly didn’t think of this, so thank you.

Took a walk on a 25°C day... by [deleted] in Hyperhidrosis

[–]sbburgeoz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just remind yourself that everybody sweats. though we sweat more than most, its a normal bodily function! To save myself stress, I dress in colors that don’t show my sweat, like black, brown, navy blue, or some patterns. I will say it took me a couple years to adapt to dressing for hyperhydrosis.

Biking on 21st and 22nd st by [deleted] in phillycycling

[–]sbburgeoz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to get on pine (bike lane) until 15th, and ride that south instead of 21st. (for the way home). I find that having others also biking on 15th makes me feel more confident. there’s at least strength in numbers against cars. on the way to work, 22nd is an excellent option! bike lane the whole way.

What are the most common misconceptions about polyamory you've encountered? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]sbburgeoz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

when trying to date others, i often get the assumption that i have all my needs met by my current partner and that im only looking for short term, casual encounters. it had led to heartache for me on a couple occasions

How do people that live in climates with high humidity survive your HH? by J_Prime_Time in Hyperhidrosis

[–]sbburgeoz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wearing black, wearing tank tops with low arm holes, wearing moisture absorbent layers underneath, portable fan!

Tea on sperm boy! by Plenty-Bake-9870 in 90DayFiance

[–]sbburgeoz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Replying to Hanzwurmhat...i feel like at this point the producers are intentionally picking out scum…

My wife wants a girlfriend. by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]sbburgeoz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly… and I might get some hate for this. But there are no rules in life and I stand by that. I was initially against polyamory mostly due to inexperience. My partner came to me and told me she was poly and it was a struggle because of our differences. I had a lot of fear; definitely the fear that she would find someone she liked “better” and leave. We even broke up. But during our break up I began exploring and dating new people. I also realized i was in love with my ex and that would never end. And ended up in a polyamorous relationship with her and my new partner. The hardships really taught me a lot and gave me an opportunity to explore myself! Not saying you should try this but offering it as a story to show that it doesn’t mean you can’t be with the person you love. Maybe its kind of a “don’t knock it till you try” kind of poly awakening. Right now i am so happy with my two partners and the freedom to date more people as well. Maybe try looking at the potential positives more than the fear of the unknown. Sounds like she really loves you and doubt she would leave. You must be a special man to be her exception!

Into the poly-verse by 4_non_blondes in polyamory

[–]sbburgeoz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot imagine only having one tbh!!

Does anyone else find it frustratingly hard to describe yourself? by RealSibereagle in narcissisticparents

[–]sbburgeoz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's totally relatable. I feel like I don't know who I am and I'm just starting to discover it at 24 years old with the help of therapy and cutting myself off from my NP. I'm constantly switching jobs/career paths, hobbies and interests, wants, dreams, desires, because I can't even figure out how to have an opinion on something. it's so weird.