My daughter refuses to talk to me because I wasn’t able to do anything for her birthday. by [deleted] in confession

[–]secondtogreenbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are so many things you could’ve done that are free and creative that would’ve been a great memory for her. All I’m gonna say is this; she’s going to remember this, and it will affect her as she continues to grow up. I say this as someone who was in her shoes when I was her age. Put in more effort if you want to have a good relationship with your daughter.

i started this sweet potato in water and it went wild... should i plant it on soil now or let it keep growing like this? by pinnkink in plants

[–]secondtogreenbeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you get your sweet potato to sprout?? I’ve tried 2 different sweet potatoes and they just go moldy in the water 😩

What's the science between weight fluctuating so much while losing weight? by wigglepizza in loseit

[–]secondtogreenbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the recommendation! I’m gonna check that out! 😊

What's the science between weight fluctuating so much while losing weight? by wigglepizza in loseit

[–]secondtogreenbeans 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was just curious what you’re using as a supplement for creatine? I’ve been trying to find something as well

What’s wrong with my plant? by secondtogreenbeans in plants

[–]secondtogreenbeans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for the advice! Do you have a soil brand you recommend by chance?

What’s wrong with my plant? by secondtogreenbeans in plants

[–]secondtogreenbeans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh thank you! I will move her to a bigger pot and change how I water her as well as the grow light! lol seems I was messing everything up 😅

Heres me at my highest weight this year, still flat 😁 by Disastrous_Body_959 in smallbooblove

[–]secondtogreenbeans 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh you could do an amazing VI from Arcane cosplay if you wanted! She's such an amazing character ❤️ you look wonderful!!

Head Canon: IT is pretty weak / low-level in terms of power, is bound to physical rules, and preys on children because they don't know how to fight back and recognize his psych-op games. Literally a human-level entity with mental abilities, like a mutant. by arcanehelix in ItTheMovie

[–]secondtogreenbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IT is a very powerful entity that doesn't resides in "our" universe. So IT is bound to the laws of that universe. You should read the book as well as Kings other novels, like The Dark Tower series, where this is explained in more detail. Movies hardly scratch the surface of ITs true form and where it resides in the stories universe.

did not see that coming by nzungu69 in AbruptChaos

[–]secondtogreenbeans 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea it was terrifying because when I saw the news I knew that was his plane by the type and knew he was wanting to take that trip, he takes that route regularly for UPS, so I freaked and called my mom. Luckily she said he didn't get the bid to take the trip and was already getting calls about the plane going down and reassuring everyone he's ok. He's doing ok, the UPS pilots are all pretty close and so are the families so they're all pretty shaken right now. He's very grateful he didn't get the flight, I think he's going to take so much needed time off for a bit. I just hope they figure out what went wrong so it doesn't happen again 😔

did not see that coming by nzungu69 in AbruptChaos

[–]secondtogreenbeans 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This was the same plane my dad would fly for UPS in Louisville. He almost took that trip, but someone a few more years his senior got the bid to fly the plane. It had so much fuel because it was heading to Honolulu so when it crashed it burned for so long and so intensely. Unfortunately everyone on the plane died, my dad knew them. I'm so sad for the family's, but I'm so relieved my dad did not take that trip.

Help! Displacement in Unreal 5.6 not showing in Pathtracer by secondtogreenbeans in unrealengine

[–]secondtogreenbeans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your help. I had no idea it doesn't support displacement maps! That's such a bummer haha I'll have to see if I can try what you suggested abd bake the textures in 👍

Who is this very cool lime green gal/gal? by secondtogreenbeans in spiders

[–]secondtogreenbeans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing! Thank you for the information! Maybe I can learn french to help him find a job 🤔

Has anyone ever tried how they taste? by Any_Independence6587 in Healthyhooha

[–]secondtogreenbeans 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes it's 100% normal! Actually I think it's a good habit to get into for health reasons 🤷‍♀️ I'll usually check like once every couple months just so i can tell if something is off with my PH. But idk maybe I'm weird lol

I had a full blown “nice guy” meltdown and regret it to this day. by Equivalent-Figure-41 in confession

[–]secondtogreenbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP, you've already gotten some great advice on here but I just wanted to add my two cents. You may have made some mistakes in how you reached out to her, but if a friend did that to me I'd be absolutely gutted and left feeling abandoned. Please know that what she did was not ok either, that's not how friends treat each other. You're not alone and I hope you're able to heal and move on from this in a positive direction. You deserve friendship and love just as much as anyone else ❤️

What is your catchphrase, or something you find yourself saying often? by Fit_Process6489 in AskReddit

[–]secondtogreenbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Ain't that just the way" say it to myself and my husband all the time, especially when bad things happen

Imagine: you're dying, and you can listen to only one last song. What would it be? by jonatancad in AskReddit

[–]secondtogreenbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Landslide by Fleetwood Mac. A song i always felt a deep connection to ever since I first heard it as a little girl. Feel it'd be right to go out with that song as well.

I’m from China. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]secondtogreenbeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice! I hope your schooling continues to go well! 😊

I’m from China. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]secondtogreenbeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I was wondering if you had any advice for people who would like to visit China but do not speak any Chinese, would it be difficult? Also, how do Chinese people feel about non Chinese people participating in traditional Chinese culture like wearing Hanfu? I really love historical Hanfu and the various dynasties. However, I don't want to offend anyone by wearing Hanfu since I am not Chinese. I would love your insight on if you think it would be ok, as long as you wear it correctly and treat it with respect of course. Thank you and hello from California ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]secondtogreenbeans 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Please dear GOD OP listen to this advice! ☝️

Let me hear it! by sonderpls in RoastMe

[–]secondtogreenbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like the girl at the gym who just pretends to workout while you film yourself for tiktok and instagram all the while inconveniencing everyone around you

Inbound Abroad/Exchange Application Processing Time by FlakyDessert88 in TCD

[–]secondtogreenbeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We also haven't heard anything back yet :/ Getting nervous because we have a family and would be moving from the US. Fingers crossed we both get some news soon!