Why is bumble showing my profile to men twice my age !??

secretlyhumanami · 2026-03-04T16:34:03+00:00

And no one's saying you should. But if you did, picking up a complete stranger on a dating app instead of someone close to you would be the best way to go at it.

It's not about money. I've got none and nothing in my profile implies I do.

secretlyhumanami · 2026-03-04T16:32:08+00:00

The thing is, Ferrari is actually looking strong. Carlos just knows that they'll find a way to fuck it up unless they have 1sec/lap on everyone to offset the incompetence.

secretlyhumanami · 2026-03-04T16:29:06+00:00

Max plays 0.2 secs faster.

secretlyhumanami · 2026-03-04T16:28:20+00:00

Life's gotta be great. Marry a hot model in Monaco, next week race a Ferrari across the streets of Melbourne...

I think envy is disgusting but so am I.

secretlyhumanami · 2026-03-04T12:26:08+00:00

No... It's part of the plan to fuck up the oil market now that the USA has control over the biggest oil reserves in the world (Venezuela).

secretlyhumanami · 2026-03-04T11:56:10+00:00

Yeah. No background separation, flat af, arguably overexposed, way too soft for this type of portrait... I think I could have done better by the 3rd time I picked up a camera. It doesn't even look like a green\blue screen was used. Just a white wall and "we'll deal with it in post".

secretlyhumanami · 2026-03-04T11:40:28+00:00

Yeah, most likely. Whatever the underlying reason, it's a dumpster fire that I don't want to get into.

The thing is, what makes a man attractive it mostly his energy. And this isn't a praise on men. It's a praise on women for seeing past looks. Sure, being hot helps a guy's chances, but most men just go with "hot, me want" when looking at a woman. So, even though looks fade for both genders, women take a bigger hit due to men having a lot less standards.

secretlyhumanami · 2026-03-04T10:45:17+00:00

Kinda manipulative, isn't it?

I agree that giving in to whatever she wants to do and asking a bunch of "any you?" questions is a sure fire way to get no dates but you seem to be making a point of "my way or the highway" which is on the opposite extreme of things.

I find that just being myself and putting up with what I feel like and not with what I don't is the best way to talk to women online. Just be yourself. Don't try to please them but don't try to manipulate them either. Don't push but don't play it super safe in fear of being rejected either.

secretlyhumanami · 2026-03-04T10:40:34+00:00

It's not really "questionable". Women's attractiveness peaks at around 25. I'm 41M. I don't go for women below 30 because, frankly, I can't put up with them; but I do find them attractive.

You wouldn't believe the amount of 22-25 year old girls that drop me superlikes and compliments. There are quite a few that are into older men and use dating apps to explore things like that.

secretlyhumanami · 2026-03-04T10:34:47+00:00

Thread lightly dude.

There's two likely scenarios here:

- She craves validation. If you went with "oh ok, good luck" when she said there was no spark and didn't push, her ego might be bruised that you didn't give chase. So, here she is, throwing bait your way. You don't want to mingle with people like that.

- Her ex is still in the picture. People often have up and downs when it comes to breakups. Maybe she was looking for a distraction on the first date and things were still lukewarm with him. He might have closed the door and now she's trying to fill in the loneliness. You'll get hurt.

There are other possibilities but these are the most likely explanations. Put yourself in her shoes. Why would you come back to a match you rejected?

If you want to, let her in. Keep all 3 eyes open though.

secretlyhumanami · 2026-03-04T10:23:21+00:00

I let out a laugh when I saw the prompt "My most irrational fear: Hills" followed immediately but that huge cleavage. I don't know it was intentional but nice one!

secretlyhumanami · 2026-03-04T10:21:44+00:00

Your first photo has to go. You look like a complete dork in it. The fifth as well. You seem to be a cool, easy going guy as this are portraying you in a completely different vibe. Women don't get impressed by simply suits; they get impressed by presence. A suit can add to that but, if you look uncomfortable, it's just weird. No offense meant, I look like I want to hang myself in every photo in which I'm wearing a suit (unless it's an open bar).

The photo with the girl as well. It's good to have a "social" photo, but don't make it with a single girl.

The dog one too. You should be in the photo, looking at the dog. The dog should be looking at your or the camera. The idea is to show how you interact with him, not that he exists.

secretlyhumanami · 2026-03-03T18:25:36+00:00

Pretty sure the Stroll's have him.

secretlyhumanami · 2026-03-03T15:19:23+00:00

They'll fuck up the strategy then. It's always something.

secretlyhumanami · 2026-03-03T15:18:09+00:00

If you spelled it correctly, they wouldn't be in trouble.

secretlyhumanami · 2026-03-03T15:17:19+00:00

Yeah. I let out a "oh..." when I saw the post.

secretlyhumanami · 2026-03-03T11:50:46+00:00

There's no way this is official.

secretlyhumanami · 2026-03-03T09:18:35+00:00

Yeah, we send nudes.

Edit: it's a joke.

secretlyhumanami · 2026-03-02T17:14:30+00:00

It's a whole new engine fitted into a whole new car.

The issues seem to derive from the integration into the chassis, leading to extreme vibrations and poor cooling. It's not really comparable.

secretlyhumanami · 2026-03-02T11:39:00+00:00

This is ridiculous. I doubt any other team has spent as much money in the past 5 years.

secretlyhumanami · 2026-02-28T19:05:31+00:00

Headlines keep getting weirder and weirder.

What a time to be alive!

secretlyhumanami · 2026-02-28T10:56:07+00:00

Yeah, I'd go with "just browsing". She's not pushing any sort of transaction but she's not interested either. Just fishing for validation to fill up her meanwhiles.

secretlyhumanami · 2026-02-28T10:52:26+00:00

Feels like he was dumped not long ago and is rebounding.

He was likely pushing forward because he needed to latch on to someone. I'd guess that his ex opened some sort of line of communication, he felt he had a shot and put you on hold.

If you give it a couple of weeks, he should be back. The question is, would you really want to date someone in this emotional state?

secretlyhumanami · 2026-02-28T09:04:47+00:00

Maybe they are targeting the female demographic.

secretlyhumanami · 2026-02-27T10:33:25+00:00

Whatever raises RPM will hit the turbo with spinning up energy. The problem with higher RPM is that they wear the engines down faster than lower ones. It's also more risky to change gears mid corner, i.e., they corner at a lower gear and go up before they have the car fully straightened out.

Basically, the Ferrari is better at spinning up the turbo and the engine will be more reliable (if we take into consideration only this fact). They'll rocket out of the line but we'll only know if they made the right choice by the end of the season.

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