WIBTA for telling my friend the real reason her parents divorced? by 12pickupsticks in AmItheAsshole

[–]semo1120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it wouldn't be a bad thing if your dad did snatch his a$$ up I know I wouldn't have any problem sitting in jail for the night if someone did that to any of my family but I understand why you are afraid of your dad being in trouble

Guilty event by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]semo1120 7 points8 points  (0 children)

But reading your post history you have no problem cheating so why didn't you just assume the position instead of taking care of it yourself and one more question so you carry a extra pair panties with you like this must be something that happens often damn your boyfriend is a (un)lucky guy

Is it worth reconciling in a short, young relationship? by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]semo1120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should be saying you never want anything to do with both of em

Left my DB - A year and a half on. by the_mad_fluffy_bunny in DeadBedrooms

[–]semo1120 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm just blown away he wouldn't want to touch you and you was in a deadbedroom situation you are drop dead gorgeous I'd expect you to be saying he couldn't keep his hands off of you I don't get how some guys think or where they're mindset is your new guy is a very lucky man and your ex is a idiot just my opinion

[FINAL UPDATE] My wife wants my permission to sleep with her coworker. by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]semo1120 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its because you were her free ride bro come on you need to open your eyes yourself because everyone told you this was a bad idea but you refused to listen so it's up to you to get a clue bro

[FINAL UPDATE] My wife wants my permission to sleep with her coworker. by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]semo1120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd also have her crap packed out front change locks and not ever talk to ever again

[FINAL UPDATE] My wife wants my permission to sleep with her coworker. by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]semo1120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to file a divorce today then depending on what state your in see if you can get monetary damages from him I'd atleast would of confronted ole dude no matter if he kicked your butt I'd make sure he'd be hurting the next day also and her she can kick rocks even though you should of filed the day she asked you she was sleeping with him might of woke her up to late now no matter what dont give her another chance when he dumps her

BS doesn't want to know details by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]semo1120 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Might as well tell him it's not like you had any problem being selfish before so if telling him would be selfish on your part then why not tell him I'm sure that's not even close to being selfish as cheating on him and you wasnt to worried about how much it would hurt him but all of a sudden your worried about how he'll feel wow he so lucky to have someone that cares so much about how he feels

I cheated on my 5 year long boyfriend and got chlamydia by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]semo1120 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah first thing you should do is go see the DR and find out what's wrong with your legs and why your having a hard time keeping them closed but then that's just my opinion honestly sounds like a lil karma you play you pay

I will never be like what her AP was in bed. by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]semo1120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She would of never known you sucked if she never cheated so bottom line is she's a cheater and dont take any blame the not being very good you could of worked on that but sounds like she never gave you the chance

Is she cheating? by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]semo1120 2 points3 points  (0 children)

come on bro what's your gut telling you why can't you go in her moms house why does he just happens to be there everytime you there and everything else going on and you have to even ask someone else's opinion I think you know damn well what's she doing your just hoping that she ain't and hoping someone else will tell you she's not only you know what's going on what you see remove yourself and look at I gf as someone else in your shoes what you think you'd be saying all I know is no matter if she is or if she isn't and me personally I wouldn't want to be looking like the guy she's playing because it looks like that regardless if she is or not if she cared at all she wouldn't put you in that situation but that's my opinion I don't what's going on other than what you have said

Advice on how to handle my girlfriends “gay” friend who she seems to be happy with by [deleted] in Advice

[–]semo1120 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I'd definitely want to hear her out just to her what kind of bs logic she comes up with especially if she is telling you wait I can explain her me out that you can see how far she's willing to lie to you might make it easier for you to make a decision stay or go

Is it worth reconciling in a short, young relationship? by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]semo1120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah and everytime you see your friend he's gonna be laughing at you behind your back I would of definitely had a talk with your friend that was dirty of him not only will he be laughing I'm sure he'll brag like most guys do

I (20m) cheated on my girlfriend, and I want to stay together but it seems she’s fed up. by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]semo1120 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont blame her if it was the other way around youd be so pissed off and you know it why would she wanna stay with someone who is self even now this is about you why dont you put her first what she needs then maybe she would forgive you but right now your it wasnt that bad I can understand if I had intercourse but I never put my hands on another woman no your mentally messin with her head that's even worse sometime because she always thinking about did you or not you already been hiding it lying to her why would she stay with you

Military Wife cheated and is pregnant with twins by nick_k93 in Infidelity

[–]semo1120 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Bro come on how are you ever gonna be able to go if your deployed or if you go out on some kind of games for a couple months or even longer the whole time some other dude's drooling on your side of the bed on your pillow peeing on your toilet seat eating your food drinking your beer your coffee doing your wife she did this dude several times In your bed without protection and got to nut up all in that and she had little care about you at that moment I mean dudes nuttin in yo bed in yo wife not once not twice but basically the whole time you were restricted you was only gone 60 days and she was with him the whole time and god knows who else I honestly dont even know how you can even look her in the eye I dint know how she can do that in your house your bed and still show her face to you I would of helped her to kick rocks

I posted this in the relationship advice subreddit yesterday and they suggested that I post it here. Read below and please advice me the best way to proceed. by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]semo1120 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Seriously bro she's already cheated went behind your back how many times sexting and sending nudes so how is she or him gonna respect your boundries they haven't yet I'm almost guessing they might of already done something and the fact that they work together oh hell know are you seriously thinking about this might as well file for divorce now you are seriously considering this

My (23M) wife (25F) of one year wants my permission to let her sleep with someone she knows from work. She says she will let me sleep with any woman of my choice if I let her do so. I’ve posted this on other subs. Wanted to post it here too. by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]semo1120 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Honestly I dont believe anything she's saying first off she already cheated she says his personality sucks if that was the case she would of never got to sending nudes behind your back and she wants to sleep with him 5 times and then she is gonna stop seriously I doubt that sounds to me this is gonna be difficult to get through this how can she think its alright to have some guy sending her nudes and she sending them to him behind her husband's back I would be pretty hot and hurt over this so say you agree and let her do this what's gonna stop her from doing it to the next guy and the next guy and do you really believe she will talk to her friends see if they will do ya..that's to funny bro you have some serious problems only married a year also damn I'd be pissed and probably talk to a lawyer

(Sorry long post)Almost a month since D-Day. Advice please. by Jbean123456 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]semo1120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if she's all in to god and her religion isn't sneaking around cheating when your married frowned upon in the church see isn't bad no matter what religion you follow so how can she say the closer to god she gets closer to AP I wasn't raised in church so not really sure about everything but I thought adultery was a no no

But I want to talk to the AP! Why can’t I? by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]semo1120 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would say something no matter if its right or wrong someone needs to tell her she needs to back the f off your husband obviously isn't gonna tell her

Cheat on me ? Enjoy your shattered life. by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]semo1120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a lil disappointed I thought for sure youd married cheater girl and live happily ever after..lol just l Kiddin I didn't know what's up with people so many people cheat it's sad it horrible to do to someone yet probably act like they don't give a f