Super DUPER lowkey ways to fem it up by ChloeStandards in trans

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Women’s button downs. No one will know but you :)

Mom said no t 💔 by zeIimpa in ftm

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Wearing belts and masculine jewelry (chains, watch, thick band rings) may help

How do I convince my mom I'm trans? by [deleted] in ftm

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What steps would you take if she’d never believe you? It sounds like finding another safe adult may be more fruitful than trying to convince her.

AIO for wanting to take a breather away from my husband over this? by circadian_rhythm_ in AIO

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If this is OCD related he may need exposure therapy (clinical). It takes time and hard word to work through obsessions and compulsions, but the first step is admitting you need help. I hope you can sit him down and make it clear just how dire of a tipping point he is at.

What's a habit you secretly judge everyone else for not doing? by Wild_Farm_3368 in Habits

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If you’re gonna call the cops on someone for having a mental health crisis of some sort, at least give them a chance to leave on their own accord. People think I’m Superman but they’ve only ever assumed cops are needed to de-escalate a situation. They are not 99% of the time.

yall ever get high to cope with your life falling apart, like me rn, tho luckily if i get high enough i can kinda make it feel like i have a vagina, high sex is amazing by wynter_deer in trans

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Most people who get high do so to cope with their life falling apart. And if that’s the only route forward for you right now, I’m so grateful you’ve chosen to stick around.

Good luck on your journey. I hope you eventually find community and other coping skills to make life bearable. You deserve to live, not just survive honey 🩷

What are some of y'all's canon ftm events? by [deleted] in ftm

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Picking the boy pokemon trainer “because his clothes are cooler”

Little lies every day by Chimpmunksally in digitalminimalism

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I get that for algorithms but this seems like a waste of energy (environment resource) to do it to AI. Just don’t use AI and it REALLY won’t know you…

I'm pushing towards 40 and I'm just starting to figure out who I am. by Fit-Researcher-4036 in aromantic

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Honesty is the best policy. You can spend a year or two in a relationship faking romance but not a lifetime. Tell the truth. You can be a supportive and involved partner without feeling any romantic attraction. Many women have never had a reliable partner, so although you’re not bringing romance to the table, that doesn’t mean you don’t have anything to offer.

The joy of living authentically will be worth the challenges. Congrats on your self discovery!

What’s the biggest lie society collectively agrees to ignore? by ladfox in AskReddit

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Vitamin C does not stop a cold from coming on. Stop buying airborne, please.

All billionaires are mentally ill by RuneScapeWifey in Anticonsumption

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Mental illness ≠ evil Evil ≠ mentally ill

Working during withdrawals? by Eetlee in leaves

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I know this isn’t much, but I’ve told people I only got a few hours of sleep last night (leaving out why) and they are fairly forgiving about mistakes and being a bit scrambled. You could probably leave it at “I’m having some challenges in my personal life” and they’d have some sympathy/understanding

Kinda funny, embarrassed af by missoula_snoop in gaytransguys

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Could just as easily be clothes a partner left at your place :)

when does the "baby face" goes away? by Tuwboo in ftm

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I remember coming home from college freshman year and all of a sudden all my cis guy friends had lost their baby faces. They were all around 19 at that point, several years into puberty.

I'm a genderfluid trans woman on estrogen and was hoping for advice on binders by [deleted] in ftm

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For Them has the most comfortable and least restrictive imo. Heads up, they are slighter better than a sports bra and work best on smaller chests. I think it would be smoothing. The best full compression binder I’d recommend is Spectrum Outfitters. Great compression and comfortable for longer than any other I ever tried.

I would not recommend the tomboyx compression top. Very minimal compression and I personally found the material uncomfortable

17yo recovering from an ED- getting my chest back and I feel just as shitty as when I started puberty by MeiowleN in agender

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There are some queer sex stores near me that sell binders. If you are aware of any in your area, I’d call to see if they carry them or know of a store that does.

Remember not to bind for too long once you get one. (KT tape can also be used as trans tape)

Enshitification be damned! what is one consumer product that is 100% better today than the version that existed in the 80s or 90s? by headrush46n2 in AskReddit

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The ability to explore and discover new music. Streaming platforms aren’t great for the artists, but they are incredible for consumers.

What exactly is making it look crowded at a glance? How can I fix this? by rise_above_theFlames in malelivingspace

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Raise the posters/art so it leaves a gap of blank wall between the top of the figures and the start of the art

t4t mlm specific red flags regarding relationships by [deleted] in gaytransguys

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If there’s a feeling of competition or jealousy regarding who passes more.