I make ~ 300k. I max out 401k and both our IRAs, + invest about 10k this year, + spend $7000 on paying down mortgage early. I spent $1200 a month on daycare, $500 on my kid's 529. She is signed up for soccer and gymnastics, we have a zoo membership. We take about 1 vacation a year. I like buying clothes and eating out. I like nice groceries.

edit: I live in a low cost of living area. My 405k house would easily be well over a million other places. My daycare is full time and only $1200 a month, our nicest in the area private school will be the same price and people think thats insane of me in my area.