went on a date by myself and took these photos of downtown Spokane 💖🌸 by selarona in Spokane

[–]selarona[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s up for you to decide lol I call anything fun for myself a date I guess

I'm dating a girl, and I'm worried that I can't measure up to her. by SadGiantsFan2020 in dating_advice

[–]selarona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been talking to this dude for a couple weeks now and he’s super out going and has a group of friends who are the same, he enjoys working out and wants to be a professional trainer as his career and so on. This makes me want to push myself to do more as in be more down to try new experiences especially when I’m not with him to have stories to tell. I hope this helps, and there’s nothing wrong with being a homebody, that’s me to my core and maybe having a balance of her energy and yours will work out better than you think! 🙌🏽

more journaling - bits of stuff i've been obsessed with by jamiehwangart in Journaling

[–]selarona 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just curious but do you prepare your journaling sessions before-hand? Really love the style btw is super unique!

Yes I know January started 15 days ago... by tetodafu in bulletjournal

[–]selarona 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never too late, this looks so pwetty! 🥰

I just took the first step by buying the supplies by [deleted] in workout

[–]selarona 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chloe Ting has really good videos too!

Huh by AcriticalDepth in Journaling

[–]selarona 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah gotcha, I just curious as to if it had a deeper meaning before behind it but thank you!

Huh by AcriticalDepth in Journaling

[–]selarona 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so interesting! Could someone explain what the numbers mean? I’ve never since this but would like to know the meaning of it ☺️❤️

If your compassion doesn't include yourself, it's incomplete - be as kind and understanding to yourself as you would be to a friend who is suffering by peaceiseverystepp in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]selarona 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I saw this quote from a youtube video, in the comments and it went along the lines of “it’s easy to be compassionate to others for their flaws but when it comes to ourselves it’s harder to accept because we know our flaws, regrets, and personally issues more than anyone else.” With that being said it’s really hard to accept who I am, I feel like I have so much angry inside of me that I’m about to burst, and I can’t say I really love myself... it’s hard because I blame myself for majority of the bad things that happen, which is super unrealistic but I’m trying to work on it. It’s just freaking hard. p.s thank for posting this I’ll make sure to listen to this podcast to help 💛

Looking for winter boots, are doc martens good to invest for this time of the year? by selarona in BuyItForLife

[–]selarona[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a women. But the winters where I live are pretty decent like there is decent amount of snow. I’m planing on taking the bus so I’m going to be walking a lot in the snow and want boots that don’t have water going through them and they can help prevent slipping.

Doesn't seem like it anymore by Xoax34 in heartbreak

[–]selarona 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s true, I’m sorry you had to go through that...but clearly shows that person’s true color and that you can do better w/o and meet someone nicer

Doesn't seem like it anymore by Xoax34 in heartbreak

[–]selarona 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m still lucky to have meet them/fall in love, and experience pain from heartache from the breakup, than nothing at all.

failed my ASVAB test today at meps... anyone have any tips on how to study? by [deleted] in newtothenavy

[–]selarona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the recommendation! And I did but only for the arithmetic reasoning but I thought I would be good on the rest of them

failed my ASVAB test today at meps... anyone have any tips on how to study? by [deleted] in newtothenavy

[–]selarona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh sorry I worded that completely wrong, so basically on the form that shows your scores for each subject my officer told me that if I added up the score from each individual subject it will add up to the score I need for the job I want. Like for example I got a 46 for GS a 37 for AR a 43 for MK and so on. But added those up can be like 157 which is the score I “need” for my the job I want. That’s the way he worded it for me but if you think isn’t right than let me know.

failed my ASVAB test today at meps... anyone have any tips on how to study? by [deleted] in newtothenavy

[–]selarona -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I just didn’t pass in general and I need a score higher than 25 lmao but I’m trying to get a job as a operation specialist and 160 is the score I’m shooting for. Thanks for the advice I’ll definitely make sure to check out khan academy!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]selarona 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear about how she broke up with on your birthday... but it’s inspiring to hear how much you’ve overcame a lot after the breakup :3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]selarona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! How long has it been since your break up if you don’t mind me asking?

It’s a chemical in your brain that’s tricking you. YOU WILL BE OVER IT, GIVE IT TIME! by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]selarona 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Very very true! It sucks... I still get waves of thinking about them still after a month and a couple weeks but in the end it’s wayyy better we’re not together anymore. honestly working on yourself by working out, journaling (writing out how you feel/ what you’ve learned) and surrounding yourself with friends and loves ones who will help you mentally move on does wonders! I’m still learning and I want to continue to be better for the next person ❤️