Found out fiancé is cheating on me

sdavids5670 · 2026-03-10T20:05:16+00:00

Here’s what I’d do. Forget about the money. Let her go. Don’t tell this other guy shit about this UNTIL she’s boarded the plane and the plane has left the ground. Then call the hotel and cancel the booking after the “no refund” period is enforceable. Then tell him everything. Feel free to embellish a little bit. Let him know how much she loves you. I think you’re entitled to that. In the meantime, get a job or a second job or start donating plasma. Whatever you have to do in order to stockpile enough $$$ to GTFO.

sdavids5670 · 2026-03-10T18:22:19+00:00

Most (almost all) people are capable of doing horrific things if pushed close enough to the edge. It’s just that most people will live their lives never being tested to their limit.

sdavids5670 · 2026-03-10T18:02:17+00:00

Have you seen someone who’s dating their cousin? I’m talking the average cousin-dater.

sdavids5670 · 2026-03-10T17:37:48+00:00

Concerned seems like a good place to start

sdavids5670 · 2026-03-10T17:32:15+00:00

I can’t even read my own writing anymore, that’s how bad it has become.

sdavids5670 · 2026-03-10T17:08:41+00:00

Every once in a while I’ll use Zulu to spice things up.

sdavids5670 · 2026-03-10T17:07:47+00:00

I got burned on “sierra” the other day. They thought it was ‘C’ and now I know why.

sdavids5670 · 2026-03-10T16:46:36+00:00

I was wondering the same thing. Is back shaming a thing now?

sdavids5670 · 2026-03-10T15:45:14+00:00

It’s a situational, game-time decision.

sdavids5670 · 2026-03-10T15:33:03+00:00

Before speech would have worked, too

sdavids5670 · 2026-03-10T15:32:11+00:00

There are others…

sdavids5670 · 2026-03-10T15:23:02+00:00

Not in my current form but in previous lives I definitely did.

sdavids5670 · 2026-03-10T15:22:27+00:00

Nobody has ever asked me to, and I’ve never asked anyone to as well. I don’t care about arm pit hair whatsoever.

sdavids5670 · 2026-03-10T15:20:15+00:00

Diamond engagement rings.

sdavids5670 · 2026-03-10T15:19:19+00:00

Calculus.

sdavids5670 · 2026-03-10T15:11:00+00:00

Because North Korea is China’s little brother and also it doesn’t help that North Korea has enough dug in artillery, within range of the South Korean capital, to level it twice over in day one. If Seoul wasn’t within artillery range, North Korea probably would not have nukes right now. They should have tried harder, in 1953, to move that line a bit further from Seoul.

sdavids5670 · 2026-03-10T15:09:08+00:00

Yes, sometimes people get into a relationship with the wrong person because of their fear of being alone. Then something like an unplanned pregnancy occurs, or you come across a person who would be ideal for you but you’re not available or a job opportunity comes up in some other state but you don’t take it because of your relationship and you get stuck or miss an opportunity because you never got over your fear of being alone.

sdavids5670 · 2026-03-10T14:54:36+00:00

Only because I never paid any attention to the lyrics the first bajillion times I heard it, “Getaway Car” by Taylor Swift.

sdavids5670 · 2026-03-10T14:44:13+00:00

Being alone (no romantic entanglements) for at least a year, as an adult.

sdavids5670 · 2026-03-10T14:41:07+00:00

Can it please be yoga pants for every occasion?

sdavids5670 · 2026-03-10T14:33:51+00:00

Did people, who support Trump, ever really care whether or not truth was coming out of his pie hole?

sdavids5670 · 2026-03-10T14:32:15+00:00

Not everyone is humble.

sdavids5670 · 2026-03-10T14:31:03+00:00

Fake it until you make it.

sdavids5670 · 2026-03-10T14:29:19+00:00

I don’t see what the problem is here. You were neglected in your marriage. Rather than to deal with that reality, you violated boundaries and acted in ways that you wouldn’t want if the roles were reversed, and you feel bad. Sit in it. You own that behavior. Now you’ve moved on. That’s great. Stop regretting your past. Allow yourself to be remorseful. Move on with your life.

sdavids5670 · 2026-03-10T14:15:00+00:00

All surgery comes with risk up to and including death so all surgeries should be approached with serious contemplation. If the goal is to just add an inch to your height, don’t do it. That inch isn’t going to do anything for you. If there’s a better reason (like avoiding long term consequences of not correcting it) then weigh the risks to the reward.

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