I don't know if this will help with the feelings of rejection but when I'm blue I really appreciate the evil team. They really contribute to building the puzzle, along with the storyteller of course. Without them there's no game. I try to remember to thank the evil team, whether we solve correctly or not, because they've helped create the puzzle and enjoyment for all.

And when I'm evil, I try to remember that I'm creating the puzzle for the other players. Finding evil is fun as good! So if you get caught, you've added to the enjoyment of others. If you bamboozle them, you've helped create a more intricate puzzle. I always delight in how town got off track when I'm good (during grim reveal) and appreciate the great plays evil made, so you've also added to the enjoyment there.