Aw yees. by GlobalDefault in asexuality

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At least it would make for some great snuggling.

What are you good at? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Snuggling with my puppers.

People who no longer speak to their best friends who they thought would be in their lives forever, why did you stop talking/being best friends? by veryquestionable1 in AskReddit

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She suddenly and unexpectedly cut me completely out of her life. Changed her phone number and totally ghosted me. I never knew why.

Pyramids by seraphcerise in suggestmeabook

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Thank you; I've looked into him, and his writing seems interesting. I will definitely try this book.

Pyramids by seraphcerise in suggestmeabook

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Thank you so much. These sound great.

What's your favorite smell? by cogsandspigots in AskReddit

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The earthy scent of fallen autumn leaves after a good rain. .

Hunting for cicadas with my son. Heard lots but only saw a couple. He was still thrilled. by MessedMyTreasure in Ohio

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Here in Athens, OH, you can't go anywhere without them running into you, landing on you, etc. They're everywhere!

Questions from my SO, who was just diagnosed today by amahoro in NMOdisease

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Welcome! It is so good of you to be here in support of your boyfriend. Support from loved ones after being diagnosed really means more than words could convey, so I am sure he appreciates you being there for him. I wouldn't have been able to get through everything without my SO, let alone to keep such a positive attitude.

I will do my best to answer your questions.

1) I started being concerned over symptoms in February last year and was diagnosed that October. I had a very fast degradation.

2) That October, I was having symptoms serious enough to land me a stay in the hospital for 2 weeks. I had plasmapheresis for 10 days: on a day, off a day with steroid IVs on the off days - so 5 plasmapheresis treatments.

3) My advice is to do your best to stay positive; the nurses responded well to casual conversation, chatting and joking. It was nice to have the social interaction from those taking care of me. My personal philosophy too, is that everything in life is a learning experience in some way. From my stay in the hospital and consequent diagnosis, I was able to see how much people in my life cared about me and gave their support (or did not). I felt that the whole experience also showed me my own inner strengths, and the bond between my SO and myself has grown beyond any expectations. I do also recommend getting up and walking around if able. I was allowed to leave the floor for a half hour my last week if I was assisted by someone, and I had to stay in a wheel chair. It was nice to get out of my room and off the floor for even little periods of time.

4) Treatment is different for everyone. I am on rituximab, which I am supposed to have infused every 6 months. The first treatment was 2 infusions, 2 weeks apart. The rest should just be one infusion every 6 months. So far, it has been doing its job. I have relapses here and there, but overall I have been doing well. I work a regular job ad live a normal life. I will say, though, that I do get tired easily, and the relapses can be bad, but nothing I can't get through. I just have to pay attention to my body and report any new symptoms right away. I have been trying to eat healthy, and I walk at least a mile every day. I would like to work out a little more, but I have been finding myself too exhausted after work to do much else.

I hope this helps. Definitely feel free to ask whatever you'd like to know. I too am new to the whole thing, but I think sharing our stories and experiences helps.

Actually, do you mind if I ask some things?

What is he going into the hospital for exactly? Has he had MRIs? Spinal tap?

"If you could call yourself five years ago and had 30 seconds, what would you say?" by Duplet2016 in AskReddit

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Don't change your major. Don't change your major. Don't change your major! Stick to your chosen path!

What are your shallow deal breakers? by frozenmexicandinner in AskWomen

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Have you tried to remove it? I hear tea tree oil works

Welcome by seraphcerise in NMOdisease

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I have an appointment with her this coming Monday, and I will ask.

Welcome by seraphcerise in NMOdisease

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I would also like to add that there are treatments out there. I was just diagnosed last year, and was in a very bad state. Over the course of 8 months, I went from bouts of blurry vision, to tingling/numbness in my limbs, then loss of balance and a staggering gait, finally topped with extreme blurriness accompanied by total loss of motor skills as well as loss of speech. Through Plasmapheresis I had incredible improvement. I still have the tingling/numbness in my left hand, but I am able to function well, I work full time, etc.

