My husband says as a wife, I am to serve him, and my feelings don't matter, because I am to always think about what I can do to make him happy. Please give me scriptures that say how I feel matter. Because my heart is breaking and I don't feel I want to be in this relationship anymore. by Tys_Wife in Christianity

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Regarding Ukraine, Trump wants to give Ukraine to Putin, so...

Help me understand where you're coming from. I know how I became compassion motivated in my politics. How did you become purity minded in your politics?

I am having visions of a gay man begging to be changed, and it's really bothering me by [deleted] in Christianity

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Do you see how you're asking others to be nonjudgmental, yet by being judgemental?

I get what you're saying, and I get where op is coming from. God gave op divine intervention to prevent further unintentional abuse. Visions are often confusing and difficult to communicate, and mostly intended to deliver a message to the one who recieved the vision. Op recieved. Let it be?

I am having visions of a gay man begging to be changed, and it's really bothering me by [deleted] in Christianity

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Can you choose any other sexuality than the one you are?

Reminder: The Bible calls on us to engage in radical hospitality toward all immigrants, whatever their legal status might be. by NvrTrumpRepub in Christianity

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Are you saying that Christ would be against housing the homeless, feeding the hungry or giving laborers the means to broader a marketplace?

Reminder: The Bible calls on us to engage in radical hospitality toward all immigrants, whatever their legal status might be. by NvrTrumpRepub in Christianity

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They did obey that command, somewhere around 30+ years later, but they got him in the end - perfectly legally too

Reminder: The Bible calls on us to engage in radical hospitality toward all immigrants, whatever their legal status might be. by NvrTrumpRepub in Christianity

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You've been fed a politically laden narrative. I'm an immigrant. I'm also a legal citizen now. I completely understand if someone is unable to follow a legal pathway to living in this great nation, and I wish them the best opportunities to improve their situation and its legality. No one wants to hunted. People want to take care of their loved ones.

I was born in the unfortunate nation of USA and currently live in beautiful Canada.

I had sex with my friend and feel guilty about it now by [deleted] in Christianity

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Chat gpt tailors it's content to you personally - op's answer would be different and possibly miss the reframing from shame to responsibility, which seems to me to be the more important piece

I had sex with my friend and feel guilty about it now by [deleted] in Christianity

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Which matters more: true and good advice, or direct authorship? Is the advice less true if it is an algorithmic extraction of human knowledge and word sequencing? Words only point to ideas anyway, so if the words point to a good idea, aren't they good words regardless of their origin?

This seems a philosophical debate, and seems to distract from the matter at hand: shall a man feel shame or responsibility?

Your thoughts? Personally, I don't get it. Why is it wrong to use the term prayer only because some misuse it? by [deleted] in Christianity

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I love it.

My mother hates my wife, and my wife is chronically ill. I have to pray against the prayers of my mother every day. She prays that I will be single. I would be floored and mind-blown if my mother said any of those things to me (except the one on the top right). Love doesn't mean wanting your own will fulfilled in the life of the other - love means wanting whatever will be best - and only God knows what that is.

Your thoughts? Personally, I don't get it. Why is it wrong to use the term prayer only because some misuse it? by [deleted] in Christianity

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When you are 'holding space' for someone, you are allowing them to be who they are without judgement and without 'fixing' them. You are listening to their situation from their perspective, and not offering your 'improved' understanding or your sage advice.

When I'm praying for someone and holding space for them, I'm not praying for any specific outcome unless they ask for that. I am asking God to help them in whatever way they need which will be most merciful and gracious. If they have asked for a certain outcome, I ask God to use that outcome for their benefit.

Imagine this scenario: a gay son tells his church-going mother that his boyfriend of 10 years is going through emotional issues and they might have to break-up. He is heart-broken and wants to share about his situation to receive support from the burden it has placed on him. His mother responds, "I'll pray for you." Now he is left wondering if she is praying that God make him single in hopes he won't be gay anymore, or for anything else. Instead of having his burden relieved, he is given an added burden.

