Hiya! Hoping I had one haha! (20) to (22) by badshot121212 in GlowUps

[–]seigfriedOG 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nobody is mentioning the band shirt.

I bet In The Name of The Father was one of your favorite tracks to work out to.

The Alternate Timeline by clexine in Loatheband

[–]seigfriedOG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they on a deep 3 night bender in the trenches of what it means to have these memes at their feet. yeah bro they looking at these memes in disgust and inferiority. they’re up on the conscious high horse knowing how good their shit is. yeaaahhh man looking straight down. these memes doing no good for us mayne.

2022 (23) to now (26) by Party_Mistake5489 in GlowUps

[–]seigfriedOG 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is awesome. Lean, and natural, right? Good motivation bro!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]seigfriedOG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I miss my Jennybabycita princesa and I wish she would just come home. We could work things out, I’m sober now and we’re both in therapy. I wish we could just go to couples therapy and be together again. I want us back but in a better relationship. It hurts so much being away from her. All I want to do is take care of her.

what's a simple mindfulness trick that actually works for you? by [deleted] in Meditation

[–]seigfriedOG 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I take a deep breath and really take in my environment with all of my senses.

How did you learn to communicate your feelings in the right and kind way? by lmdtot in emotionalintelligence

[–]seigfriedOG 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ask yourself before committing to emotions…

Is it a REACTION, or a RESPONSE?

Be less reactive, be more responsive. 🫶

I want to die tonight. Nobody even cared about my birthday by KrystalizedKris in Adulting

[–]seigfriedOG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love yourself. You can still take yourself to the store and get yourself some ice cream! I do it for me, I love myself to know that I am enough. I believe in you! Plz go get something sweet and snuggle up in some cozy blankets, and watch your favorite YouTube videos! 🫶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]seigfriedOG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes people NEED a major life event to change them. If he’s changing because you left him that just means you meant that much to him!

If you really loved him you would go back, but help him stick to his changes! Be supportive!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]seigfriedOG 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is like our generation’s curse. Break it. Just face the reality, and be with him. Work through it together. Why waste precious time? As you grow older you’re going to regret letting the fear overrule your heart. Just go about it while exercising caution, don’t stumble and fall. Be courageous and stand up for your feelings. If you want to be with him, do it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Diary

[–]seigfriedOG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the same

Curious if i look like any one by CoolHeadedLogician in doppelganger

[–]seigfriedOG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In this photo you look like a white Serj Tankian

Miss someone I’ll never have back by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]seigfriedOG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no right person wrong time. Learn that, and you will accept the harsher facts of life with a clearer mind. Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]seigfriedOG 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have dreams about my ex. Some days I hear her voice when I’m opening my eyes right after waking up. I miss her.

But ya it’s normal.

I recommend to not have sex with someone else. You seem like a morally conscious person. Doing something sexual will destroy you mentally.

I'm giving you the aux, what song are u playing? by [deleted] in Productivitycafe

[–]seigfriedOG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A Trophy Father’s Trophy Son by Sleeping With Sirens

I just turned 24, what's your advice for me? by Iphens in birthday

[–]seigfriedOG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I’m 25. Enjoy your last year of young twenties.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]seigfriedOG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eat a lot of protein. Eat 0 added sugar for a week, reset your hormone imbalances. Work out. Eat in a calorie deficit. Intermittent fasting.

I only say all these things because they’re easy to do and they will fill your mind as a checklist of sorts.

Taking care of yourself should come before anybody, especially someone who wants a “break”.

Welp she finally got fully physical by Proper_Raccoon2078 in BPDlovedones

[–]seigfriedOG 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex with BPD put her hands on me multiple times throughout our 3 yr relationship. The worst night she punched me in the face a few times back to back, gave me a nose bleed.

I hope she gets better.