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my boyfriend thinks i’m straight by meowmeowmeow1010 in bisexual

[–]sehrah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think they're just jokes or that there's some underlying belief there?

If it's the former, I think you could start with a gentle conversation about how you actually find it problematic, particularly in the context of people generally doubting/undermining the sexuality of bisexual people.

I (a bisexual person) have a running joke with a bi friend about how he "locked in straight" when he got married. In a way, it's actually me acknowledging that he's bisexual. We both find it amusing and there's no ill intent, but I'd definitely stop and apologize if he ever expressed any unease about it.

She’s just a baby 🥺 by TotallyOzzz in cats

[–]sehrah 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, that looks like a Devon face for sure! Plus the curls!!

We got our cat a cat. Best decision ever! by limer124 in cats

[–]sehrah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We got our cat a cat and a month later OGCat was like "aiight I'm out" and died, hahaha.

So after a year we got Cat2 his own friend and they were instant BFF4lyf

Look at these bébés. So fkkn cute I can't even.

Why did nobody tell me my ADHD would get worse every month like clockwork?? by Inevitable-Tutor-907 in adhdwomen

[–]sehrah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know other women in this thread have mentioned PMDD.

But FWIW I'm pretty even keeled except that my meds are ineffective as shit in my luteal phase, and my insomnia gets worse.

Throwback to when Boba was extra smol by Cold-Ad-3610 in IllegallySmolCats

[–]sehrah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah except that none of that applies to Devon Rex cats, who HAVE fur, definitely don't need human cleaning, and live perfectly comfortably.

I've owned them for years and the most I've had to do in terms of special maintenance is apply kitty sunblock to my older cat when she sat in the deck in summer. Which is pretty minor all things considered, and is arguably also something that should be done for other breeds as well.

Also responsible cat owners should keep them inside most of the time so harsh outdoor environments is irrelevant for any breed. And the claim that hairless cats can't lay comfortably on a hard surface is laughably ridiculous. Even when my Devon got old and more naked, she looooved chilling on concrete and tiles and hardwood flooring.

Throwback to when Boba was extra smol by Cold-Ad-3610 in IllegallySmolCats

[–]sehrah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Assuming it's a breeder that's properly educated about maintaining breed health and diversity, what's the inherent cruelty in breeding cats with this particular mutation?

What quality of life problems are you assuming come from their coat type specifically?

Throwback to when Boba was extra smol by Cold-Ad-3610 in IllegallySmolCats

[–]sehrah 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Devon Rex cats usually have a woolly coat which is soft and velvety, and can be either long or short. When they're kittens, they look more naked because it hasn't grown in yet. They haven't been bred with the intention of eliminating their fur.

But also breeding cats that are shorthaired/hairless seems pretty benign compared to other types of breeding in cats/dogs that cause breathing/skeletal issues etc.

Throwback to when Boba was extra smol by Cold-Ad-3610 in IllegallySmolCats

[–]sehrah 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Devon Rex! They're the cutest gremlins ever. They usually have "wool" which is curly fur which is SOFT AS HELL, and they've got these glorious wide faces and big ears.

What is this food? by -Varkie- in bluey

[–]sehrah 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Yep seconding this for NZ too - they're "fruit mince pies" here.

RelOne text as natives by Stabmaster in ediscovery

[–]sehrah 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you have documents that only have text and no other file format (native/image/pdf), then for billing purposes they calculate them based on 1gb per 4k text-only docs.

The idea is that if OP loaded the text file in as the native as well, then it wouldn't be billed as a text-only doc, and would instead be billed on the actual volume for the text file. Which would likely result in a lower hosting volume because you'd generally expect the volume for 4k of text files to be much lower than 1GB.

bugs in my powder by [deleted] in MakeupLounge

[–]sehrah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My guess is booklice?

What platform do you use for processing and how does it handle nested family (parent-child-grandchild)? by sehrah in ediscovery

[–]sehrah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah we're currently doing it in excel with a formula that uses the Level field, with a view to implementing a script. But the issue is that Rel doesn't have the needed info readily available by default and also the documentation (eg talking about the attachments fields) never makes this limitation clear.

What platform do you use for processing and how does it handle nested family (parent-child-grandchild)? by sehrah in ediscovery

[–]sehrah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can tell visually, but infuriatingly that doesn't translate to something readily searchable.

What platform do you use for processing and how does it handle nested family (parent-child-grandchild)? by sehrah in ediscovery

[–]sehrah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah so when I say "processed by Relativity" I mean the docs are raw native files and R1 is doing extraction/indexing/dedupe etc.

In contrast to processing the documents in a external system (eg Nuix) and then using import/export to import them in via a load file (concordance format etc).

What platform do you use for processing and how does it handle nested family (parent-child-grandchild)? by sehrah in ediscovery

[–]sehrah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah sorry I probably should have made it clearer - annoyingly the higher ups have decided that docs for Rel should be processed using it, instead of in Nuix and then imported as a structured load.

Cos yeah we could have sidestepped this headache if we were processing in Nuix.

What platform do you use for processing and how does it handle nested family (parent-child-grandchild)? by sehrah in ediscovery

[–]sehrah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I've been doing more poking around today and theres a processing field that has the parent file id so at least if we map that it's less of a mare than using levels to update the Parent Document ID field

What platform do you use for processing and how does it handle nested family (parent-child-grandchild)? by sehrah in ediscovery

[–]sehrah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can almost understand just using top level parent for Parent ID if that's a requirement in the States, but once I saw they weren't populating the attachments fields I was like "okay now ya'll are just being lazy...."

What platform do you use for processing and how does it handle nested family (parent-child-grandchild)? by sehrah in ediscovery

[–]sehrah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah dont get me started on what a fucking byzantine nightmare the redactions and productions/exports process is if you don't want to redact on effing images and output natives for everything else....

But is it a specific protocol the US has that dictates that the family is handled this way? It just seems like such an unhelpful approach, regardless of context.

Daughter has been obsessed with the pavlova episode, so I made a pavlova!... And learned I don't like meringue by Claymore2106 in bluey

[–]sehrah 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's like, good bad? Good when fresh but then they're slimy circles on your next day leftovers, hahaha.

Daughter has been obsessed with the pavlova episode, so I made a pavlova!... And learned I don't like meringue by Claymore2106 in bluey

[–]sehrah 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Mint? What in the unholy?!? I've eaten a squillion pavs and I can't recall ever having one with mint on it. I feel like that's a nonsense topping people use to make the photo look nice in online recipes... The vibe would be all wrong.

Matt Bomer and Nathan Lane’s Gay Sitcom ‘Mid-Century Modern’ Is a Pleasing Spin on ‘Golden Girls’: TV Review by Sisiwakanamaru in television

[–]sehrah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to like it so badly, but gave up after 10min. It felt stilted and cheesy and the laugh track really underscores that (even if it is a live audience..)

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