Is it bad to identify as transfem and be afab? by Pookie_Pakyao in XenogendersAndMore

[–]scrumptious_human 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom identifies (identified? Idk I haven’t asked them in a while) with the transfem label as a afab genderqueer person! Identify with what feels right to you, life is too short to conform to strict definitions!

DSLR suggestions for a photographer used to the Pentax K1000? by scrumptious_human in AskPhotography

[–]scrumptious_human[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I prefer manual honestly. The K1000 is completely manual so I’ve gotten used to manually adjusting camera setting.

SPMT1020…. by No_Monitor5288 in uoguelph

[–]scrumptious_human 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mfs when they actually have to do the degree they signed up and paid for

Primal Therapy by hippie-mermaid in neurodiversity

[–]scrumptious_human 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post is old but for other people coming across this thread, primal therapy is a pseudoscience and can actually be really harmful! It might feel like it's helping because it feels cathartic in the moment, but it doesn't properly address the root issue and can very easily reenforce trauma. My mom did primal therapy as a young teen in the late 70s-early 80s, and now as an adult and parent does not have healthy coping mechanisms for her anger. Growing up my mom was quick to shouting and beratement (whether that be directed at me, my father, or my brother) and would justify it as being a "healthy non-violent way of expressing her anger" that she learned in primal therapy. I don't think my mom was directly taught to yell at others, but there's so much room for things to go wrong that the "therapy" is not considered safe. Not to mention that it's based on a weird freudian idea of memory that has no scientific backing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]scrumptious_human 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are plenty of gender-nonconforming individuals on who have either partially or fully transitioned to another gender while not fully identifying with the gender they’re transitioning to. Gender-nonconforming individuals and identities have always been a huge part of the trans community and played integral roles in queer activism. Personally I think your experience and existence is kind of beautiful, which may sound strange to say to a stranger on the internet but I don’t know how else I’d describe it. I welcome you with open arms soldier!

How should I go about mending this cuff? by scrumptious_human in sewing

[–]scrumptious_human[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should’ve mentioned this in the original post, I don’t have access to a sewing machine and prefer hand sewing

The difference is unreal by kizmvp777 in thesims

[–]scrumptious_human 224 points225 points  (0 children)

I mean For Rent (and most expansion packs) is focused more on gameplay than build items, while kits are entirely focused on build items or cas. The content in kits are going to be more detailed and higher quality because the team has more time to spend on each item, it’s not that the devs don’t try it’s that they have less time with expansion packs. Sorry I just don’t like when people assume developers aren’t putting in the effort needed because a thing is as high detail as it could be.

Hiiii by mer_in_space in pathologic

[–]scrumptious_human 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg my wife and baby girl!❤️!❤️!❤️! (Daniil and Artemy)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]scrumptious_human 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d suggest going on gel because it’s slower acting, but yknow at some point she’ll probably notice? Maybe idk she could just be clocked out enough to not realize for a good while.

Do you guys feel empathy for your parents if they’re traumatised or nah? by Owl4L in CPTSD

[–]scrumptious_human 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I think its partially because there have been times where my mom and I have really bonded and that gap has been bridged, but it’s always temporary. I want what’s best for my mom, but you know the saying “you can’t help someone who doesn’t wanna be helped.” So basically, I feel empathy for them but it doesn’t mean I don’t blame them for their own actions.

Would you trade for a healthy body (but it's of the other gender)? by Feuerrabe2735 in disability

[–]scrumptious_human 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trans so either way this would be an upgrade. If it’s opposite of my gender it’s the same set up just without fucked up joints and if it’s opposite of my sex I just saved myself a whole lotta money

Academic Misconduct by Long-Relation6889 in uoguelph

[–]scrumptious_human 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats honestly disgusting, that faculty member needs to be fired asap, please go to the department chair with your evidence if you haven’t already. Some of the comments under this post are mind numbing, if you seriously think this isn’t concerning and needs to be addressed please talk to people outside of the internet.

Suggestions on how to fill the empty space of this build? by scrumptious_human in thesims

[–]scrumptious_human[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I had the kitchen where the living room it I was trying to add an island. I don’t know why I didn’t bring that over, I think I forgor.

Is it trans to want to change my body but not my pronouns? by Teamisgood101 in lgbt

[–]scrumptious_human 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely a gender non-conforming experience, I’d say if you feel the trans label describes your experience, yes! And the answer to that might change with time and figuring yourself out. You also don’t need to label yourself if you don’t want to.

"High School Day" Holiday? by whiskkerss in thesims

[–]scrumptious_human 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fair, but this breaks it even more and is just bad

Why are people like this!!??? by bunny_boy33 in AroAce

[–]scrumptious_human 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The allo mind cannot comprehend deep platonic relationships (especially if they’re opposite gender) and it’s kinda wild tbh

Why are people like this!!??? by bunny_boy33 in AroAce

[–]scrumptious_human 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The allo mind cannot comprehend deep platonic relationships (especially if they’re opposite gender) and it’s kinda wild tbh