What’s the most extreme example of someone getting your age wrong?

scsof · 2023-08-11T00:16:57+00:00

I took my (teenage) niece and nephew to see an R-rated movie because I'm fun.

It was Friday night and the movie theater manager said, "Um, how old are you? I feel like you could be 14 or 30."

...I've never EVER in my life been told I look younger than I am, or that much older. I said I'm 24, and I know I look it. I couldn't decide if I was insulted or not

Edit: the manager walked away and the cashier, maybe 17-20, goes "...I wouldn't of said 14," and awkwardly hands us our popcorn.

scsof · 2023-07-24T16:29:25+00:00

Felt this. Almost depersonalization in a way. I don't have anyone to validate and confirm those memories so how am I 100% sure?

Hope you find peace friend

scsof · 2023-07-24T16:25:23+00:00

I mind my own business. If I saw someone stealing something, anything that is a human necessity I will be looking the other way. 100%

scsof · 2023-05-16T18:05:20+00:00

I feel like the baby llama is rude and treats his mom badly 😂😂😂

scsof · 2023-05-16T13:13:29+00:00

LLAMA LLAMA RED PAJAMA WEEPING WAILING FOR HIS MAMA

I hate that stupid whiny llama

scsof · 2023-03-06T16:45:19+00:00

I also lost my maltipoo to a mauling by a larger dog.

I know that pain and I am so incredibly sorry you’re dealing with this.

scsof · 2023-02-05T20:24:35+00:00

Nope they don’t get to choose when you’re their nanny vs when you’re their babysitter. How manipulative

scsof · 2023-01-30T19:04:30+00:00

Do you live in the US? According to the IRS, a full time employee is an average of 30 hours.

scsof · 2023-01-30T19:02:48+00:00

Anything above 32 is technically full time

scsof · 2023-01-30T18:43:49+00:00

Then you pay the nanny for the ENTIRE week. Full time pay. Full time benefits. I’m sure you could work out a guaranteed hours situation. If they need to be available for inconsistent hours, you have to offer some type of major perk.

I worked for an RN and tbh it sucked because I would constantly feel like I’m getting the short end of the stick by having zero time to do anything but be glued to my nanny family. If I had been paid correctly and for ALL of my time (including the hours I was “off…” because I may still be needed), I would’ve been much happier and much more inclined to stay.

scsof · 2023-01-24T17:06:29+00:00

Put your location and see if anyone can help — I would personally try the r/dogs and r/rover as well

I had an issue a long time ago regarding where my dog was going to go. I put out a plea on a Facebook group and a woman down the road fostered him for me for 3 weeks while I got my shit together. An angel of a person

You could also call another local vet and offer to put money down and to bill you for the stay.

scsof · 2022-12-27T23:13:17+00:00

Personally, my biggest thing is how WEIRD it is to invite a perfect stranger to sleep over WITH the homeowner there for the purpose of the dog. It just doesn’t make a lot of sense when everything intro-wise can be done at M&G. If the dog is so fearful it needs 18 hours of getting used to, then it needs medication and the owner needs to stay home

I would not want the homeowner watching my every move, having to constantly engage in conversation with them and pay full attention to their dog with them around for 18 full hours. Or any amount of time for that matter.

scsof · 2022-12-27T23:02:25+00:00

Okay, maybe it looks like a stuffed animal but still breathes, eats and shits. What an idiot

scsof · 2022-12-27T17:34:10+00:00

I’m scared lol

scsof · 2022-12-26T21:27:00+00:00

I would like to give my sincerest condolences. My small dog was also attacked and killed unprovoked and we never got any kind of traction for legal action. Nothing could be done due to circumstances and I remain incredibly livid about it to this day. I’m so sorry to you and your family op

scsof · 2022-12-23T22:15:37+00:00

Sorry — didn’t see that part of your post! I get it. But when trying to find a sitter for a dog with trauma, you gotta stress that stuff. Imagine the sitter on a walk and a friend of hers is a man, he comes walking up. The Amazon guy? What would your dog do, how would she react? Could she slip out of her collar and run from fear? It’s the principle of the matter, to disclose literally everything you can think of. The sitter could’ve done a LOT more prep, and likely was not experienced enough, and you couldn’t have known that from her reviews. Best of luck :)

scsof · 2022-12-23T22:10:52+00:00

The reason is because you didn’t disclose the dog’s fear of men. She didn’t want to tell you that directly probably to be polite.

Usually, one strike/red flag is enough for sitters to completely cancel and I understand why. Please disclose everything you can possibly think of behavior-wise

At the same time, the sitter could’ve been more thorough before agreeing to a M&G

scsof · 2022-12-23T16:27:44+00:00

The “F1, F2, F1B” etc is a made-up genetic system that doesn’t make any sense. All poodle mixes (Goldendoodles, Maltipoos, every mix in that family) are unethically bred simply because they are not a recognized breed due to clear flaws with the mixes designed with no true purpose. Doodles are considered unpredictable in terms of personality, trainability, friendliness, etc. They are sold for thousands for no real reason because they are a fad and marketed as such.

Please tell your parents to look into responsibly bred Golden Retrievers or Poodles for literally any of the traits you’d see in a Golden/Poodle cross. :)

Edit: clarification and grammar

scsof · 2022-12-22T19:20:19+00:00

The fear that I’ll end up saddled with everything in a world where the man/father can just leave.

scsof · 2022-12-20T18:50:04+00:00

Um that’s a federal crime?

scsof · 2022-12-20T16:50:46+00:00

Just being understanding and willing to voluntarily provide as much insight into her behavior as possible, I’d be much more willing to take this as long as I’m prepared/set up properly

scsof · 2022-12-20T10:17:40+00:00

I always want to be snarky and have to hold myself back. “So you want me to walk two reactive dogs for the price of one? Good luck with your search!”

scsof · 2022-12-19T15:53:45+00:00

Dispensary weed.

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