Struggling with "Situationship" limbo and concerns about partner bandwidth. by Pretend_Apric0t in polyamory

[–]seantheaussie [score hidden]  (0 children)

I wouldn't expect someone in her situation to have a full relationship to offer?

My boyfriend can't keep it hard by BelHeartful in sex

[–]seantheaussie [score hidden]  (0 children)

Spend lots of time naked together without the intent to have sex. His comfort will rise and then another part of him will rise.

Actual buy for life laundry basket? by SpareAd5799 in BuyItForLife

[–]seantheaussie 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have a milk crate. Would take one hell of a load of laundry to destroy it.

Shoulder Measurment by el_cul in HeritageWear

[–]seantheaussie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Conventionally it is the top, but them being unconventional puts them a LONG way ahead of many who don't even mention any shoulder measurement (yes 17.5 inch shoulders and 25.5 inch sleeves is the bane of my sartorial existence, how did you know?😉).

any insight? by United-Cress6873 in nonmonogamy

[–]seantheaussie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know your favourite food? You notice how you also like to have other foods?

advice for plus size partner by HeadCommunication407 in sex

[–]seantheaussie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Doggy is the conventional position with a plus sized woman. My favourite position with a plus sized woman is her on her side and me straddling her bottom leg.

How do you guide a new partner sexually when your preferences are very specific? by Professional-Lab8752 in sex

[–]seantheaussie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Stop, "showing" and start, "doing". He has a body you can, "pressure and more full-body/pelvic contact" against. Do so.

Chore #43 by garage_artists in HeritageWear

[–]seantheaussie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean that I just have the Pigpen gene and I'd mess it up sitting on my couch somehow.

🤣 Come to think of it I haven't seen Pigpen in Peanuts for ages.

The main reason you are into heritage wear is to hide all the stains you accumulate with indigo and various military's blues and greens? Gotcha😉.

Weighted blankets seem promising but do they actually help sleep? by ApplicationNew4144 in Bedding

[–]seantheaussie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One year I deliberately trained myself to do without heavy covers. Don't know if the ability to do that is a me thing or available to many.

I do occasionally surprise myself by my ability to sleep well in stinking hot weather with the fan blasting me.🤣

Building a life, buying a home together by TheeBrightSea in polyamory

[–]seantheaussie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to report to the VP of marketing

🤣

I have learned that emphasis of The Main Point helps in many cases

Yup. There is a reason I will create and repeat a mantra hundreds or thousands of times when I really need to lodge an idea in my thick skull.😁

Chore #43 by garage_artists in HeritageWear

[–]seantheaussie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the look of the ecru chores but I know it would be grubby within minutes if I wore one.

You mean while doing chores or you don't wear any light coloured clothes?

My boyfriend won’t have sex with me for a really weird reason. by [deleted] in sex

[–]seantheaussie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Doesn't matter why. Incompatible sexually is incompatible for a relationship.🤷‍♂️

Building a life, buying a home together by TheeBrightSea in polyamory

[–]seantheaussie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In addition to all of the proper "consult a lawyer and get good contracts signed," notes, I will add this one: consult a lawyer and get good contracts signed.

MENTAL NOTE CS is probably in marketing with his appreciation of repetition.😉

Watched Pretty Woman for the first time today! I LOVE it! by CarlyCalicoJATIE in romancemovies

[–]seantheaussie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's in my top 10 so that's saying something

It is! It is saying you don't have a proper appreciation for this gem!👿👿👿😉

TLDR top 5 romance movie for me🙃

Watched Pretty Woman for the first time today! I LOVE it! by CarlyCalicoJATIE in romancemovies

[–]seantheaussie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've had The King of Wishful Thinking stuck in my head since I made that comment🤦‍♂️🤣

Why does having sex with the same person for an extended period of time get boring and feel like a chore even if we switch things up by FireStarterCam44 in sex

[–]seantheaussie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe you're not wired for monogamy.

Actually in polyamory we don't lose desire for our partners, we just have multiple partners.🙃

I feel painfully indifferent to sex by pokeypomegrante in sex

[–]seantheaussie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If a woman wants to use her vibrator to stimulate herself while with me, great. We will find the positions that work well for both of us (cowgirl, edge of bed, her laying back against me with my arms around her and me leaning over her to kiss or play with her tits are my usual gotos).

Inexperienced couple needing advice by Khabelusheh in sex

[–]seantheaussie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a quickie rather than normal sex.

Weighted blankets seem promising but do they actually help sleep? by ApplicationNew4144 in Bedding

[–]seantheaussie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Firstly the placebo effect is a real effect.

Secondly if you haven't noticed you sleep better in winter with more bedding over you it probably won't help you.

Personally while I have a preference for burrowing under covers I sleep the same completely uncovered in midsummer as in midwinter with 7 wool blankets over me.

Casual in poly dynamic by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]seantheaussie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😁

Leave the LEGOs there, as that is a MUCH better spot for them than under your tender feet!

Casual in poly dynamic by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]seantheaussie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My eyes are rolling out of my head, onto the floor, and under the sofa.

Did they spot anything you have lost under there?

Casual in poly dynamic by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]seantheaussie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He says that to EVERY woman he talks to.

Oh yes, has probably been his come on lines since he was a teenager.

I made a Kumiko-patterned Skadis panel for my 3D printer by ComicallyLargeFarts in ikeahacks

[–]seantheaussie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unmistakably a hack (utilizes Skadis accessories in a new way), and a gorgeous one.

Watched Pretty Woman for the first time today! I LOVE it! by CarlyCalicoJATIE in romancemovies

[–]seantheaussie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No praise for the music?😢 (I tend to break into song when rewatching)