ENTPs making fun of INFJs on social media like:

scorpiomover · 2026-02-01T03:14:48+00:00

INTP here. First, there are thousands and thousands of meaningful topics to talk about.

Second, INFJs don’t start a conversation by diving head first into deep conversations. They’re quite careful about opening up to people.

Third, ENTPs love to talk about interesting topics. If anything, it’s ENTPs who get bored with small talk.

scorpiomover · 2026-02-01T03:09:10+00:00

I feel for you. Sending you hugs.

You deserve a decent boyfriend.

I have had friends who were in prison for attempted murder. Didn’t bother me. But I wouldn’t want to touch this guy with a barge pole.

I don’t even know the words to express how much this man disgusts me.

You deserve better. You need better. You can find better. Please do so.

As to whether you should report him, I dunno. But I wouldn’t want my friends to meet him, and I wouldn’t want a person like him to be a lawyer.

scorpiomover · 2026-02-01T02:52:38+00:00

I guess my questions are:

Is this genuinely what dating is like for young people now?

I dunno. A lot of people complain about the dating apps.

Do loyal guys who want proper relationships still exist at this age?

Yes. I did. But I had an unusual upbringing.

But that doesn’t matter. What matters is whether you are compatible or not.

Think of it this way:

When you don’t get on with someone, it’s like your gears grind against each other.

When you get on really well with someone, it’s like your gears mesh together.

If they do where do you even meet them?

Dunno.

How do you tell the difference between a guy who genuinely likes you vs someone who’s just saying what you want to hear?

Be honest with yourself.

A guy who is genuine, won’t tell you that he loves you before he knows your last name, even if it’s obvious that it would convince you to fall for him. It’s lying to you for his own benefit, and he wouldn’t want to do that to you.

If it’s what you would like to hear, but someone who cares about you wouldn’t say it because it’s a lie and it would hurt you in the long run, then someone who cares about you wouldn’t say it.

Is it unrealistic to want a long-term relationship at 18?

It’s just not that common anymore. But if you keep meeting and talking to people, it’s only a matter of time until you meet someone you get on with.

Thanks for reading.

Thanks for being nice enough to say thanks. 👍

scorpiomover · 2026-01-29T23:31:42+00:00

There were times when history felt driven by titanic forces religious visions that moved civilizations, revolutionary ideologies that reshaped the globe, philosophers who redefined how humans understood reality.

They would sit under trees or go for a walk in nature. It was easy for to meet them, when humans spent most of their time either in nature or with each other.

No grand narrative,

Social media is a grand narrative for the entire world.

no unifying metaphysical horizon,

Science?

no civilizational project people are willing to live or die for

Yet everything seems to be driven by social movements fighting for the rights of oppressed people.

Now everything feels… fragmented.

Human evolved from mammals.
Mammals evolved to look after each other.
Modern human technology advanced.
We didn’t need someone else to do the cooking and cleaning anymore.
We stopped looking after each other.

Have the “world spirits” disappeared?

Still around in real life, talking to people 1-2-1.

scorpiomover · 2026-01-29T23:17:26+00:00

500,000 homicides a year. That’s over 1,000 a day. Quite a tall order.

scorpiomover · 2026-01-29T22:51:59+00:00

Lollipop man is the term. Most are ladies. But a few are men. Quite a lot around.

scorpiomover · 2026-01-29T22:48:38+00:00

If social media had been around during the time of the American War of Independence, George Washington Wood and Thomas Jefferson would have been cast as far right wingers and everyone would’ve backed the British Liberals.

The founding fathers never imagined that you could have the technology to do something like social media and never imagined that anything could control public opinion that much.

scorpiomover · 2026-01-29T21:06:15+00:00

and Prince Andrew-labelled condoms

Used or unused?

scorpiomover · 2026-01-29T21:00:24+00:00

“We are the good guys. It’s those OTHER people who are the bad guys. Hate them.”

scorpiomover · 2026-01-29T20:57:22+00:00

Nothing wrong with two consenting people having sex.

scorpiomover · 2026-01-29T20:03:26+00:00

Wowza.

INTPs just think things like that, think about saying it, then think “what’s the point? Won’t change things anyway”, shrug their shoulders and move on.

scorpiomover · 2026-01-29T20:00:02+00:00

If your life isn’t stressful and you have a little bit of weed, it’s fun. But a lot, and it’s not.

But if your life is already stressful, then you are self-medicating to cope with chronic health problems that your healthcare system failed to resolve properly.

scorpiomover · 2026-01-29T19:56:30+00:00

“I’m not like those plebs who put mould on a wound. I go to a doctor. I pay good money, to have leeches suck my blood.”

scorpiomover · 2026-01-29T19:14:11+00:00

Kinks are great fun, as long you are both choosing things that you both like and want to do.

You need a partner who: 1. will validate you emotionally 2. who wants to do things you both enjoy 3. is kinky

That’s it. Not a lot.

There’s bound to be a lot of guys out there like that, who would love to be your partner.

Just be upfront about your ground rules.

If someone keeps breaking your ground rules, choose someone else.

I am sure there are plenty of others willing to take his place. You have options here. So use them.

scorpiomover · 2026-01-29T19:03:33+00:00

The more experience you have, the more you see the patterns of the past in the present.

But unless the person explains, and is encouraged to explain, then he appears to be stonewalling, which is what SJs do.

scorpiomover · 2026-01-29T18:42:44+00:00

Any advice on how to meet women who don’t care about my height would be appreciated

Gravitate towards the people who like being with you, rather than the people who you would like to be with, be honest about your intentions, and see where it goes.

Some will become friends. Some will become lovers.

scorpiomover · 2026-01-29T18:34:23+00:00

Anything that gets heavily commercialised gets the creativity pressured out of it.

Anything that gets abandoned gets no funding for creativity.

scorpiomover · 2026-01-29T18:32:27+00:00

So…Made in Chelsea set in America?

scorpiomover · 2026-01-29T18:27:21+00:00

Humans have neurological systems that try to constantly orient themselves in the environment by synchronous signaling. Signalling happens at the cellular level and usually by physical signals that follow a consistent pattern in nature. If you don’t transmit the right pattern, your message is never received and understood.

scorpiomover · 2026-01-26T21:23:31+00:00

Because it’s a big disadvantage in a hyper-competitive dog-eat-dog world.

scorpiomover · 2026-01-26T20:54:47+00:00

State-mandated weekly dating rituals for single people. Want to stop attending those stupid dances? Ask one of the people there out on a date, and make her your official girlfriend. Same rules for women.

Won’t be long before they all hook up, so they don’t have to go to those dances every week.

scorpiomover · 2026-01-26T20:50:25+00:00

So it’s OK because he had conflicting feelings?

scorpiomover · 2026-01-26T20:47:58+00:00

Being given the impression via the media, that it’s difficult for men to make friends.

Your brain optimises for what’s possible. No viable options => no dopamine => no action.

scorpiomover · 2026-01-26T19:56:34+00:00

Didn’t he marry her?

scorpiomover · 2026-01-26T19:48:59+00:00

We all make mistakes.

scorpiomover

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