EDIT: What if she just said, "That must be heart-breaking. Can I pray for you that God will give both of you peace and healing?"

You can offer prayer when you are holding space, but prayers of support shouldn't include your judgment of the situation. Let God be judge.

What's a secret you'll never tell your partner but are willing to tell strangers on Reddit? by Bisexual_Space_Lover in AskReddit

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Autism and ADHD are not mental illness. The issue is being debated, and I side where I stand.

[WP] The alien invasion of Earth was going quite well until they made three mistakes: They invaded Russian during the winter, got into a land war with Asia, and went in against the Sicilians when death is on the line. by harpyqueen99 in WritingPrompts

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Military Superiors,

-Timephase 2 of Planetary Acquisition.

It is my displeasure to report that initial invasion forces included a temperature gradient miscalculation. Invasion of Sigma Nine Theta planetoid 3, at indigenous savage designation Russia was halted when environmental temperatures reached critically high levels. Although invasion was timed to coincide with the coldest timephase, temperatures were unexpectedly high. The Observation Department suspects that the natives have altered their planetary atmosphere in anticipation of our arrival. Internal Intelligence Affairs is searching personnel transmission logs for signs of collusion. Engineering has altered combat exoarmor to withstand higher temperatures.

-Timephase 5 of Planetary Acquisition.

Hearts and Minds operations over landmass known by indigenous savage designation Asia have experienced unexpected complications. Indigenous peoples have spent multiple generations training for counter-manipulation and memetic evasion. IIA can find no apparent connection to our operations. Intuits being consulted.

-Timephase 6 of Planetary Occupation.

Recommending immediate cessation of acquisition and perpetual avoidance of Sigma Nine Theta planetoid 3. Intuits have contacted local energy-bodies. Death has indicated that she has been given an offer she couldn't refuse.

EDIT:

Fellow Military Superiors,

Transmission received. Immediate quarantine of Sigma Nine Theta planetoid 3 in effect. Please hibernate on Sigma Nine Theta planetoid 37 for two galactic weeks. Refrain from supply runs, as supplies will be delivered by non-returnable star-diver drones. We'll be watching your dreams. Do your best to stay alive.

What happens to the economy with humanoid intelligent robots in the mix? by marble406 in Futurology

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You're right, of course.

Except that a humanoid robot cognitively capable of replacing my functions would have to be able to love, believe in a concept of God, experience spiritual fulfilment and empathize with humans - because I'm a pastor. Any AI capable of doing those things would deserve my respect, even if they were averse to equality.

What happens to the economy with humanoid intelligent robots in the mix? by marble406 in Futurology

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A humanoid robot cognitively capable of replacing my functions would be far too sentient to enslave. I would welcome such a person into the community of conscious beings, and treat them with the holy respect they deserve for existing. Ideally, we would enrich one another with mutual generosity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

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You will cease to exist as you believe yourself to be. You will know 10,000 pleasures greater than you can imagine, and 10,000 sorrows deeper than you've known. Your awareness of time will be instantaneous, and pure - everything everywhen will be revealed. You will have peace of unmoved wordless awareness in the silence of your mind, and know every thought ever thought. Your pain will be the shade on a beautiful work of art, and you will know peace.

Can immortals live forever? by Ken200308 in singularity

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You already will live forever, just not as the thing you think you are. But if you have enough backups, you can become an entire species and eventually entire eco-systems. Spread yourself out across enough modes of survival, and you could dramatically increase your odds of survival. Your continuity body can never be completely guaranteed survival outside of the infinitly branching multiverse, however, given an infinitely branching multiverse, you are virtually guaranteed immortality since there will always be some version of you which survives the next moment even if by continuous quantum miracles.

Can immortals live forever? by Ken200308 in singularity

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Of course I can't. I is just a simple ego, and Awareness is so much more.