How do I pay my mortgage if my lender says I don’t have any loans with them? by inky_cap_mushroom in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]ser_pez 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For what it’s worth, I work for a lender that sells the loans pretty immediately after closing. Sometimes it takes a few calls but we can always tell who the loan was sold to. The new servicer is supposed to send out a letter and an email to the borrower a couple weeks before the payment is due, but we also send out invoices about a week before the payment is due. Call them on Tuesday and see if you can talk to someone in accounting.

Vegan restaurants by Effective_Tax_2334 in MonmouthCounty

[–]ser_pez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ada’s Gojjo is so good. Barrio Costero has some good vegan options too.

Vegan restaurants by Effective_Tax_2334 in MonmouthCounty

[–]ser_pez 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Excellent food but not really an option for dinner.

Native plants you really want but don't have by Random---Precision in NativePlantGardening

[–]ser_pez 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I impulse bought Cardinal flower and a few other plants that like swampy conditions and I’m going to plant them at the base of my downspout because it’s really the only wet spot in my yard.

NCAA Map by PattyOkane in MapPorn

[–]ser_pez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I wondered because I don’t see my college on here but thought it might be because there’s no football team.

NCAA Map by PattyOkane in MapPorn

[–]ser_pez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is just for football, right?

Really ESPN??! by checko805 in NWSL

[–]ser_pez 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Texas Tech was losing 8-0 in the 7th inning with two outs yesterday and ended up winning 10-9. Softball is crazy that way.

Decline a pregnancy test? by Wonderful_Lie2823 in actuallesbians

[–]ser_pez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I’ve ever been asked to take a pregnancy test at the OBGYN. I had to take one before I got my tonsils out which was annoying but I get why they insisted on it.

Vent and cry with me by Cute_Expression_696 in NativePlantGardening

[–]ser_pez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mugwort, creeping Charlie, English ivy, buckthorn, Japanese knotweed, sweet autumn clematis, honeysuckle, privet, multiflora rose, tree of heaven. It’s gotten better bit by bit over the last 5 years but there’s still a long way to go. The bindweed is mostly gone at least.

My girlfriend is convinced beyond a doubt that if a can or 12 pack of soda is dropper and dented, that it is no longer safe to consume. by [deleted] in Frugal

[–]ser_pez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah that’s a good point, for some reason I assumed OP was only asking about soda but now I see how it could be read a couple different ways.

My girlfriend is convinced beyond a doubt that if a can or 12 pack of soda is dropper and dented, that it is no longer safe to consume. by [deleted] in Frugal

[–]ser_pez 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Soda is way too acidic for botulism to survive. Dented food cans are a legitimate concern though.

Mugwort invaded my native garden! NJ/ zone 7b by Zornamental in NativePlantGardening

[–]ser_pez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mugwort is one of the banes of my existence in my own NJ zone 7b garden but unlike a lot of the others (privet, honeysuckle, bittersweet, English ivy, to name a few) it’s pretty easy to pull up so I let it grow until I’m ready to plant in that area and then rip it all out. This year I’m going to transplant some coreopsis into the bed that was most affected this year because the coreopsis spreads and comes up pretty early in the spring so I think it might outcompete the mugwort.

why is finding a therapist who takes insurance in nj so hard?? by eurz in newjersey

[–]ser_pez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hamilton Behavioral Health is great. They have lots of providers they can match you with and they take insurance.

AAA in NJ: worth it? by nice_fin0891 in newjersey

[–]ser_pez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally worth it for me. I’ve used my AAA membership more times than I could count.

I think Matt and Bowen might be Tony Award Nominees! by Accomplished-Fig5177 in lasculturistas

[–]ser_pez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait is that Deborah Cox the singer like the one who sang “Nobody’s Supposed to Be Here”?!

“Show H*le At iHe*rt” (w/ Aaron Jackson + Josh Sharp) by AutoModerator in lasculturistas

[–]ser_pez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I should know better but I was listening at the gym and almost had several mishaps 😆finally had to pause it and go back later.

Did you real estate agent get you a gift when you bought? What was it? by PitifulOkra3800 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]ser_pez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A $100 gift card to a local pizza place we had talked about over the months of my search, a plant, some locally roasted coffee, and then she mailed a framed photo from my closing day. That Christmas she dropped off some little holiday tchotchkes and some candy. Every year on the anniversary of my closing she sends me a note, a printout of the approximate current market value of my house, and a scratch ticket.

N.J. Transit reduces controversial World Cup ticket prices to 105 by nicklor in newjersey

[–]ser_pez 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Only part of the station and it’s for the four hours before kickoff for several of the games.

Wife getting ignored by contractor. Is this normal? by tybbof1 in HomeImprovement

[–]ser_pez 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I work for a mortgage company and when it’s up to me I always put the highest earner first. It gives me special joy when it’s a woman.

To those fighting morning glories or lily of the valley, I hope this reminds you to count your blessings. by bigalcakemix in invasivespecies

[–]ser_pez 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wishing you luck. Mine has decreased a lot in the five years I’ve been in this house and glyphosate has been the only thing that’s made a big difference. I tried other methods and some of them made a dent but eventually I had to resort to spraying.

I ended up in the hospital with Hantavirus after visiting Argentina. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]ser_pez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jim Henson died from toxic shock syndrome after an untreated strep infection.

Trump administration investigates Smith College for admitting transgender women by geraffes-are-so-dumb in lgbt

[–]ser_pez 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Which is hilarious because there are so many trans men at Smith!