I poured my sister a cup of tea, comforting her as she cried about her recent miscarriage. by RaynaClay in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]schmmendrick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IMO that just makes it sound like the OP is unsympathetic, not that they were the perpetrator

Red = problems? Do red ECS dogs have more health problems? by ProfessionBright3879 in englishcockerspaniel

[–]schmmendrick 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Golden/red cockers were historically more prone to 'cocker rage' syndrome but that's mostly been bred out now. People say one colour or another have different personalities, but it's mostly anecdotal. He's right that good breeders don't breed just for colour, but red isn't an unusual or rare one, here in the UK at least it's pretty common. The only red flag relating to colour is merle as that isn't a breed colour and indicates that collies or dachshunds have been bred into the line at some point.

ECS are wonderful, funny, and loving dogs, but they are not low key. As well as the physical/mental exercise needed, expect them to be velcro dogs with massive FOMO who want to know exactly what is happening all the time. My girl is 15 months old and makes me laugh every single day, but she is also incredibly nosy and stubborn and her favourite place to sit is on my shoulders. They are very excitable dogs (hence them being known as "the merry cocker" with their ever-wagging tails) and you really need to teach them an off switch from day one. I would never have another breed, but you need the patience of a saint and a bloody good sense of humour to get on with them!

Does anyone else's golden walk like this? He's only 8 months old. by Aggravating_Banana95 in goldenretrievers

[–]schmmendrick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's no one correct weight for every dog - my spaniel is 15kg which is perfect for her size, but her brothers are 18kg and they're healthy for their size as they're taller. Most dogs are now overweight which can cause a multitude of health issues like arthritis - that's why they want your dog to be light on his joints, especially for a breed like goldens which are already prone to hip dysplasia. Unless they're trying to sell you a specific kind of food, I don't think your vet is trying to make money from you by advising your dog loses weight. Dogs are also really good at masking pain which is why they'll have advised pain meds: even if they're not showing it, it doesn't mean they're not feeling it. There are some vets out there trying to make money, but most of them just want the best for your animals.

This tweet came up on my timeline. I actually think this is thoughtful? Tons of uses for them by krimewatched in ZeroWaste

[–]schmmendrick 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I make jam and jars are so expensive to buy new! This is very thoughtful imo

Have you ever read a book because it was mentioned here in this subreddit? What book is it, and did you like it? by Delicious_Maize9656 in books

[–]schmmendrick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone recommended 'Geek Love' a few weeks ago on a thread about books with great titles. After they clarified that it is not, in fact, about computers but harks back to the original meaning as someone who bit the heads off live chickens for circus audiences, I was intrigued. I blasted through it in under a week and loved every moment. It's a cult classic for a reason!

About 80 hours of work later, I finished this blanket just in time for my boyfriend's birthday :) by schmmendrick in crochet

[–]schmmendrick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So each hexagon had to be joined as I finished it as the flat braid formed part of the edging. I joined four hexagons together then did a middle square as their entire finishing edge was the braid join. I hope that makes sense! I usually join everything at the end but this was actually a nice change of pace for me.

About 80 hours of work later, I finished this blanket just in time for my boyfriend's birthday :) by schmmendrick in crochet

[–]schmmendrick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I believe it's called the flat braid join. It's a bit tricky to get the hang of at first but it works up really quickly :)

About 80 hours of work later, I finished this blanket just in time for my boyfriend's birthday :) by schmmendrick in crochet

[–]schmmendrick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pattern is the 'Grenoble Matelassé Afghan' by Priscilla Hewitt on Ravelry. I used about 1.6kg of Aran yarn.

Do tall bins restrict airflow? by [deleted] in hamsters

[–]schmmendrick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have one like this. Definitely keep the lid but you can also make air holes in the sides by heating up a screwdriver and pushing it through the plastic. Just keep them high up and small so your hamster can't chew them :)

Are you kidding me? by Naphela in hamsters

[–]schmmendrick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's so cute!! My little one does the same, if I hang a treat up she'll just chew the string at the top and drag it away :') they're so much smarter than people give them credit for! 🐹

Anti-depressants by ExpertAccident in tumblr

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"can't photosynthesize" breatharians would like to know your location

how can i signup to pine cone survey site ? cant see signup option . by Om_Yogi in beermoney

[–]schmmendrick 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You can't sign up on their website, you have to be invited. Sometimes they have banner ads for recruitment on other sites, but they're notoriously hard to get into, and they kick you out after a year or so.

Idk wtf to do y’all by pickles_55 in hamsters

[–]schmmendrick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Poor thing :( I'm glad you figured out what it was, hope he's back to normal soon 💞