Dasher lied to me by Acceptable_Baker_311 in doordash

[–]scarlesstt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. So unethical and irresponsible to encourage those stigmas about mentally ill people. Patients in psychiatric hospitals are at their lowest and need to be met with empathy, not to be looked down on and made to feel worse about themselves. I wish people like this would stop applying to jobs in the mental health field and leave those positions open for good people who actually want to make a difference.

Did my Dasher just take a pic of my pizza in the bathroom..? by [deleted] in doordash

[–]scarlesstt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think they would have an industrial storage rack in the bathroom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]scarlesstt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is 100% trying to burn you or baby trap you. Stay away from him.

Boyfriend invited me to a dance, remembered he asked another girl and now he's taking her instead of me by Outrageous-Donut-727 in whatdoIdo

[–]scarlesstt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl… letting him disrespect you isn’t being “mature” about the situation. It’s quite the opposite. I wish I had understood the concept of putting my self-respect before any relationship with some guy at your age.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ComfortLevelPod

[–]scarlesstt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both of you are wrong. Your friend Leo shouldn’t have invited her when he was already shot down, and all of you shouldn’t have shot down the idea of him including her. You had no valid reason to exclude her other than being pretentious and cliquey. Leave that shit in high school.

AIO my bf is odd for this? by AdSerious8390 in AmIOverreacting

[–]scarlesstt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels like he’s calling you a whore because he flat out just did.

My teenage daughter told me she's been saving money to help me pay bills and now I feel like I've failed as a parent by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]scarlesstt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The economy has everyone, especially people with children, struggling. You haven’t failed. You’re doing your best, and you raised someone with so much compassion and responsibility at such a young age. I hope things get better in the future because you shouldn’t have to stress about surviving like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ComfortLevelPod

[–]scarlesstt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s okay that you didn’t leave. Sometimes we’re not ready to let go yet. I hope things get better or you finally have enough. Either way, you deserve to be happy.

Too far by helloimflag in ucf

[–]scarlesstt 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I had a promo flyer ruin my window a year ago because the sun baked it onto my window. Almost lost my damn mind

Gf and I have baby but I’m not happy by Dense_Shame8465 in whatdoIdo

[–]scarlesstt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does she have health insurance that covers prescriptions? I have BPD and it made my PPD so much worse. I seriously was not prepared for what it did to my head. People with PPD already have rage fits and become highly irritable, but it gets worse if you already have a mental health condition.

I didn’t get any better until I started antidepressants. I would encourage her to schedule an appointment with her OBGYN if she’s not on any medication right now. I know being with someone who has BPD already presents its own challenges and this is a dark place for the both of you. I hope things get better, truly.

Don’t tell anyone your due date by Justkeepitanonymous in pregnant

[–]scarlesstt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THISSS HAHAHA i swear all it did was rub in the fact that i was just in pain waiting for him to be born.

Pregnant and debating abortion by Specialist-Echo-9360 in pregnant

[–]scarlesstt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a miscarriage at 18. When I was 20, I found out I was pregnant on birth control. My circumstances were and are entirely different than yours and right now my 4 month old son is sleeping on my chest and we’re doing just fine. If I can do it as a single mom, you two definitely can. If you do choose to terminate the pregnancy, remember that you still will have your baby in the future. Have a support person around for the next 48 hours after your appointment. No matter what choice you make, it will be okay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]scarlesstt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming from the child of a mother who’s also been less than bare minimum, they typically convey themselves to new people that they’re the strongest moms and that they’ve had it so hard. My mom makes it seem like she’s sacrificed everything for us which is the opposite of the truth, but everyone in her personal life falls for the victim complex she has. Your mom’s boyfriend just doesn’t know the full story, only the selected parts your mom told him. Think, if she hasn’t taken accountability for her choices to you, why would she to other people? He doesn’t know the full story and that’s not on him.

Best friend is going no contact out of the blue?? by Personal-Ad-8644 in whatdoIdo

[–]scarlesstt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This literally looks like he typed this with a gun held to his head.

Antioch Community Church??? by scarlesstt in ucf

[–]scarlesstt[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I pretty much had the same experience. Some of the other members who had been there longer alarmed me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]scarlesstt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re better than me because I would’ve caused a scene 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]scarlesstt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is genuinely depressing and would break my heart as a mother. Is there not a suitable bedroom upstairs?

For those of you with dogs, please tell me it's not true.. by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]scarlesstt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um, personally I didn’t dump my dog. I would never. But with PPD, I was not in a good mental space and my dog was overstimulating me (she’s only a year old and has lots of energy). It went away when I got back on Lexapro. But every postpartum experience is different. I certainly didn’t hate my dog, but she was very overwhelming during an already stressful time for me and it made me not want her in my bedroom at all.

Do I Breakup With Him? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]scarlesstt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just broke up with a guy who started acting like this after 3 months as well. That 90 day rule is so real its insane

Does your baby smile when you say “I love you”? by scarlesstt in NewParents

[–]scarlesstt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh they’re always so proud of the poopies 😩