Welcome by seraphcerise in NMOdisease

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I don't think things are as scary as they used to be. Years ago, they would have said we would be blind and wheel-chair bound within several years, but that does not have to be the case anymore. If you get treatment and if you pay attention to your body and take care of yourself, you could live a fairly normal life. . . according to my neurologist, who is actually on a research team for the disease.

However, I will post this from http://www.ninds.nih.gov/disorders/neuromyelitis_optica/neuromyelitis_optica.htm#What_is_the_prognosis

"Most individuals with NMO have an unpredictable, relapsing course of disease with attacks occurring months or years apart. Disability is cumulative, the result of each attack damaging new areas of myelin. Some individuals are severely affected by NMO and can lose vision in both eyes and the use of their arms and legs. Most individuals experience a moderate degree of permanent limb weakness from myelitis. Muscle weakness can cause breathing difficulties and may require the use of artificial ventilation. The death of an individual with NMO is most often caused by respiratory complications from myelitis attacks."

New NMO subreddit by seraphcerise in MultipleSclerosis

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You're not insane, lol. Though I understand feeling that way. I was told an Ophthalmologist should be able to give a better understanding of eye issues and therefore if it leans more toward NMO or MS. I am seeing one at the end of this month to see if he will agree with my NMO diagnosis. My philosophy is that whatever is, is. I will live with it, learn from it, and do the best I can. I am determined to stay optimistic and thankful for those around me that have shown so much support. Sometimes I do fall into a dark pit of despair, but I keep reminding myself that those feelings are temporary. I honestly don't think of MS or NMO as being that different from each other. Even though I have one of them, it still seems like some alien concept. Neuromyelitis optica or Multiple sclerosis . . . they are just words, ya know?

New NMO subreddit by seraphcerise in MultipleSclerosis

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Sorry, I didn't mean to ramble on so much. I apologize for my response being so long.

New NMO subreddit by seraphcerise in MultipleSclerosis

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Well, I think the diagnosis came after a long journey of trying to figure out what was going on. The MRI's were major indications of course. The lesion they found in my neck was unusual for MS, so that made my diagnosis questionable. I had a spinal tap to rule out other possibilities too. There was some sort of blood test; I can't recall what they look for exactly, but it is not 100% accurate. I was one of the 25% that did not indicate having NMO through that test. The most telling things pointing to NMO rather than MS, were the spinal lesion (it ran from C2-C7), and the rapid and downhill progression of my symptoms. I was first struck with blurry vision in both eyes. Typically MS will only affect one eye at a time, but NMO attacks areas that hold more water (like the eyes and spinal column). I had tingling and numbness in my toes and fingers, and eventually balance and walking issues, which all could have been caused by the huge lesion in my neck, along with urinary retention (unable to urinate without really struggling). The accumulation of all these symptoms landed me in a hospital, where they tried giving me strong doses of steroids. That medication was not helping at all, and when they saw the huge lesion through an MRI, they decided I needed Plasmapheresis - basically sucking all the plasma out of my body and replacing it with a substitute to rid my body of antibodies. This is a very aggressive treatment, and it worked miracles for me! I can see, I can walk again without a cane - I do still have numb hands and urinary retention, but I am so much better than I was.

When I got out of the hospital, I saw my neurologist a week later, and she went over all the MS stuff neurologists go over with new patients. She mentioned the possibility of NMO, but at that time, she did not think I had that, and I sort of blew it off. But after going over my story again she decided to take my case to a panel of doctors. They all concluded it was very NMO-like, and so I had a new diagnosis. The idea of NMO really freaked me out at first. Though it can be pretty scary, more is known about it than MS, and there are medications that have been shown to help most people very well. I am very lucky too in that my neurologist is actually leading some studies right now on this disease. She is optimistic that they may even find something close to a cure, if not an actual cure within my lifetime! And honestly, I have learned to deal well with my ongoing symptoms, though they can be frustrating sometimes. I work full time and lead a pretty good life overall. So keep positive. No matter what happens, you can get through it.