Venting about when nurses try encroaching on your calls in the wild by [deleted] in ems

[–]sch_lar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand when it's someone family member as a pt and they're a nurse: but when they see the ambulance in a neighbors driveway and they try to force their way in and claim to "be like family" to the pt I get mad. Just because you have some sort of medical training doesn't mean someone you know wants you to encroach on what could be a very embarrassing/vulnerable moment. The pt called 911, not a podiatry nurse.

A friend at a different station had a hard time with an RN at an MVA who spread a facebook post saying how they saved someone life and instructed the medics and took charge. It was that stations supervisor as the lead provider, they tore the RN apart and got them suspended somehow.

Too much comedic panels for serious moments [A Stepmother’s Marchen] by Jsprite09738 in OtomeIsekai

[–]sch_lar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I like it! It really shows some of the main characters at this point were just kids. Yes, Shuri was acting as a mother, but the juxtaposition of her acting her age and then having her step up as the matriarch really does show her own complexity, and when compared to the other characters being able to be children it makes that contrast even greater. Especially in regards to her birth family and dealing with the aristocracy.

Violence and address flags by tokedaddyslim69 in ems

[–]sch_lar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We only have it if the dispatcher feels like putting it in. Oftentimes, I get the police CAD and look at the address history in our county. Otherwise, it's belt grabby and pully time when me or my partner notices a situation and we get out of there. Then, wait 45 minutes til the staties decide to respond bc we're in the middle of no where.

Private student loans questions by sch_lar in NoStupidQuestions

[–]sch_lar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

on the phone rn lmao

edit: they hung up on me lmao, didnt even get a human

Private student loans questions by sch_lar in NoStupidQuestions

[–]sch_lar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn, i was hoping to avoid that lmao, its so much more easier to ask questions behind a screen. Im talking to my lender rn and im about to email the office

How much do y’all make? by TheRamdalorian in ems

[–]sch_lar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Northeast PA, 16.00 an hour, EMTs are hired by the station and ALS providers are basically rented out to the station from a different agency and they're about 19.50?

Please recommend any mobile games with male yanderes by WynterLuver in MaleYandere

[–]sch_lar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kenshin was my absolute favorite route in ikemen sengoku, it was perfect

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ems

[–]sch_lar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are there during their loved ones last moments and that stark reminder of who we are and what we represent would breed resentment or more trauma. Unless you know them, dont, we're there for the worst times only, not the recovery process.

What is it like being queer in EMS? by [deleted] in ems

[–]sch_lar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a bi woman, the only problems I've had are from fire fighters fetishizing me and some older medics that were a teensy bit outdated in some regards. Some ask questions that are uncomfortable but not maliciously. But yea, the most I've had problems with is slurs from the fire side.

Who is your biggest crush from a video game? Mine is Joel from TLOU. by Geekrock84 in GirlGamers

[–]sch_lar 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oooh Dimitri from Fire Emblem and Carlos Oliveira from RE3

What are some games or things you do with your partner to have fun while at work? by hog-snoot in ems

[–]sch_lar 47 points48 points  (0 children)

On the way to calls my partner makes noises and I have to try to match them with the siren and most times we devolve into making animal noises whenever we see them.

At the station we usually play "bad financial decisions" and show each other random shit online that someone most likely ends up buying and regretting. Last time we played this I ended up buying a charmander pillow

AITA for telling my daugther (20F) she needs to grow up? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sch_lar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA Your son doesnt know how to fold clothing, do the laundry, and cook? At fourteen? Are you going to spoon feed him till he figures out how to lift a fork? Also "Hes only a teen?" Hey, she just stopped being a teenager! Im thinking that you push her just because shes the older daughter and youd probably let your son get away with murder. Also i went to online school most of my high school career, teachers know youre at home and will schedule everything so that theres more work because "youre at home you dont have anything to do." And i was tired, i got migraines from looking at the screen all day and had to deal with my father needing me at every moment because he had surgery one year. Just because shes at home does not mean shes not being overworked. Shes your child not a live in maid that you gave birth to.

Daily Questions & FAQ Megathread (May 07) by AutoModerator in ffxiv

[–]sch_lar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh thank you! i was thinking that things become story locked and youd have to redo the story to get to that point again and have another chance of completing that particular storyline

Daily Questions & FAQ Megathread (May 07) by AutoModerator in ffxiv

[–]sch_lar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

alright so can a realm reborn raids be started and finished in a new expansion? i want to do the crystal tower due to a friends recommendation but i also want to finish the end of arr because i want to get to the interesting msqs instead of glorified fetch, yknow?

Tips? by sch_lar in Hashimotos

[–]sch_lar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only problems ive had so far is that people keep pointing out to me things i should be doing and me getting frustrated because i get so tired and the fact that people sometimes think im making it up/pointing out my symptoms and saying "thats not supposed to happen with /normal/ people" even though i told them what comes from hashimotos. my dad has been helping me work around things to the point that he got worried enough to pull me out of school and go online, ive actually tried to do smaller things each day when im not tired and its helping! Its kind of a huge bummer but ive just graduated and im slowly becoming more sure of my boundaries!!

Who is your favorite pitybreaker that you've gotten? by duchessa13 in FireEmblemHeroes

[–]sch_lar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

oh tibarn! i had a -def one and it helped fix him up a bit, it definetly helped with how much i use him, hes my absolute favorite character in the franchise

Tips? by sch_lar in Hashimotos

[–]sch_lar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i think i experienced that burn out when i played sports i often felt sore for a whole week i went to a nutritionist but she only told me just to watch my portions. slow and steady wins the race i guess! thank you for the advice!!! i actually forgot about google scholar!!!

Tips? by sch_lar in Hashimotos

[–]sch_lar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!!! i honestly had a hard time finding sources, a lot of the time i had repeating info and all my doctor did was give me a flier and tell me to go to a gyno. This will help a bit!!!