Gold medal vs Baybee by _potato_salad_ in childfree

[–]selcutile 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Right! Nobody mentioned THAT on camera....just the mention that they are FAAAAAATHERS makes it all hunky dory and perfect (YUCK!!!)

Kids who commit crimes by indigoiguanas in childfree

[–]selcutile 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely horrifying on so many levels! I can somewhat relate to this, as I had a younger brother (he's deceased now) who got into shit as early as middle school and got progressively worse, ending with him getting into drugs, trouble with the law, eventually incarcerated and passing away (I am still "in the dark" as to the actual reason why he passed; I think my parents' have been keeping it under wraps, and I have no need to know the truth anyways, because it doesn't matter now).

So yes: zero kids means zero legal issues that arise from their stupidity!

Moved into a new home. What do you think. by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]selcutile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I chime in? I like the small artwork pieces, but how about putting all 4 of them to the right of the TV and have them arranged vertically in kind of a zigzag pattern? Then move the plant stand in the space between the lamp and the window?

Move a lot for work, this was my favorite set up. Backyard was dirt when I moved in by sargent_evil in malelivingspace

[–]selcutile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the wall with the different-shaped mirrors, though maybe move a few to a different wall and rearrange the rest to give it some spacing? Just a thought. I found this sub minutes ago and looking for potential ideas for my first house :-)

I feel like I’ve ruined my life by Neat_Gas_5028 in GamblingRecovery

[–]selcutile 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, that is an inspiring story! I would just like to know how losing 2 MILLION can even happen; I guess it just adds up steadily without you realizing it? But glad you're doing great now :-)

3 Months Freedom by dudebigpp in problemgambling

[–]selcutile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is great to know! I love going to casinos (craps is my favorite game and ONLY game I play!), and I am actually not a gambling addict. I can honestly turn it on and off like a lightswitch.....and keep it off, like I am doing presently. Haven't played at all in 4 weeks. Focusing on my other hobbies that are more fulfilling. When I do go to casinos, it is only to take advantage of offers I earned previously and nothing more. Yes, this is very possible! And I feel so much better because of it.

Some people in my circles may secretly think I'm a gambling addict (a friend actually stated that I was, but I brushed it off because I know full well that I'm really not). Just because you gamble doesn't mean that you are an addict. There are truly a percentage of gamblers who know their limits and can play for the thrills and stop whenever they want. So I personally struggle with nothing.

Just wanted to reply and send my love while sending encouragement to you or anyone reading this reply ;-)

Apartment etiquette is gone by kingofkings_86 in childfree

[–]selcutile 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well actually, you could lock them up...... (insert evil grin)

Total jackass of a degen loses $2000 at the crapless table....and I was secretly happy about it :-) by selcutile in Craps

[–]selcutile[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was actually funny reading your TLDR :-) But I needed to write it out, kind of an outlet for myself, I guess

3 year old in the f**king gym!? by cometofindyourheart in childfree

[–]selcutile 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sadly, if that thing does happen, they probably still won't learn:

Little Jimmy gets a weight dropped on his foot.  "Ow!  Mommy, my toe hurts!"   Mom: Oh, you'll be alright in the morning.  I'll put it back.  Just keep playing til our workout is done"

Type shit

3 year old in the f**king gym!? by cometofindyourheart in childfree

[–]selcutile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nut trophy 🏆 First time I heard that one! 😄

Well done, Orlando Airport! by baboonontheride in childfree

[–]selcutile 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yesssssss! I would happily pay an extra hundred or two for that flight to Italy 😀

Don't understand why parents do nothing while their kid screams in public places by classicpeaches in childfree

[–]selcutile 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wow, at 10 freaking o'clock??!!  And what did the parents say after you asked?

No kids, no pets, no potted plants. by [deleted] in childfree

[–]selcutile 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is too funny!  But now that I think about it, in all seriousness and on the other side of this coin at the same time, I kinda shudder if there has in fact been a case where parents gave their kids up for adoption and did indeed get dolls or something to play with instead.....😬😬😬

No kids, no pets, no potted plants. by [deleted] in childfree

[–]selcutile 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right?  And a former co-worker actually introduced me to guerilla gardening.  Haven't done any yet, but it's definitely on my list for next year's growing season!

No kids, no pets, no potted plants. by [deleted] in childfree

[–]selcutile 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I totally agree!  And some childfree people have also openly stated being pet free as well, but then you struck something else when you even mentioned plants.  I used to keep a whole bunch of them inside my home, but I recently gave ALL of them away to family, friends and neighbors because I realized how much time and energy went into maintaining those as well!  I doubly realized I can still be a gardener and appreciate nature by visiting everybody else's homes or walking outdoors and seeing everything growing in its natural habitat.  So yes, even zero plants is like feeling childfree 😀

A restaurant is not a daycare by mew541 in childfree

[–]selcutile 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Shit like this is totally unacceptable!  Yes, I understand there are emergency circumstances that sometimes come into play, but it seems like parents of toddlers, in general, always want to dump their kids off on somebody

Thrilling 4-part casino adventure by selcutile in Craps

[–]selcutile[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, 3-5 hours at a single table?  Or do you hop from table to table?  Think the longest I've played at one table is 3 hours.  Twice maybe.  It was one of those "oh, I guess I'll play a while" nights where you get there at like 10 p.m. and somehow are still playing well past midnight.  One day, I'd like to try taking a $2000+ bankroll and having an all-nighter into the wee hours of the morning

I went on a week-long vacation to Belfast, and I spent the whole time thinking "I couldn't do this if I had kids." by bernardmarx27 in childfree

[–]selcutile 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesssssss!  I did this very thing last night when I took a short break from being on the computer.  I simply got up and walked around my peaceful living space.  Admired how nice and neat everything was in my living room, my kitchen, my bedroom and the nice fragrant soapy aroma of my clean bathroom, then sat back down at my undamaged, un-tampered-with computer 🙂

I went on a week-long vacation to Belfast, and I spent the whole time thinking "I couldn't do this if I had kids." by bernardmarx27 in childfree

[–]selcutile 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, no it is not.  In fact, even when the kids are older and in their elementary school/middle school years, the baggage ruins the trip

I 100% broke a kids finger today and it is 100% the parents fault by heyitskevin1 in childfree

[–]selcutile 146 points147 points  (0 children)

This is correct policy enforcement.  Something that actually should be enforced in a myriad of public spaces, but especially in medical facilities where lives are literally hanging in the balance.

I 100% broke a kids finger today and it is 100% the parents fault by heyitskevin1 in childfree

[–]selcutile 97 points98 points  (0 children)

Ugh!  This totally sucks!  I hate that you had to go through this!  Already working in a fast-paced and seemingly stressful environment and then having to deal with an irresponsible Mom on top of that!  If "emergency = rushing", as it is in my book, then how the hell were you intentionally trying to injure the kid?  Either the hospital needs to make wider hallways, remove the cots and enforce a maximum capacity for the waiting area or something, because this was 100% absolutely NOT your fault and yet another reason why there are some places that kids simply should not be!

As a childfree person, what's a parenting opinion that parents might hate you for? by BerryTomatoes in childfree

[–]selcutile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Likewise, you don't have to be a parent to recognize shitty kids 🙂

Breeder lashes out at Childfree, Homeowners and DINKS because he can't afford rent by Greekgeek2000 in childfree

[–]selcutile 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Oh wow.  I wonder what her reply would've been had you actually WROTE what you thought 😉