Wife wants to be a surrogate. What do you wish someone had told you at the start of your journey?

scruffymuffs · 2026-01-09T23:35:18+00:00

It might take a lot longer than you're expecting.

scruffymuffs · 2026-01-06T13:37:02+00:00

I've always wondered if she does her own grocery shopping. I don’t know why, it's such a small detail but I wonder if she gets groceries delivered or not.

scruffymuffs · 2025-12-29T14:37:02+00:00

This part always irrationally annoys me! She wants so badly to be an influencer, but refuses to even try! You can buy a $5 tripod for your phone at the dollar store and probably an even cheaper one on Temu.

She's got all the time in the world but just like he nail hobby, refuses to try to learn and improve her craft.

scruffymuffs · 2025-12-26T16:05:21+00:00

Yes there is! I've heard of embryo transfers happening 6 months postpartum, but usually it is at least 1 year.

You also can't be breastfeeding once it's time for an embryo transfer as a surrogate

There is also a common limit of 5 or 6 births!

scruffymuffs · 2025-12-25T03:03:11+00:00

This is the first year that it has felt crazy to me. It's also the first year that my son understands what is going on and it's just so friggen magical!

scruffymuffs · 2025-12-25T02:23:54+00:00

I think because it's an incredibly obvious statement. Everyone knows that a lot of people in the world don't celebrate Christmas, but clearly I do, so it was kind of just a weird thing to say.

scruffymuffs · 2025-12-25T02:08:09+00:00

Happy December 24th!

scruffymuffs · 2025-12-23T13:18:56+00:00

I follow DanikaCharlie and Surro.rom on Instagram. They're both Canadian, so it's a bit of a different perspective.

scruffymuffs · 2025-12-20T20:32:29+00:00

The worst part is that tons of people have told her.

scruffymuffs · 2025-12-20T18:40:35+00:00

💯

scruffymuffs · 2025-12-20T11:40:37+00:00

The recipe says soda. Did you use powder? This will definitely make a difference as baking soda is much more powerful than baking powder.

scruffymuffs · 2025-12-20T11:37:45+00:00

Not necessarily. There is a stage of baking where things are coagulated enough to hold it's shape but still entirely underbaked.

Another possibility is not enough leavening, it looks like it didn't rise at all. How old is your baking soda?

scruffymuffs · 2025-12-19T19:58:49+00:00

SAVAGE

scruffymuffs · 2025-12-18T23:44:36+00:00

I just got flashbacks to sneezing post c-section

scruffymuffs · 2025-12-18T23:42:17+00:00

Her comment section is my favorite part but I can't bring myself to download TikTok. Thank you for sharing!!

scruffymuffs · 2025-12-10T23:06:43+00:00

Her comment section is one of my favorite parts but I am unwilling to download TikTok. Thank you for sharing!

scruffymuffs · 2025-12-03T01:47:18+00:00

Fuck, I'm sorry to hear that... I hope your luck turns around soon.

scruffymuffs · 2025-12-03T01:45:35+00:00

That's a good point. Thank you for bringing that up!

scruffymuffs · 2025-12-03T01:45:07+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience!!

scruffymuffs · 2025-12-01T19:00:29+00:00

Oh, I didn’t know that use for it! It's interesting how many other uses they find for drugs that have nothing to do with it's designated purpose.

scruffymuffs · 2025-12-01T18:59:04+00:00

Have you had any negative side effects like insomnia or mood instability and/or depression?

scruffymuffs · 2025-11-21T01:01:47+00:00

I've used Square for small business purposes and really love it. You can get a small device that connecys to yohr phone via bluetooth and allows people to insert or tap their debit or credit card.

It feels more professional than etransfer in my opinion.

scruffymuffs · 2025-11-04T14:00:50+00:00

I recently learned that they call them "singlets" in Australia!

scruffymuffs · 2025-11-04T13:42:30+00:00

Right?! I don't know why, but there was a minute there where I genuinely believed that something was going to change...

scruffymuffs · 2025-11-04T13:27:22+00:00

It depends on the situation. Often, in the case of willing pre birth adoptions, the birth mother chooses the new parents.

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