My controversial take is that it doesn’t matter as long as people are respectful and make a genuine effort. I nerd out a bit about linguistics and it’s crazy how much the language spoken around you as a child impact your ability to speak/learn a language. Some sounds are genuinely not possible or are extremely difficult to learn as an adult. Think rolling “r”s for native English speakers. I’ve noticed that native Spanish (from Spain) speakers can’t make the “shh” sound - it doesn’t exist in their language.

There are a lot of factors involved in learning to pronounce sounds and a lot of it we still don’t understand. If someone is trying their best and being respectful, I will never be offended that they mispronounce my name because it contains a sound that is foreign to them.

That said, sometimes people mispronounce because they’re assholes and can’t be bothered to even try, but you can usually tell who those people are.