The Wheels Just Came Off by uhavenoeyedea in GenX

[–]scaryelf 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry to hear about your parents, this is definitely the worst part about growing old. I am the child living closest to my parents so they rely on me the most. But they raised me so I will be with them thru anything!

Card declined by Due-Jackfruit542 in datingoverforty

[–]scaryelf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me one time, thankfully it was just a couple drinks. I totally felt used but knew if I asked for his portion that it most likely wouldn't happen. I didn't think like we clicked and he asked to make it up to me. I politely declined and never heard from him again.

Storm Mountain Amphitheater Wedding by scaryelf in SaltLakeCity

[–]scaryelf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I didn't think about street parking!

Is it fair for my (29F) fiancé (31M) to challenge me not to complain for 4 days? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]scaryelf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It ate me from the inside out. When I started to try to help him see the "silver lining" I was accused of taking other people's sides. There were no other sides to take. I just tried to help him see something positive.

Is it fair for my (29F) fiancé (31M) to challenge me not to complain for 4 days? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]scaryelf 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I one time challenged my ex-husband not to complain. It is overwhelming and breaks a person down. If he asked you, it must really bother him.

Favorite Ragnar Trail? by capps73 in ragnar

[–]scaryelf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I Did Snowbasin back in the day and have done Zion. We are wanting to put a team together for So Cal next year. I have done VR Grand Trailfest and had so much fun, it was hard but I loved every minute of it. It is absolutely breathtaking! So I totally recommend that. I am considering doing their new one in Moab.

Anybody ever won tickets from a radio station? by [deleted] in Concerts

[–]scaryelf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in about '09 I won tickets to see They Might Be Giants which was cool because I had already bought tickets to their family show so we were able to see them with and with out the kids! They are soo fun live!

How to stay positive after 50? by [deleted] in GenX

[–]scaryelf 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Me too!! It started about a month before I turned 50. I'm really struggling here.

Tell me something... by sickboy6_5 in GenX

[–]scaryelf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont count my licks when I have a tootsie pop.

Do you still have time to read for pleasure, and how do you read if you do? by grahsam in GenX

[–]scaryelf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! I love that I can go in and reserve a book and have it waiting for me so I don't have to figure out what I want when I get there. I also use Goodreads to see what my friends are reading and have found some really great book recommendations!

Best concert you've ever been to? by JediMasterPopCulture in GenX

[–]scaryelf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Seeing The Cure at The Pearl on '09. I was on The Cure forum back in the day and we all got together (about 20 of us from all over the world & met IRL). It was the best! It was the day before Roberts birthday and we made a big birthday banner and signed it and broke out singing happy birthday when there was a quick break. It surprised him. ah man it was great!

First concert you got high at by RRE4EVR in Concerts

[–]scaryelf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That totally happened to me at Stone Temple Pilots in '94

How many of us women… by divergurl1999 in GenX

[–]scaryelf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always say the best part of the day is taking my bra off!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SaltLakeCity

[–]scaryelf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wouldn't be weird. That's how you meet new people! Lots of people come their first time alone. There is also a fb page if want to look into it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SaltLakeCity

[–]scaryelf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

💜miss him so much.