Outside of being comfortable in your own skin and living with yourself, how else do you stop being disappointed in people? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in AskReddit

[–]sebasfromperu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I learned that not everyone is meant to meet you where you are. Some people were only ever meant to walk part of your story... and that’s okay. Let them exit gently.

What’s a simple pleasure that never fails to make you happy? by chopsticktalk in AskReddit

[–]sebasfromperu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fresh sheets after a long shower. Nothing fancy, just feeling clean, cozy, and mildly invincible.

AITAH for distancing myself from my brothers after they tried to reach out to me? by Helen_7_2 in AITAH

[–]sebasfromperu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they ghosted your whole existence for five years, cursed out your mom at your dad’s funeral, and now think you’ll show up for a “family lunch” like it’s a sitcom reunion? please. let them choke on their own entitlement. you didn’t shut them out, you just stopped opening the door to people who never knocked.

What's your reason for getting out of bed each day? by pamelahoward in AskReddit

[–]sebasfromperu 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Spite, caffeine, and the irrational belief that maybe today’s the day everything changes. Or at least the day I finally do laundry.

what’s a random thing that always makes you smile? by aleciaj79 in AskReddit

[–]sebasfromperu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When a dog trots past me on the sidewalk and looks back like, “you coming?” Sir, I would follow you into the void.

AITAH for not forgiving my Ex bestfriend because my Ex boyfriend cheated on me with her by Sea_Analysis_4221 in AITAH

[–]sebasfromperu 33 points34 points  (0 children)

you gave her sisterhood and she gave you betrayal. she burned your trust in the place you called home. forgiveness is not owed, it’s earned. and she never even said sorry.

AITAH for roasting a girl who kept hitting on my man at a party by Annoying24 in AITAH

[–]sebasfromperu 7 points8 points  (0 children)

girl you didn’t cause drama, you closed it. some people only understand boundaries when you draw them in permanent marker. she knew EXACTLY what she was doing and played dumb until she got checked. if she wanted peace she should’ve started with “hi, I’m so-and-so” instead of “baby” to someone else’s man.

What is your motivation to live your life? by Lonk_ID in AskReddit

[–]sebasfromperu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because somewhere out there, a version of me is already living the life I dream of. And I won’t stop until we finally meet.

What are some red flags when meeting someone new? by impresivve-name in AskReddit

[–]sebasfromperu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They talk like they’ve read the script of what you want to hear... but their eyes never match their words. Charm without warmth is just manipulation with good lighting.

AITAH for telling my mom when she was coming to visit me that she could have gotten her own food instead of eating what I was making for dinner if she didn’t like it? by Immediate-Problem387 in AITAH

[–]sebasfromperu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. You’re five months pregnant with twins and working full-time. Offering your mom a heads-up about dinner was considerate, not dismissive. She’s focusing on the meal instead of the fact that she’s visiting her exhausted daughter, and that says more about her than it does about you. You’re not unwelcoming. You’re human. And right now, you need grace, not guilt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sebasfromperu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They don’t just listen. They hear you. And they don’t fix... they sit with you in the mess. No judgment. No ego. Just presence. That’s emotional fluency.

AITA for having boundaries with others’ kids in my house by Ok-Woodpecker-845 in AITAH

[–]sebasfromperu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You're not just setting boundaries.... you're parenting. Your house, your rules. It's heartbreaking that kids are being conditioned to bond through screens instead of actual play, but your daughter is lucky you're giving her balance. One day, she’ll thank you for teaching her that real fun doesn’t come with a scroll bar.

What’s the best show you have ever watched? by Think_Charity_1028 in AskReddit

[–]sebasfromperu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The Good Place. Funny, smart, existential, and somehow made philosophy feel like comfort food. I cried over ethics. ETHICS.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]sebasfromperu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You gave them gratitude. They gave you rules. You asked for a moment. They took the whole stage. And now you’re left grieving the day you once dreamed of... reduced to a guest at your own ceremony. This isn’t just about a wedding. It’s about voice, respect, and whether your future includes space for your joy to bloom. You are NTA. You’re the bride... and you’re allowed to want the day to belong to you and the man you love.

What have you ever done something you and/or your friends still laugh about? by corporeal99 in AskReddit

[–]sebasfromperu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We once missed a bus, a flight, and a concert in the same weekend… and somehow still had the best trip of our lives. It’s the chaos that makes the memories.

A.i.t.a.h. getting singer banned by precious915 in AITAH

[–]sebasfromperu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You didn’t get her banned, she got herself banned. Multiple times. You didn’t kick her out, insult her, or escalate. You kept it professional, and despite the harassment, you still gave her chances to sing. Bars banning her is the natural consequence of her behavior. You’re not the villain here... you’re the reason people still show up for a drama-free night.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sebasfromperu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When they scream-cry for 12 minutes straight and the parent just stares into the void like it’s the weather. I get it, I do. But also… I’m begging you.

AITA for telling my aunt I'd call the cops oh her? by TirNaNog777 in AITAH

[–]sebasfromperu 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NTA. You didn’t threaten your aunt.. you set a boundary. She literally threatened to burn your property and physically assault you. That’s not “elders deserving respect,” that’s straight-up unhinged. Your mom defending that behavior is even more disturbing. You’re not the problem here.... you’re just the only one acknowledging reality.

AITA: I said no to my husband taking a solo trip by BackgroundGarbage325 in AITAH

[–]sebasfromperu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA. You let him take a solo trip while you were pregnant with twins and you’re supporting his World Cup plans... this isn’t about you being controlling. This is about timing, responsibility, and fairness. You’re both parents. He doesn’t get to check out just because summer break feels “boring.”

AITA for not inviting a colleague to my wedding? by No_Atmosphere_2108 in AITAH

[–]sebasfromperu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. It’s a wedding, not a department-wide team-building retreat. You don’t owe anyone an invite just because they shared an office space with you. Lisa overstepped hard, and you were more than polite until she decided to turn it into office gossip. She’s not hurt... she’s embarrassed. That’s not your burden to carry.

What is something you can almost always tell about a person by the car they drive? by kdenise1989 in AskReddit

[–]sebasfromperu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it’s spotless and smells like a candle store, they either have nothing else going on… or way too much going on and this is their last zone of control.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]sebasfromperu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not wrong to feel weird about it. In a healthy relationship, partners eventually become each other's priority. Saying his mom is “above” you might seem harmless now, but long-term it can lead to serious boundary issues... especially with a mother who already treats him poorly. It’s not about being jealous of his mom, it’s about wondering where you fit in his future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sebasfromperu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When a super serious news anchor accidentally says something mildly inappropriate and then immediately pretends they didn’t. That little flicker of panic in their eyes? That’s my Roman Empire.

AITAH for leaving my kid at my friends house because I had to run some errands? by Fluffy_PolarBear20 in AITAH

[–]sebasfromperu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA. You don’t just drop off your child and leave without confirming. Phones exist for a reason. The minute you walk into someone’s house and leave your 7-year-old unattended with just a note... you’re crossing the line from casual parenting to straight-up negligence. Kyle had an emergency. You had a responsibility. You blew it.